In the end, I had my doubts about how the relationship started (borderline mistress/f-buddy situation) and how long it lasted given unhealthy aspects. Finally, some trust/moral issues came up that convinced me this is not the mother of my children.
Why would you have concerns 2 years and 6 months later and so many nights together? you obviously had no problems continuing with this relationship till someone
mentioned something and acted on it by fear of family thrashing, so you picked up
on something she did wrong and took it to higher levels of distaste by adding that
you are doing fine and she is now in destructive behavior but that could be a result of
your rejection which you arent telling us because then you fear bashing here.
I am so sorry to tell you all that, but my female instincts tell me you were expecting more and let someone else lead you by the nose because to tell you the truth not
every woman has outer beauty so you let this happen by one comment and it bothered you and still bothers you to ask on a forum and yet you shared two whole years with
her and didnt love her because of anything else?
And if you were in the least bit concerned, maybe you would have asked questions because when you find a partener you would want to know health issues instead of
walking blindly into a relationship and not knowing what and how and for her to not
know your history you might have well just dug her a hole and put her in it with all
the partners you had and hopefully you wore protection because life is short and
so many take advantage of women these days by not using condoms and taking care
to make sure someone elses life isnt at risk.
maybe I am jumping the gun, but you should be ashamed of yourself for even posting
this because being a woman requires more then just outer beauty. make up and
panty hose doesnt make the woman, its how you present yourself , so all those women who work their tails off and sweat ,and work so hard daily to keep everything going in
the home dont deserve the label of a woman? what would they be called if they only
wear aprons? less a woman>?
There is select few I have heard very sweet comments out of in here, they know who
they are, for those of you guys who think that its about a pretty face and slim waist
your killing your Girlfriends. theres ways to keep fit without starving which maybe
is the reason why her body was like that, maybe in the past she was heavy, she found you and thought wow, I have to stay this way, I am going to stop, because now i am
getting way into a conversation which was more then likely discussed before and
all i can say is Karma sweetie, you should be so very careful how you say things because in the life we live, we have to learn to find love inside as well as out.
it appears as though you didnt find either. that is your own fault.
Sorry admin, I know its longer, but I had to get that out :)
