Hot Polish girls in clubs - why don't they dance/talk with the most attractive men only?

Yesterday i witnessed again this strange phenomenon: very hot girls that could get any guy yet choose below average looking guys to talk/dance with.

I'm used that they never show interest in me, but it would be much more easy to accept my fate if these hot girls were only showing interest in the best looking guys and if they would ignore or act cold to approaches from other guys.

But i saw a hottie dancing with a very mediocre guy. Is this typical Polish that hot girls who love dancing don't really care if she is asked on the dancefloor by a guy that should only get such attractive girl in his dirty dreams?

And another hottie that was approached by 3 guys or so kept on talking with the least attractive of them. Maybe she liked what he said, but come one...girls know that guys who start talking to them on the dancefloor are after 1 thing, so why didn't she cut the conversation short so she could be approached by better looking guys? I almost wanted to say to the girl "can't you see that you are way too beautiful for that guy?". I'm sure the guy felt like he was Brad Pitt. A look in the mirror would have told him that he was just lucky to speak to such hottie. And that the girl was simply too blind to see that there were more than enough better looking guys.

What's more. I noticed that even ugly pony-tailed guys got lucky with girls that looked better than average. You will probably know that kind of guys. Often a head that makes a pig look good. And to compensate for their ugly head they grow their hair (shaving themselves bald would even make them look worse) and place tattoos. While a few guys look better with long hair, in most cases an ugly guy with a pony tail of dead straw makes him look worse. So you expect these guys to only have the most ugly girls, but in Poland some girls seem to think: ugly head + pony tail = cool guy = sexy. I returned home with utter disgust about the taste of so many Polish girls.

I know not all Polish girls are like that, but i wonder why so many attractive Polish girls talk/dance with guys in clubs that are way below them in terms of looks. Thank you for sharing your dating experiences. :)

Did you ever think they have more to offer than just looks?

Would you be interested in the personality of a girl with a so-so face and a flat chest approaching you in a club full of attractive women?

Maybe your inner ugliness shows on your face

In general, females love a man with a great sense of humor. And someone who is confident. Maybe the men that hold their attention are funny and full of confidence.

Many girls like guys that have guts and self confidence. If a guy can walk up to a girl to talk to her for the first time it shows that he has both. There might have been some much better looking guys in the club but lacked the guts and self confidence to go talk to those girls.

Therefore the girls could have chosen the average looking guys that had more guts and self confidence than the good looking ones that didn't.

It is a complicated phenomenon.Let's say there are some reasons:
1.The girl supposes that the ugly guy will be more faithful to her due to lack of competition
2.The girl supposes that the ugly guy will be better in sex because he needs to compensate
3.The girl supposes that the ugly guy will have a better character not too arrogant or self obsessed and having been through difficulties
4.Generally she supposes the ugly guy to be stronger

So good appearance can really backfire.Only if you control all terms you can be successful because opposite logic is always at the corner to prevail.

there are few extraordinarily handsome guys in Poland. and the ones who are often behave as if they were gods and look like very metrosexual machos. Polish girls prefer average guys because they feel they can have fun with them

jarnowa


A very very very dear friend of mine in Poland has a ponytail and whilst he's no Brad Pitt, he's one of the most inteligent and interesting guys Ive ever had the pleasure to meet and sh*g so maybe you are missing the point...maybe a lot of hot Polish girls find personality important...so good for them and the more I read of your post..Im thinking you are going to die a very unhappy virgin!!

I guess when a Woman is that hot she can get any man she wants.
Therefor she gets what she doesn't have.

So it is often a guy who is different.

Maybe a guy who is very big, or very feminine or a guy with an extremely manly pug face. Just because she doesn;'t have that.

Usually this so-called "confidence" of ugly guys is one of these:
1. they know they are too ugly for that girl, but nevertheless they give it a try (hoping she won't be too aware of her own attractiveness and their relative ugliness) because they know that many attractive girls can be manipulated into bedding a guy way below their standards.

2. mistakenly thinking that they in fact look better than other guys. this means they are unable to have a critical look at themselves.

Yes there are guys who aren't confident enough to approach, but a smart girl shouldn't be too impressed by confidence.
It makes guys only slighty more attractive, but a confident toad will still be a toad. Which means: having sex shouldn't be an option.

So i exptected this girl to give him signals that chatting was all he could ever get from her, but when the girl went to the toilet i saw this guy looking to his friends like he was doing well on the way to getting into her pants so i don't think the former happened.

