I was merely trying to point out that stalking is a serious behavioural problem amongst other psychlogical issues and in my opinion someone shouldn't be told they may be one unless you are qualified to do so. :(
If he didn't want her to contact him at all then he wouldn't be inviting her to stay and surely if you don't wish someone to stay in touch with you, then all they should do is say so ? People should be more honest with each other I think. We should all communicate in a way which expresses exactly what we think. Mixed messages confuse everyone lol........
right but how many people actually do that in real life.. not many. :(
stalking is basically anything beyond what one of the parties is willing to deal with.. constant txts and messages may not be exactly stalking but it is on the verge especially if the guy doesn't respond.. beside this girl talk to her 'friend' once a week.. i think waitng every moment for an answer from this guy is a little unhealthy..
I thought people who were stalkers suffered with a mental illness ?
I was merely trying to point out that stalking is a serious behavioural problem amongst other psychlogical issues and in my opinion someone shouldn't be told they may be one unless you are qualified to do so. :(
so, now the cops have to be psychologists? you have to be kidding me.
So it's even harder to understand when a friend just suddenly goes silent.
it was all of a sudden or this is actually the pattern here?
When it's the latter, emotions come into play and not everyone thinks so sensibly at times. Maybe that's why ancilla needed to come on for a bit of advice. Hope things have or are working out for her there :)
right, and the advice was for her to lay off, no? because her behaviour could be construed as stalking, no?
PS Ignore Marek S because he struggles to deal with people actually being optimistic :o)
ignorance is bliss, eh? he tends to tell it how it is.. you may not like it.. see the beginning of this line.
