Love / Foreign Men and Polish Girls for Citizenship [59]

AJ that is some seriously bad advice. do NOT take this as an invite to keep chatting them up!!!! if she says 'p*ss off not interested' then this is exactly what she is telling you, don't try to read between the lines. a real man will not allow a woman to treat him like dirt, offend him and call him names (and I like to think any self respecting woman will not let any guy do this to her to).

see my point is, if you keep being nice and attentive despite all the insults and put downs it will NOT make her like you, she will actually hate you more and more each time you come back with a new line. just leave it, you tried, she doesn't want you and she doesn't want you to keep trying. it reeks of desperation and no self respect.

do not encourage 'shy guys' out there to practice this as it'll not work to their advantage. they say a woman who says no really means yes but it depends HOW she says it! if she's like 'oh best not I really don't think so' while she is giggling and playing with her hair then YES she means YES. if she says 'for the last time NO NO NO go jack off to those few pictures of me you saved off nasza klasa before I blocked you and leave me alone' then you have no chances whatsoever!

to all of you men out there, be men, be strong and if a girl puts you down when all you were doing is trying to get her attention then steer clear from her, she is not worth it. no woman will ever love or respect a man who BEGS for their attention. make a girl WANT your attention, tell her a compliment and say you have to go see your friends now and walk away, she'll be checking you out all evening and it's down the hill from there to take her out! chances are, if the nasty girls who offend you get the cold shoulder, they will come back begging for your attention as it was a cheap trick. but do you want a girl who plays mind games? think about it.

Love / Not used to dating a Polish man [28]


well he obviously wasn't stealing tampons (although *apparently* some people soak tampons in vodka and shove them up their &%$£), he just got caught breaking into the machine and stealing the change that women paid with for tampons, painkillers etc. quite embarassing as I don't imagine there would be a lot of money in there, especially if it's just a pub and not some busy nightclub or something.

Love / Not used to dating a Polish man [28]


lol! ah such a charmer ;). from what I've seen and heard from friends, Polish guys in Poland will treat a woman nicely, offer to pay, open doors, even pull the chair out. it seems they forget about that once they go abroad, although the guys I worked with (not dated them though, they were all married) were always polite to women too, but then their marriages fell apart so I dunno... haven't dated any Polish guys in UK, but a couple of old work colleagues (British) dated Polish men and they sounded a bit like the men from stories above, very elusive after they got their assurance from the girl and never took them out anywhere nice. one was actually sacked from his job at the local pub because he was stealing money from the tampon machine in the ladies room ha ha...

Language / How to pronounce the Polish word "w" in sentences? [15]


yeah, you pronounce it. w is like an equivalent to v, similar sound. Kot jest w domu - Cot yest v (or voo) d'oh - moo


it's more like tso

Love / Goal: Meet a nice Polish girl! [60]

you ask me, i dunno? they will most likely go for a Polish guy in the end, to marry and have kids with, but seems to be a trend to go for 'exotic' guys. it was never something i wanted or fancied, if i met a decent Polish guy here in Uk then i don't see why not but hey, didn't happen. actually i have one stalking me, but that's another story and he's not what i'd call boyfriend material.

Love / Goal: Meet a nice Polish girl! [60]


ha ha. that's too funny, plenty of english men to go around in england. i'm not greedy and i got a bf, but other polish girls seem to prefer turks and pakistanis anyway ;)


for a one night stand i understand (rhyme unintentional) but for a wife? come on.

Love / Goal: Meet a nice Polish girl! [60]

i didn't move to england with a purpose of meeting an english/british bloke. big difference. plus i lived here for nearly 7 years and don't get to meet that many polish men, all of them around here are married or pretending not to be anyway lol

Love / Goal: Meet a nice Polish girl! [60]

Why do you guys keep doing this to yourselves? I know everyone wants the best possible candidate for a partner out there but why does it have to come down to that person being foreign, Polish or whatever else? She will have a completely different mind state to yours (especially if you want a younger woman which I am guessing you do), different upbringing, different values etc. etc. just because she's Polish doesn't mean she will be loyal and honest, it is all about the person. Yes, a lot of Polish women are brought up to be a good wife and mother, to care for their husband and children and not go sleeping around, but them and their parents will most likely expect a Polish bloke, not a single American bachelor, rich or not. I think wealth makes it actually more difficult because as soon as some girls smell the money they will stick to you like glue, but for all the wrong reasons. I would say there is an equal chance for you to find a woman in your country to have all the values and virtues you expect as women in Poland will, and your native local women will have more in common with you too. Saves you long haul flights back and forth to Europe to visit the family whether you like it or not, cos belivee me you will have to do that. I have same questions as Fuzzywickets actually, how do you imagine this 'fishing trip' in Poland? I saw a program about an actual company (can't remember the name) in the US organising trips for American men to Russia in order to help them find wives there, hotel and venues full of single and willing Russian women included. Dunno about 'package holidays' like that to Poland but I am close to being offended at the thought of a western bloke going wife hunting in eastern (Central) Europe because girls over there are supposed to be more submissive and easier to woo, take back home away from their roots and marry. It just doesn't sound right... It's not a flea market!