She should have done that because it's bad for a stunning girl's image to be seen talking in a club with a very mediocre looking guy. Like she feels she can't get better.


So you're not in love with him and he is physically not attractive to you, yet you sh*gged him just because he is nice and intelligent?

Probably you couldn't get better looking guy.

I have a few female friends who are very nice, yet i am not interested in sh*gging them because physically they don't attract me enough.

I would say that many girls go with those that will let them be themselves and open up. Jarnowa, I guess you are merely witnessing a reality here whereby beautiful women accept that the men are just not quite up to scratch as far as comparisons go. However, social roles being social roles, many feel that they need a man and a partner so you go with what's on offer.

Besides, some of the lookers here (men) are complete bozos who probably haven't passed their Matura. Why labour through life with such airheads?

I think you be underestimating hot women...

All women...

Actually, all people...

Come to think about it, human kind!

There are no answers to your silly questions... Stop doing your research on human behaviour in bars...

(Do your friends entertain your silly notions...?)

Worked together for months when he was seconded to my office in the UK from the Warsaw office - so got to know him VERY VERY VERY well!! Actually I was very physically attracted to him...Fancied the pants off him - literally - he also got PLENTY of female attention from the other girls in the office too! You missed my point...An average looking guy with a personality to die for will get the girl any time over some loser like you who has neither...You never heard the saying "if you can make a women laugh, you're half way into her knicker" ....sooooooooo true!


Oh never had a problem attracting good looking men...but I prefer men with a bit more about them than just a pretty face...Its all subjective..what one finds attractive another may not...You are just ugly inside and out..so as I said...gonna die a virgin..


You make it sound like women are settling for second best...You dont know the women or their husbands...Those that say " you can do better" are usually those that cant manage it themselves..

Not really, Amathyst. I'm just saying that they choose from what's on offer like they have to. They make their own choices and many foreigners may see it as them settling for second best. Some do and some don't to be fair.

:-))
Love that


I think the looks is important to women but in a different way than it is to men. And there are certain qualities that are not even more important than the look, but sort of influence the way someone looks. In other words, a guy with those qualities looks more attractive than a Brad Pitt without the qualities

And because no individual, or their behaviour, can be described merely by their looks alone...

I don`t know what your age is , but I have to tell you that it is well known fact that , hot Polish girls at night clubs are looking mainly for sponsors who are rather ugly individuals ( I am talking about Polish reality ). It is rather impossible here to find young ,hot, prosperous and rich individual. I guess it is not just an attribute in Polish reality . A majority of the most attractive women ( with low IQ) get married to wealthy ugly men . And then the cheating starts ( on the side of that hottie ).

The other point I want to make is that you could name such girls who go to nightclubs to be more common than beautiful .

Young beautiful and intelligent girls don`t go out to clubs alone ( very rarely ). They find their partners at different places such as schools or universities or even workplaces . The phenomenon lies in a big difference in look of common Polish people : common Polish woman looks way better than common Polish man.

I sometimes think that Polish women would be better off taking home another Polish woman. They could compete for the title of Crown Princess and could have an all-night debate as to who has the better body ;)

Might give them a taste of their own medicine, huh?
:-)

Yep whenever the sky is dark and the gloom looms ahead as in bills, rent and such they can cheer each other up by flashing their tits, ‘hey I know it’s bad but check these out tadaa! :D

I think so, yeah :) Let them try it on and see how far they get :) If I were a Polish woman, I'd steer well clear of some of the men here too. Some of the clubgoers are as thick as 2 planks.

Food for thought.


You are rather unlucky.


I have to move to Poland.

The truth hurts! Some are pure neanderthals with no necks and I can't imagine any self-respecting woman going near them. They are vile specimens!

You reminded me of a bisexual woman I once dated. She preferred to get married (to a man) because as she noted, "women are too difficult to live with." She elaborated on how much more she could get away with when dating men. As an added aside, the highest percentage of domestic violence is with lesbian couples; followed by gay male couples; followed by heterosexual couples.

lol it seems like you end up at some really dodgy parties or the shlooonsk party scene isn't all that? :)

They seem like dresiarz.Anyway the slavic neck guarantees champions in boxing and grapling.

ZIMMY, you'd soon see the murder rate shoot up if Polish women had to live with each other ;) There can only be one princess but there are plenty competitors here.

FP, nah, just observations :)

What about satisfying a bunch of princesses?