Iwona, my friend who has been teaching me Polish was working in a bar waiting on, well I spoke to a friend of mine who works for a large insurance company / bank and now my Polish friend has a job there....My friend is very well educated and I thought it was a shame she was wasted doing what she was doing, anyway, now she doesnt have to work evenings and earns a little bit more money and like I said to her it will look good on her c.v. when she goes back to Poland next September for University....Also she'll probably get a student contract next summer when she comes back....I think if someone gives you a bit of a guiding hand and shows you its possible then your confidence is boosted - at the end of the day my mate just got her the interview she did the rest...
The reason why Polish women outnumber Polish men in terms of forming relationships with natives from the UK is generally because of the poor English that many of our country men display. A Pole with a proper English shouldn't have any problems with dating an English girl. But lets face it, many Poles can speak English only on a basic level, which is not enough to start a decent conversation with a woman. Polish girls don't have this problem, because in both of our societies men are the ones expected to trigger a flirt.
As for you Bartolome, maybe you are just looking in the wrong places?
I think also a lot of guys come over with their g/f's - maybe more single girls come over from Poland??? Maybe Polish boys dont like english girls....who knows....I dont really see any out in the bars that I go to...not that Im looking of course!
Polish gals sit around at their homes, unless they're interested in fishing some Briton, maybe they're too scared to go out, this is beyond me :) And Polish lads like very often to go out, believe me :) But perhaps they're too scared or/and shy to kick off a conversation with a British girl (e.g. me :) )
Tese are my teories about Polish singles in the UK :) If somebody thinks different, I'm not going to argue :)
I suppose you are right, English women are quite confident some of them loud. Polish men can feel little intimidated?
....I think if someone gives you a bit of a guiding hand and shows you its possible then your confidence is boosted - at the end of the day my mate just got her the interview she did the rest...
That is true but as you are English and know "local reality" your encouragement was great.
Problem is that some polish live together , work together in some factories and they don't know many English peeople that is why they are frightened to look for better job. Some do but the only the bravest ones.
No, they are somehow alien to Polish men. Maybe it's a matter of time until Polish guys would get used to this situation. Besides you're a Pole, and you're asking such questions as if you were a British :)
I am but I am woman and I work in place with very few emigrants ( quite unusal in UK :)and my husband is English so I don't really know lots polish people in UK. My few friends , girls, polish seem to get on very well with English men.
I suppose I would prefer to work with more Polish, Czech, Slowakian, Italian....it would be more interesting.
That's a point, it's much easier for Polish girls here, for they're quite popular amongst Britons, but Polish men aren't that popular, besides I think that women look at men in an entirely different way than men perceive women. Correct me please if I'm wrong :)
i find polish men to be popular its just like Shelley said before they arent really in the bars and they tend to socialise within their own groups...do polish men like British women then?Why do they find us intimidating?
think that women look at men in an entirely different way than men perceive women. Correct me please if I'm wrong
They do.
But i think that Polish men could be popular among english women. They are different. Everything what is different different is always attractive. You have one asset which English men lack- romatism, soul, .....it is difficult to describe. We people from continent are little different.
The problem is that when i look on the streets polish men don't seem to be looking much after themselves. ( in difference to polish girls looking usually smart)...their clothes, shoes, haircut...little things but make image.
American. You're the stupid one. American girls are more out to get your money. Come out of your friggin cave man. If money is involved they may offer you money for marriage. It's the Russian women who will want you to fly them to America to take care of them. I see you spend a lot of time believing other people. Or maybe you just met the wrong one. There are bloodsuckers everywhere, but there are more in the US than anywhere else.
your fellow American :)
and what about the american women that cleaned you out and left you......burnt fingers syndrome once again I think.....
Ha ha there really are some narrow minded folks out there Shelley. It's always amusing to read.
listen, I speak out of experience.A friend of mine got married to a polish girl who abducted his own child, perceived him to buy a flat and disapeared.Now, she blackmails him with his own child and believe me IT'A ALL ABOUT MONEY :)
And its not only that. I work in a court, and I know lots of poor lads who got married to polish girls and had same experiences.Do you think its just coincidence that they all disapear after they give birth to children and claim for maintenance? Cause I am not that stupid to think so.I can tell you that all people who work at court are really discussed at this situation.
listen, I speak out of experience.A friend of mine got married to a polish girl who abducted his own child, perceived him to buy a flat and disapeared.Now, she blackmails him with his own child and believe me IT'A ALL ABOUT MONEY
He must have done something wrong to deserve that.....
When you say she abducted his own child...is that a child they had together or a child he had from another relationship?
Probably the guys that like PL women...? Just because you don't like them doesn't mean that they're not popular for others. You must like your women corn fed from Nebraska or something.
they look like pesants anyway and they are after men and their money
This comment alone just proves that you're an idiot and have no clue about beauty. You must have some horrible taste....sorry about that..better you than me :)
When you say she abducted his own child
These are just some bad women. I know plenty of people with good experiences marrying PL women. You're just generalizing and it's idiotic.
And its not only that. I work in a court, and I know lots of poor lads who got married to polish girls and had same experiences.Do you think its just coincidence that they all disapear after they give birth to children and claim for maintenance? Cause I am not that stupid to think so.I can tell you that all people who work at court are really discussed at this situation.
Well maybe these guys have misstreated these women.....maybe Polish women wont put up with the crap that American women do....as for abducting...you mean they left with their own child.....thats not abduction....and having a child so that you can get some money out of a guy seems a little silly to me....surly if they were that terrible they'd marry divorce and take the guy for what they can...no need for a child....
abducting a child means: that you take the child away without permission of one of the parents inn order to blackmail him.Believe me I used to find it hard to believe such cases up until I took a research in the matter.I might be a little bit angry cause I so so much lately in court.And to set the matter straight I am not really an american.I actually used this name cause I saw so many american men to get tricked by all this girls that have half of their age.
Did they think that they only went with them for romance?
Actually my women come from mediterranea area and they are sexy and hot.