Travel / Cheap hotel price in Warsaw? [16]

I booked a Queen bed at the Holiday Inn on Zlota for about £40 for the night, thought it was quite cheap and good location but you can probably get it cheaper. Are your friends scottish, Jonny? ;)

Love / Hot Polish girls in clubs - why don't they dance/talk with the most attractive men only? [148]


ha ha ha have you seriously read this before you posted it and not thought just how freakin ridiculous you sound?:

coloured people and people with ponytails, some are ugly but not all of them but many of them and certainly more than you'd like to admit, they are guilty and deserve abuse! they are on MY territory stealing MY women, how dare they, being so ugly and nasty!! i'm average so i should have an average chance not no chance at all! boo hoo hoo! can't wank either cos i strained both my wrists now and my dog avoids me and doesn't stand with its back to me anymore.

no matter how you word whatever your problem with (not)getting laid is, to me and everyone else it sounds like the above paragraph. delusional sociopaths like you tend to become serial rapists and murderers one day.


well, i suppose some people are plain racist and dislike coloured people simply because they are coloured. now you, you dislike them because they, let me quote cos i really like quoting this one, "steal your women". what does that make you? JEALOUS?


maybe move to another country where all the girls date loser virgins? :) those girls don't date you and other guys they deem useless and unattractive so that makes them have bad taste? you need a reality check, it's not about them it's about YOU.


that 's alright then! lol. so tell me which ones deserve it again? all the ones who "steal" your women from you? this is hilarious.


for stealing women from you? we should make a new law for that in Poland, just to ensure that you do get laid at least once before you kick the bucket. :D


i don't believe you'll find anyone's address around here, it's called common sense not to give away stuff like that. everyone knows my name and everyone's seen my pictures back when they were allowed. i also am friends on facebook and nasza klasa with some of this forums members, have chats outside the forum with them so i am me, i don't come here to pretend i'm someone else and try to justify my racism and lack of sex in my life like yourself. i wouldn't say i was anonymous at all, unlike you. we haven't even seen your ugly face. :)


one of the quirks of freedom of speech is that nobody has to agree with you either, and by the sounds of it nobody does. disappointed much? or still deluding yourself that you're onto something?


ha ha oh my, you just described my type ;D. i see i really hit a nerve there since you feel inclined to offend me in this way because of the fact that i disagree looks have nothing to do with your problem with women. your problem with women is YOU jarnowa, YOU. women don't date you because they know better than that.


someone who is physically unattractive, or shall i put not everyones cup of tea, can still be an attractive potential partner. an idiot and ass*hole such as yourself, even if he's good looking (we all know you're obviously not) is like a piece of sh*t in a pretty wrapper. you'll smell the sh*t when you unwrap.


do they have like remote controls that send signals to women's brains? something like in Stepford Wives? ;D or maybe ugly guys are really aliens and they send those waves to implants in their brains and tooth fillings to control them? you are funny as f*ck jarnowa.


bottom line is my friend, everyone around you is getting laid, all you can do is ponder, speculate, offend and accuse anyone who's getting some while you're not. get a life, ass*hole!

Life / Uptight Poles [262]


all depends on the person. i thought i had made friends for life before and they randomly started avoiding me, getting their partner or whatever to make excuses for them. i've even seen people say on this forum about their Polish friends starting to ignore them out of the blue and not giving an explanation as to why that is, and I have to say from my own experience as well that this does happen. so maybe this is not what we're best at after all? :)

UK, Ireland / Will a Playstation 3 purchased in UK work in Poland? [6]

Yeah i know the difference between Pal and NTSC. Just wondered if the playstation will work. Different socket plugs or voltages, that kind of thing.

Love / Hot Polish girls in clubs - why don't they dance/talk with the most attractive men only? [148]


many MANY many girls all over the world have freakin awful taste in men and to top it off they stick to the same 'type' all their lives! besides, personal taste is not a matter of discussion, it's personal for a reason.


all the racist and ignorant bull&^%$ ever since you joined this forum. the deep rooted jealousy and hatred of any bloke who has some kind of success with the ladies, labelling people and hiding on the internet to stab them in the back because you're too much of a coward to face up to your fears and flaws in real life. oh and lets not forget - an ocean full of self pity.

