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I'm 18 and this Polish worker is 25. Can it work?


Sofie 1 | 10  
17 Nov 2008 /  #1
This Polish worker was in Denmark, and thats how we met.
First, it was just for fun, but i have feelings for him.. But
the problem is, that i first found out, when he was gone..
i cant stop Thinking about him..

My problem is, that I'm only 18 and he is 25..
Can it work? I miss so so so much, and he writes
to me, that he misses me to, and he thinks of me
day and night.. I'm so unhappy?

What to do? Is he to old?
Should i forgte him? In that case, How?

Please, Please Help me..
southern 75 | 7,096  
17 Nov 2008 /  #2
If you look like Little Mermaid,I think you will not have any problem.
OP Sofie 1 | 10  
17 Nov 2008 /  #3
What do you mean?
southern 75 | 7,096  
17 Nov 2008 /  #4
I have noticed that many danish girls look like Mermaid.
szkotja2007 27 | 1,498  
17 Nov 2008 /  #5
No probs - go for it !

The Mermaid is a statue in Copenhagen.
PolskaDoll 28 | 2,104  
17 Nov 2008 /  #6
Ignore southern Sofie. ;)

Yes it can work, of course it can. That age difference is nothing. If you miss each other then there must have been something there. Go for it! :)
OP Sofie 1 | 10  
17 Nov 2008 /  #7
But he lives in Poland, and me in little Denmark..
How would we ever be together..

I have no parants only a sthep-Mother, And she dont like me and guys?
How will i ever work out problems with her?
PolskaDoll 28 | 2,104  
17 Nov 2008 /  #8
If it's meant to be then you'll work out how to be with each other.

Your step-mother is another story but she can't rule your life.

Keep in touch with this guy, explain your worries to him, he'll understand.
OP Sofie 1 | 10  
17 Nov 2008 /  #9
Thank you, it is nice for some positivity.
All my friends tell me to turn my back,
But they dont understand my feelings
for this guy.. I never felt this way ..
PolskaDoll 28 | 2,104  
17 Nov 2008 /  #10
I am of the belief that if you turn your back and ignore this you'll always wonder what might have happened. Better you should try it and know how it would have went. Good luck. :)
koziolek 2 | 31  
17 Nov 2008 /  #11
What to do?

Go and get him.

Is he to old?

Age is but a number. When you're old enough it is!

I'm sure nearly everyone has met someone and felt something, but stupidly let them go. "If only I had had the sense to get that girl's phone number!" kind of thing. You don't know what the future will bring, but you can make sure it brings you something. If you do nothing, it will bring you nothing (with this particular chap you'r etalking about at any rate).

Best of luck to you.
polishgirltx  
17 Nov 2008 /  #12
What to do? Is he to old?
Should i forgte him? In that case, How?

just do it girl... try it...
you are young enough to start making your first mistakes and learn out of them...
:)
Filios1 8 | 1,336  
17 Nov 2008 /  #13
Please, Please Help me..

Send him an SMS saying that you will pleasure him as soon as he comes back to Denmark. Then start your timer, and you will be surprised at how quickly he returns.
Softsong 5 | 495  
17 Nov 2008 /  #14
there is another forum that deals with age-gap relationships. Younger woman and older guys and visa versa. You may want to read their stories. Some are also long distance like you.

agelesslove.com

good luck
pat23 2 | 20  
18 Nov 2008 /  #15
Dont worry about it and just go for it , its not about age its about how you feel about each other , belive me i know im dealing with this at the moment , life is a one way street so dont pass this up , just give it a try !!!!!
OP Sofie 1 | 10  
18 Nov 2008 /  #16
Thank you all! It have bin so much help! I have send him text messege, he will come home to my heart, when he have made money enough! Thank you so much. I Have told my steph mother, she is mad, mad, mad about it.. But I am wondering of might going to poland with him, Poland is so beautiful!
polishgirltx  
18 Nov 2008 /  #17
But I am wondering of might going to poland with him, Poland is so beautiful!

think twice about it....
wildrover 98 | 4,451  
18 Nov 2008 /  #18
Good luck to you...if its love then it will work , you can only find out if you give it a go....don,t worry too much about the age difference , probably the culture difference might be more of a problem , but love can overcome this....If he treats you right your stepmum will grow to like him....
urszula 1 | 253  
18 Nov 2008 /  #19
Be careful. He might have a girl in Poland and plays with you. Don't let your emotions take over, get to know him first before you fall too deep in love with him. Being away only creates images in your mine that are not true making him what he is not.

Don't let your heart take over.
OP Sofie 1 | 10  
20 Nov 2008 /  #20
Hm, well.. I quess your rigth.. I'm not sure i can hold to be hurt /: .. Should i trust him.. Oh my god, its so hard to Choose what to do ):
Babinich 1 | 455  
20 Nov 2008 /  #21
.. Should i trust him.. Oh my god, its so hard to Choose what to do ):

nie ufaj nikomu
croatian - | 10  
20 Nov 2008 /  #22
of course it can...men are immature anyway so your 25 your old probably levels ok to your age. but he might have a gf back in poland...who knows.

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