Can't Work her out! She's Polish!

Anyway im new to this and hi to everyone on here..

Right..

I work in a factory and theres this Girl i like "yeah Shes Polish" hehe
Anyway i made the first move.. said Hello, asked her how she was and does she like to party!! she said yeah etc and shes fine.. the Week went by and we said Hello everyday..

And then One Friday she said Am i out tonight at work.. I was like i dont know. i said maybe some club but maybe a different One.. Anyway She asked for my number and we met up that Night.. Had a good laugh, she was very close and touchy and it was weird because i didnt know how to take it... End of the Night i was a gentlemen and just leant over and kissed her on the cheek,

We was gettin on soo well, we work on different lines but everyday she wud come to me wave at me and say morning how are u etc.. And as stupid as i was i thought maybe she wants more.? Then the weekend after i met her again.. and i met all her friends got on well had a laugh etc.. and then i went on holiday to Turkey!! She asked me to send her a postcard and i did.

Got back to find out my ex and her friends bullied this Polish girl in a Nightclub, I was gob smacked.. I had a right go at my ex sayin wot i do has nothing to do with u..

Anyway Now this Girl isnt as friendly as she use to be.. I asked her if she wanted to go steady, and she was like i need more time!??

I dont understand them :( 1 minute she wants to see me and now shes put off

Sounds like she doesn't want to deal with you if you have ex issues. This can be a hassle for someone to deal with.

So basically My Ex has p**ed on my fire?

Sounds like your ex is a *****, its no fault of your own explain to her she should understand if she likes you that much.

You can say that. Most women I know don't like men with existing ex drama. Never know though. Ask her out again for some coffee so that she can learn more about you. Then maybe she'll understand.

Well i asked her if i had done anything wrong, and she said No.. Shes just fed up with Work.. She still says Hello to me and Good morning etc.. But on tuesday i tried ringing her to ask her if she fancied to go out for some dinner and maybe get to know each other better but she wouldnt answer so i txt her.. She didnt reply.. So i said to her next day at work. I take it u dont want to know me anymore i said why didnt u reply to my txt.. She Said i didnt know wot to say.. I said well Fair enuf and walked away "was that wrong of me"?

Hmm either she was looking for an excuse Rich or she is genuinely upset by your ex, ask her to be truthful try not to interrogate her.

Well i rang her up yesterday saying wot have i done and does she just want to be friends..
She Said its hard for her.. She said shes Only ever had 1 boyfriend, and that was for 3 years..
She said she really likes me im a good man "apparently" :P She just keeps saying she needs more time? Should i just say Lets just be friends or should i just be patient?

What exactly did your ex say to her? Maybe she said something about you that scared her off. Maybe they told her lies.

well i spoke to her and she said One of her Friends pushed her and just laughed at her

I know its not my fault.. but in a way it is.. My ex just needs to grow up shes 28 for god sake..

It might actually have a lot more to do with her past relationship than with your ex. An ex girlfriend wouldn't be that big of a deal. Her relationship probably ended badly and she doesn't want more problems.

So Should i just pack my bags and leave it? Or should i give her more time to get to know wot a fun guy i am ? :P

Well im just gonna get on with my life and if it happens it happens.. if it dont then im still havin my fun..

I'll bet you're correct :)


Sounds good to me. Don't press the issue.

Well she rang me up today askin if i want to go disco with her so i dunno wot to think :(

go to the disco and see what happens...

go with the flow Richy .... go & have a laugh with her & just enjoy her company without getting too heavy .... rivers run deep & all that ... you don't know what has happened in the past ... she probably just wants to have fun herself after maybe being hurt from her ex .

It's never easy lol

Go for it, see how things go and make sure its not somewhere your x goes - (disco ??? do people actually still use that term)

thought crossed my mind

yeah Polish girls do.. i know its weird.. im just use to it now :P

I normally say Clubbin etc But yeah I will see how it goes.. and im already drinkin now.. so 5 - 6 hrs from now i will be trollied.. and probs mess things up lol

Oh well if it happens it happens..

so stop drinking and get some coffee down you....don't spoil it;)

im more confident when ive had a drink!! FACT!! lol

i told her last night on the fone. i said i will be probs drunk when u see me tomoz night so if i goto kiss u just laugh and push me away.. She said We Will c.. lol

mmm possibly..but less attractive..

Ok just for u Daisy i will calm it down abit :P i will drink more coffee hehehe.. But if it still fails tonight i blame u :P nah just kiddin.. only got myself to blame :D

Babes listen the women,

1) you feel more confident, but you look a little rough
2) you feel more confident, but you're slurring
3) you feel more confident, but you're talking complete bollox
4) you feel more confident, but you're leering at her
5) you feel more confident, but thats the last date you're gonna have with her.

Now how confident do you feel????

A little bit of shyness is lovely and endearing adds the mistery, the longer you are in her company the more relaxed you will be.

that's ok, I can take it....not too much coffee though, we don't want you going hyper on the poor girl..;-)

Well No i can have a drink and not slur words.. i can be at the merry stage and feel good about myself..

Well i talk complete bollox anyway so :P nah just kiddin i do want it to work.. I really do like her.. I feel soo weird when i speak to her its unbeliavable.. its like my heart beats that extra..

Oh well getting soppy now sorry :(

i can dance all night anyway.. Its weird.. when im with her and her friends i feel more welcome.. They share there drinks with me, they get my spirits high.. English dont bother..

Im tryin to learn abit of Polish and have asked a few of her mates to right a few phrases out for me.. its hard but wot isnt? practise makes perfect..

ooh you've got it bad haven't you?....don't blow it.

ive had plenty of girlfriends in my time.. but none have made me feel this good.. Its like its meant to be.. But if she dont feel that then it obviously isnt meant to be..

But we will see.. I just need to give her more time..

fingers crossed..

Oh well.. i think shes ignoring me now :(

i saw her, brought her a drink, danced with her.. then she started dancin with her friends.. So i went upstairs to RnB room to meet some friends and this Blonde girl starts Bumpin and Grindin with me.. So its rude not to dance.. "all it was" Kamila walks past and squeezes me and smiles and walks off..

So i go back downstairs to meet Kamila again and she gives me evil looks and turns her back " Omg how Rude" So i said to her What have i Done!? She said I saw u dancin with some other girl!! Im like why u getting Jelous? it was just a dance, i dont feel nothing for her.. I like u .. I wish u wud tell me how u feel so we can move in the right direction..

And Now she dont answer my calls or txts? Maybe ive ruined it.. Bleh!!