:)


what's ugly according to you (coloured people and guys with long hair are not ugly, just different) is a matter of taste to each and every one of us. tell you what though, if they can make use of their "ugliness" while at the same time your "averageness" gets you absolutely nowhere, tell me who's the real loser here? as soon as you admit to it you might start making some progress in that sad non existent love life of yours. isn't it depressing that the only love life and romance in your life is the one you watch from afar between other people who are strangers to you? :(


wrong is not the right word here, desperate and sad are far more suitable

Life / Uptight Poles [262]


Can't disagree. I would also like to add resourceful and stubborn to the list. As for salaries, the money doesn't seem to go very far, with pays really low and employers expectations really high. Yes the Polish Zloty got stronger against Euros, Dollars and Pounds but also since joining the EU prices continue to go up. That's where Polish resourcefulness comes handy, but kombinowanie can be very stressful and leaves a lot of Poles grumpy and hard faced ;).

Love / Hot Polish girls in clubs - why don't they dance/talk with the most attractive men only? [148]


It's funny to see you post a thread asking questions about why Polish girls go for such and such guys everytime you see them hook up with everyone else but you :). Like someone said on the previous page, maybe your inner ugliness shows on your face? :)

Life / Uptight Poles [262]


exactly, people are so in your face, not everybody needs to drink to have a good time

;)

Love / Hot Polish girls in clubs - why don't they dance/talk with the most attractive men only? [148]

forget Polish girls, seems that jarnowa is venting about something else on the internet now:

youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=AK9aZyJJNIo

Life / Uptight Poles [262]


you should've shouted after her "no point running now, it's already in your lungs!!" ;)

I see your point, I probably wouldn't hang out with people who were doing something i couldn't accept, instead of hanging out with the and whining about it or demanding they stop. Respect is something that works both ways and hell, there are much more upsetting things people can do to you out there than smoking in your presence. Can't believe the arrogance of some people sometimes, patronising and demanding things for no other reason but "because I say so".

Love / Hot Polish girls in clubs - why don't they dance/talk with the most attractive men only? [148]

It's not the black guys this time stealing jarnowas women, it's the pony tailed guys.

pffttttt.....

Love / What are my chances of finding a decent Polish lady? [24]


not really lol...


depends what you're after and what she's after, if you like younger women then it's gonna be more difficult to find one who won't try to use her pretty looks on you and want you to pay pay pay till she gets bored and runs off. just being honest, how much younger are we talking about here? i don't know if you have a better chance of finding a girl who meets all your expectations by travelling to Poland, what about the language barrier? try to chat up local Polish women, no point going all the way to Poland if there's so many of them out here. or are you just hoping that maybe native Polish girls in Poland will be nicer ad more sincere?? you're not going to go there and kidnap one and bring her back are you lol? if anything, especially if the girl is still quite young, her parents will probably strongly disapprove. there are a couple of Polish dating sites out there for people who live in UK so maybe check that out if the Polish factor is so important to you.

Love / Poland wow wife [52]


of course they can, i'm just waiting to see what he doesn't like about Poland now that he hates Ireland so much. if I posted something like oh Britain's a sh!thole full of scumbags and I'm moving somewhere else for a better life then what would be the point in that other than trying to offend people who are British or live there? see?


racist? i think it's not a matter of question where most people would prefer to live if they had a choice between Ireland and, say, Pakistan? if the guy loves his country so much then why don't he go back there? I'm being just about as much racist as he is, if you wanna put it that way.

Love / Poland wow wife [52]


love it how some people like to think that if they live in a certain country they are automatically from there. at the end of the day buddy, limerick ain't as bad as Pakistan, or wherever the hell you're from...


i dunno where you got your education, but you seriously struggle with spelling and punctuation.


love your use of English, you could be an illegal immigrant who arrived into Britain hidden in a lorry. are you?

Love / Polish relationships (race and religion) [140]


drogi rycerzu, skoroś tak szlachetny, czemu całe życie puszczasz się z dziwkami???

dear knight, if you are so noble, why do you spend you life bedding wh*res???

...oh, and it's Polscy rycerze

UK, Ireland / Do Poles and EU Citizens exploit the British welfare state [129]


really? i know of people sat on their asses in a council flat playing playstation all day because they are 'autistic'. if you have to go through exams and embarassing questions then why the hell do so many people manage to lie their way through it?? i think that in case of your relative, they feel like they have to pick someone as an 'example' to show just how difficult it is to get money off the state but there are serious loopholes in the system and millions of people take advantage of it everyday.

