Polish Womens bodies

I'm just soooo proud of you right now.....as Miranda said, "Well said girl!"

You are one of the reasons I love this forum!:)

Thanks Ranj :) :)

What I dont understand is why men paint these images in their head that all women
have to be a certain way. its not like that, then they use those who arent up to
their standards and you see so much hurt. thats what boils my blood more then
anything, because I have had friends who were heavy and they would have given
anything and done everything for these guys whom said the same things.

Love is what we make it, and if you men think love is that way well your going to
be lonely and its going to rust and fall off by the time you want kids!

that isnt directed at all of you , only those select few who think they need beauty
to make sure their genitals stay healthy and want an active sex life.

love is making it work together and has no boundries, you feel it you know it
and all these things happen together as a unit rather then one sided mens
standards.

Now I will get ready for the Patrycja bashing, and you know something I dont care
because I got both socks on my feet and know what I am doing and where I am
going. I must go and jump in a pool or something to cool down!! lol

Hey hey hey. Let's not put me into this group of men :)

I'm on your side :)

Women be sexxxay!! :)

Artur, your still young, still have time to find the one. what I am saying here is
only because he decided to make it public about her personal business. and she
isnt even aware of it. but how embarrassing.

What I dont understand is, his mother has probably had him and however many
children, her body changed, she grew bigger, or maybe stayed the same in wt
but the body changes, did his father stop loving his mother because her skin
is now not the soft supple skin it was the very first time they met? did he tell her
after 2 years and 6 months we have to stop because your body is not what I
expected and so I cannot love someone who isnt beautiful?

This happens daily to so many women and what does this do to them mentally?

Please Artur, do not become one of them and expect so much from your woman
and dont change your thoughts later on and say, I cant love this person because
her outside dont match the inside. this process takes place in men to, but the
beauty of women is we still love our man gray hair and all, and still find him sexy
and think to ourselfs how we should grow old gracefully together. good times bad times for better and worse.

I know you have good sense of direction. stay genuine. thats all :)

I think I might have found her, waaaayyy too early to tell though :)

I don't judge girls by looks alone, her voice, personality, how comfortable she is with herself, she has to be funny, kind, sweet, smart, etc.

If I ever have a problem with someone, I'll bring it up with them privately, not onto a forum like this guy. It was an invasion of privacy, and the girl has no idea that she's been talked about online. At least he didn't give a name.

Well. I am glad you are being sensible. but dont be afraid of your feelings, make
sure you are open. you dont have to plan any weddings tomorrow, but just keep
her happy, you will see that she will keep you her top priority.


well, that is what I dont understand about his post, saying he was with her so long
and hes posting this about her after two years and then goes on to tell of all the
parteners he had and thinks we are dr phil in here and can diagnose someone's
more then likely skin condition which if he even cared for her at all, he would have
told that relative off and took her to a doctor and payed to help her correct it if
thats what it was, that would be the manly thing to do. or does money take presidense
over love?

then goes on to say she became destructive and yet they still slept together on and
off and he felt like they were just F- buddies, but imagine her not even knowing that
deep down he was hesitant to share more with her because she didnt match his
standards. but he kept leading her on, which my thoughts are, if you arent attracted
to begin with in every aspect then why contontinue on with something that means
nothing?

its cruel and that is why so many young people today get false ideas about what
love truely is. and the process repeats itself and so many things happen which do
head in the wrong direction because of this type of attitude.


yes I have giels syndrome, I mean giles syndrome, I am bit tipsey, after all that
I needed a white russian. lol

contontinue? haha lol


And before i hear bashing on this one, my brother used to tell me all the time to
get my sh*t in one sock, I told him I did better and got it in both socks and well
balanced. just one of our family sayings, dont know where he heard it, I just
decided to add to it because I was subjected to a bossy bother. who is now
sweet and caring. but still bossy at times. lol

ive never been with a polish woman, but it seems like they come in all different shapes and sizes... just like everyone else lol

niekture są grube lol j/k i love em all :)

:)

ya know, we can always create a thread on mens bellies or some other body parts
that have been genetically altered. but as women with hearts and common courtsey
we wont do that will we now :) ( cynically laughing) bahahahahahaha.

your love of beer catches up with you boys eventually. and the playgrounds dont
grow the green grass it used to. yes, I am all for eye for eye, maybe you had
bad breath mr 6 months and 2 days, oops got that backwards , well I know your
all roaring at me now, so I will go to bed. I am roaring at me. good nite and dont
Pysl :) :)


maybe you were with a woman who used to be a man.