UK, Ireland / Do Poles and EU Citizens exploit the British welfare state [129]


yes but they also have to prove they are actively searching for employment and go for interviews to keep getting those lousy what, £60 a week? now if you have kids or a disability (obesity is the new disability) it goes into more interesting figures and you have to prove nothing, this is where i think the problem is. a lot of times people make stuff up and you get an article in a paper almost everyday about people cheating the state out of thousands of £££ because they were lying and nobody checked on their story. even if they get caught, they have no means to pay it back so they get a few hours of community service and off they go, free to scheme some more.

yes, the immigrants legal or not, and lets not forget gypsies, are a strain on just about every service there is but those services need an overhaul themselves, such as perhaps less bureaucrats and 'admin' and more staff to cure people and catch criminals on the streets. and for gods sake, the standards of education, they are breeding a generation of morons. people have less and less incentive to educate themselves and have a career, after all why bother if you can be a single parent (that's when it pays most, forget about a full family with mum and dad in one house) with a bunch of kids and do nothing for a living, or figure out what disability you may want to fake, and still be better off than those of us who have jobs.


i don't think that this is how it works, definitely not why people leave Poland, it's for work not for the welfare. it's just a "bonus" and still not everyone knows how to figure out the paperwork, plus with constant errors with their computer systems, people find themeselves in a situation where they have to pay back a couple of thousand back to the state because they've been paid too much in child or housing benefit. happened to 2 Polish people i know anyway.

now people with Polish flags all over their house and backyard and cyfra+ satellite dishes stuck to their roofs, that's kinda laughable...

News / Polish people humiliated in the latest episode of Family Guy [51]

Family Guy is a load of cr*p, sorry never liked it! Has anyone seen the Land of the Lost with Will Ferrell? He makes a joke about the Polish people too, mocking the t-rex and referring to his tiny brain as being smaller than a Pole's brain, or something along those lines. I guess they make fun of everyone these days, I just hate Family Guy, which is so frustrating because everyone I know seems to absolutely love it...

UK, Ireland / Do Poles and EU Citizens exploit the British welfare state [129]


if they worked till then and paid taxes then why the hell shouldn't they take advantage of it? what about teenage moms who never worked a day in their stinking chavvy lives, living off the state and popping a new kid out every year, going on holidays and having a place to live and everything they will ever need provided by the taxpayers? oh but i forgot that's ok cos they're British, even though they never contributed and never will contribute to anything. some people should really look from a different perspective before they point their finger. supposed to have this massive benefits system overhaul yonks ago, still waiting. in the meantime, lets make the cost of living even higher so we can carry on supporting all these lowlives.

Language / Need Advice On Polish-English language barrier (my Polish boyfriend and his family) [59]

Whenever I take my boyfriend to Poland I sit there and translate as they go (helps me with my English, translating like that is like the next level and I always try to improve myself too ;). I would never leave him alone like that, it's just plain rude. My ex did that to me notoriously, wandered off with his brother and I was stuck in the house with his sister or nieces for hours and he didn't see what the problem was, I speak English so why am I complaining right.

I suppose it all depends on the people, you can tell when they're sincere even if you can't communicate, or if they just blatantly don't like you. I don't think it would matter to them whether you were Polish or not, it would be equally uncomfortable to sit there with your boyfriends family and try to make small talk about the weather for 4 hours... You see how it is now before you guys get any more serious, it should be kind of a red flag right there, the bloke should get interested instead of giving you attitude and acting like a tw*t. It's probably one of the most serious issues in relationships between people who come from different countries, after a while their family comes into the picture and obviously you want to get on with them as well, and that's where you need your other half most. They can't just wander off and expect you to take care of yourself, you are a guest in their family home and they should be there by your side, not out because they have better things to do. Why the hell bring you there in the first place, for decoration? Makes you feel a bit like you're tagging along rather than being a part of something important doesn't it.

By all means learning a new, very difficult foreign language is a great challenge, but I think in your case you feel like you have to learn rather than want to and it'll make it harder. Whether the boyfriend appreciates your efforts or not is a completely different matter but I have a feeling he will just take it for granted, after all you chose to be with him so it's up to you if you wanna learn Polish or not, you're on your own. Yes yes, you are not getting married (if you ever decide to) to his family but to him, but for god's sake, that's not how you treat the person you're supposed to love and want to be with forever. Think about it.

(been there, done it, got a t-shirt lol)

Language / Need Advice On Polish-English language barrier (my Polish boyfriend and his family) [59]

No offence but your boyfriend doesn't really sound that bothered about the fact that you're struggling with this, especially that he doesn't try to communicate with your mum. Sit down with him and tell him that something has to be done, you're in this together, why can't he help you instead of laughing at you? Is leaving you alone with his family for hours at a time his idea of helping you learn? How can people who live in a foreign country for several years not know even the basics of its language anyway, it's out of order. Tell him that if you guys are planning to be together and get engaged you need to do things properly, he helps you learn Polish and you help him learn Romanian or he sits there with you and translates so that you can have a conversation with his family. Polish is a very difficult language to learn for a foreigner but it is not impossible, you just have to keep practising and who's better to practice with than Lukasz? Browse through this forum, plenty of good tips and a lot of people to help.