Just taking a second look ( no offense to those who are ) just trying to point out
some possiblities that he might have over looked.

hey, hey easy there.

This relationship started on the wrong foot. Pure f-buddy, showing up at midnight and leaving 2 hours later....yes her leaving....for 12 months once every 3-4 weeks.

after 1st yr. I tried numerous times to break it off; changed jobs, even moved....yes, I know that wont do it.

In 2nd yr. it became more boyfriend/girl-friend, however baggage of our past -f-buddy relationship was there and festered.

Finally, our anger/denial/resentment that we really had nothing after 2+ yrs just some hot nights, got to us.

Its not pretty, but its reality....and it take two to tango. Guilt is 50/50.

yeh whack

not to take any sides here, but his first post was just asking what the thing was why her skin was like that. Not everyone is a med student =P i sure didn't know what it was all about til after reading this.

If a girl came on and asked 'why is my boyfriend's hair already falling out at a young age?' it wouldn't be taken as girls expecting guys to have a full head of hair or something would it?

Anyway, i think it would be fair in this forum, and i see it everywhere, for people not to be put into groups. Granted it's a polish forum and people ask 'so do polish girls / boys this or that...' but come on let's get real. Cultural differences you can expect. But as for things like how a person's body is shaped, or how they treat relationships is an individual experience

hahah sorry it's just frustrating that some people don't realise that. Not all men treat women as a sexual object, or whatever other form of degredation you felt from this thread

heheh anyway /end Patrycja19 bashing :)

seconded :)

Some Polish women when they are young can be lovely but as they grow older...rather like a new Polish Polonez motor car you see to buy on the forcourt of a garage-simply wait until you have done a few thousand kilometers and wait for the rust to come through...

Bah thats true of most women (and men!!! before i get pms'd :) joking)

Bachelor,

from your first post, your asking why her skin was like that, why didnt you look
into finding out? why ask 2 years after the fact? and post in a forum?

and as for not expecting that to actually upset women, I can pretty much
say a majority here, probably felt the same as I did, it was actually a very
degrading and embarassing post. even though it doesnt affect us, we as women
have to go thru alot of pain in order to be this picture perfect female that all men
drool over. mentally it affects so many, men dont have to do very much to
themselfs, maybe keep fit, but even so, women dont even bring up any issues
later on because we care about the person, not the shell.

I know its all 50/50 trust me, but what you brought up, even with the relative
why would you introduce someone you dont have feelings for to family in the
first place? and we still have yet to hear her side, which wont ever be posted
because I highly doubt you will bring her in here to share her feelings as you did.

yes we can end this, because its a very unfair post in my eyes. you may not be
a bad person, but your character and disregard makes me think you have problems
with standards, and it dont surprise me that your still a bachelor.

a good look inside always does the mind some good.
good luck and no hard feelings.


dont worry, anything you can dish out I am pretty sure i got something to say.

:)

its not surprising that you all come out of the woodwork after one opens up.
i am sure there is more, so comeon guys, bring it on!


and the MOLES dont foget the MOLES NOW

lol

sorry i said the /end bashing with tongue in cheek :)

i don't think i attacked u at all :)

but you're right! all those polish girls with moles! why does no one else have them! hehe

I was being sarcastic, lots of women have moles, not just the polish.

no harm intended.

my ex did - v cute :)

I thought you still had a GF. :)

my GF before this GF (over 3 yrs ago)

haha i know as was i =P
the internet really needs to invent an emoticon for sarcasm... hmmm

I have a 'beauty spot' on my face too :) guess that's proof that i really am my mother's son :)

Well I asked the admin to help us out, but they cant. so I guess we just have
to clarify lol

Now see thats a better way to say it, beauty spot. and yes, men have emm too

you guys arent all so bad no matter what anyone says about ya :)

anyway, got some running to do, made supper ( sorry daffy ya missed out)

I will let you guys have back your thread.

always do :)

someday - you'll make me supper :) and i will eated it and be happy :)

and to keep on topic! womens bodies are individial and temples!!!

they should be worshipped!!!

Mole

Mole thought his happiness was complete when, as he meandered aimlessly along, suddenly he stood by a full-bodied Pole. Never in his life had he seen a Polish woman before--this sleek, sinuous, full-bodied animal, chasing and chuckling, gripping things with a gurgle and leaving them with a laugh, to fling itself on fresh playmates that shook themselves free, and were caught and held again.

Apologies to Kenneth Grahame, cheque's in the post. :)

if you *****d her for more than 2 years without any emotion and she looked that bad, what does that say about you, oh man of more than 100 dates and 20 women in 15 years..(or something like that).. Im more intrigued to know what you look like, than her.

I think you folks are nice, kind and are making good points.....however, he who has not sinned, cast the first stone

I by no means am proud of this relationship; of what i did and what i failed to do.

>Yes, I was pompous to brag (20); I am a man, and I have had lovers from 16 on, and 2/3rds were real GFs and I called every night....yes, every night and NEVER cheated. I work brutally hard, and like to live life, and see no wrong in loving a woman.....and many in this life. Better than the 50% of divorces, cheaters and diseases I read about.

Yes, I brought up a superficial point about body image; but , it was a symbol of everything that i didn't know or didn't want to know.

Now some clarifications:

-This is anonymous and I am asking in general terms, so no one is being degraded.

-This relationship was a two-way street; we both knew what we doing, and no one was forced or lied to.

-I was wrapped up in 70 hr per week 6-figure career, business travel, and resurrecting a business

-She was a new immigrant, 30, and was struggling with VISAs, school, working papers, and making money

-In the beginning it worked; she wanted nothing more than what we had....and quote unquote said: "it was 'perfect' for what i needed". She basically kept it a secret from friends / family.

-None of you, it seems (except guys maybe) are admitting how seductive and alluring, and eventually damaging such an arrangement (ie, f-buddy every 3-4 weeks) can be.

And you gals might deny she should be accountable in any way....

-So we both lived it for 1 yr.; I didn't date other women, and was monagamous with her, and she was with me.

-In the 2nd yr. I moved, started a new job and we both agreed it was time to move on, even had a little fight to make it stick. Well 6 weeks later we were back. This time it was different: she stayed all night, had brunches and weekends and dinners....and shared our ups and downs, and emotionally supported each other. Yes, her body was not perfect, but neither was I.

-Unfortunately, during this year, we both started to realize we may not be able to live down the horrible way we started our relationship. She now wanted a full boyfriend / commitment, and my reluctance made her start to throw petty jealousies in my face.

Be careful gals, somethings you say can never be retracted and stain forever.

-Well, now I felt resentful. I had spent two yrs with a woman....who in the beginning was massively sexually aggressive even predatory. She used me too, and in the end I was hooked and did not seek out better relationships. Yes, there was manipulation....and every woman knows how that works when they have nowhere to turn. I dont blame her; her pressures to survive were massive. But, that was her choice. I worked hard for what i had in life; and didn't want to risk it all for someone who so easily lived a double-life.

-She had her negatives too: pressured me to borrow money, sponsor her visa, was always changing jobs, homes, and was secretive about how she survives or pays bills, etc. (parents were wiring money, and she was eating nothing....but spending on designer clothes and clubs!)

-No woman can trade her intimacy for anonymous gratification and not pay a price. Men will judge her, and make lifelong and million dollar decisions based on it. And men too will be judged badly for their weakness and character flaws for encouraging such debasing behavior as well.

-So yes I tried to save the situation and was in deep denial, shame and guilt. I hoped family and friends would be supportive and help us transition to normalcy. Well 100% of the people said it doesn't add up; and felt I was being duped with easy sex and would be taken advantage of badly (green card marriage, divorce, lawsuit, etc). They were not lulled into denial, and just felt she looked 10yrs older, most likely was ex-married, and had a kid. Same response, any cranky mother-in-law would have when sizing up a bride.

-I finally faced the music. I admitted i was a jerk for letting it happen for so long. Had no one to blame but myself. Stepped up and ended it civilly. Does it still hurt, Yes. Was it the right decision yes. Is life fair, no. Will I be happy again, yes.

-Will she do this again; I think so.

- I hope none of you make the same mistake.....and thats the moral of this post.

I must admit, I haven't read through every post on this thread, but I will say I have a new found respect for you, Bachelor, based on you last response.:)

I am not commenting , he pretty much fessed up to what I thought from the
beginning, she wanted a commitment.

Exactly......he admitted his part in it and that takes a big man to do.....:)

It is a point though, why do all polish women have so many moles?

Polish women's bodies are great.Their skin is excellent,they have long legs,they are mostly slim(unlike western europeans),they have nice proportions,very attractive breast and they are tall,taller than average western(except dutch,swedish,north german).

The face is not always beautiful but the body never disappoints.I never saw cellulitis or big,fat,hanging bellies among polish girls on the beach.

Only to watch them is a marvel.When you touch them,you feel like in heaven.
Western women should take lessons and improve their appearance according to polish standards in order to keep up to competition.