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Bachelor?  
29 Mar 2007 /  #1
I have a general question about Polish & maybe eastern european womens bodies.

I know this risks offending and may be a sweeping generalisation but here we go.

We all know many Polish gals are gorgeous, models and Miss Universe winners, however...

I met this slim Polish gal (almost model, 5'9'') and upon touching her back for the first time it felt like that fake foam on a mouse mad / wrist pad...or like a much older (50-60s) women.

Now I know what you think, but this gal looked fine in clothes; but without it was like all flab, saggy, terrible skin tone, dimpled cottage cheese, wobbly stomach. I really was shocked and in a bikini everything else was droopy/sagging as well.

Any of the men experience someone who looks amazing then blahhhh when the support of clothes come off? Is it bad nutrition, diet, alchohol, drugs, eating disorder?

She did later mention she lost 20 pounds when we first met; and now she has regained 10-15, which fills out curves but stills leaves mushy feel.

I am an experienced bachelor, and have to say this is a shocker, as most gals in USA are all about fitness and body tone. One buddy of mine told me some strippers have this as they smoke, drink, eat terrible and never exercise....their bodies last 6-8 yrs before this happens
FISZ 24 | 2,116  
29 Mar 2007 /  #2
I know this risks offending and may be a sweeping generalisation

Couldn't have said it better myself :)

I've met many flabby, cottage cheesed dimply women in America. I think this all depends on the individual, not the nationality.
Big Rob - | 70  
29 Mar 2007 /  #3
All I can throw in to this is that when people loose alot of weight the skin often goes the way you describe. 20 Lbs is not enough for this to happen though. So no help on your example.

I however, I don't like skinny women, it's not right or natural (unless they are one of those people that can eat and eat and never gain a lb... freaks!?!), and nor is obesity right or natural.

I think a full bodied woman is the best sight a full blooded man can behold.
FISZ 24 | 2,116  
29 Mar 2007 /  #4
think a full bodied woman is the best sight a full blooded man can behold.

Well, you're Big Rob :)

I'm a narrow ass person, so I prefer an atheletic build.

So no help on your example.

Don't think he'll find much there anyway. He's generalizing...most don't like that here.
BubbaWoo 33 | 3,510  
29 Mar 2007 /  #5
its much easier to get diggy with a skinny ass*d woman than to throw a big ass*d mama round the bed...

but back to poles... lot of moles going on... more than any other nationality ive ever got intimate with...
FISZ 24 | 2,116  
29 Mar 2007 /  #6
lot of moles going on

Wow I thought I was the only one who noticed that. I was curious about this too.
BubbaWoo 33 | 3,510  
29 Mar 2007 /  #7
wierd innit... ?
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
29 Mar 2007 /  #8
but back to poles... lot of moles going on... more than any other nationality ive ever got intimate with...

The men, too? I don't have experience investigating Polish mens' bodies. :)
ArturSzastak 3 | 593  
29 Mar 2007 /  #9
as most gals in USA are all about fitness and body tone.

Yeah, they're about it....but hardly any of them practice it my friend. And I have never met a mushy girl. Sounds kinda gross......maybe she's a Chyrnoble baby????

I don't have experience investigating Polish mens' bodies.

Oh you can investigate, and you'll find we are committing a crime......

"What zeemz to be ze problem offizer??"
"You've got three legs boy, it ain't right you no?!?!"
"Ohh, no no no. Zat is my...um....well not to be rude, but eez my peniz"
"What the hell do they feed you Polish boys???"
"Russian :)"

I couldn't help myself :) You set me up for it shewolf :)

How's it been btw?
Big Rob - | 70  
30 Mar 2007 /  #10
Oh yeah, christ what is going on with the moles... I thought it was just me noticing... It's not a big issue or anything, everyone has something going on with their own body, so I don't hold it against them. It's just natures way. But why????

And just so peeps know, my name is not a self appointed big me up, just a nick name that I aquired. Just remember... if you strap a sausage to a hamster it looks impressive, but strap it to a tiger and it looks plain stupid!

And to follow, shewolf yes this does apply to men. Absolutely and definately, no intimate experience, but alot of polish men during the summer have no issues with a shirts of policy. And why not, when they are young, most of them are built like racing dogs and only beef up in their mid to late 20's! But I think I know what most of the ladies like.
sapphire 22 | 1,241  
30 Mar 2007 /  #11
as most gals in USA are all about fitness and body tone

Are you sure about the word 'most'?... doesnt the USA have one of the biggest obesity problems?

I met this slim Polish gal (almost model, 5'9'') and upon touching her back for the first time it felt like that fake foam on a mouse mad / wrist pad...or like a much older (50-60s) women.

and im not surprised you ar a Bachelor if you are comparing women to computer accessories.

I think you will find that its cellulite you are talking about, which affects many women, regardless of their size or nationality.
Big Rob - | 70  
30 Mar 2007 /  #12
He he he. Well done sapphire. Cellulite it is. Don't recall having a problem with it myself!:) :)
davidpeake 14 | 451  
30 Mar 2007 /  #13
wierd innit... ?

quietly agrees
Big Rob - | 70  
30 Mar 2007 /  #14
Lib Dem to the end?????
FireWire - | 23  
30 Mar 2007 /  #15
and im not surprised you ar a Bachelor if you are comparing women to computer accessories.

lol. there's a computer accesory for every situation though :) same as there's a movie / tv series quote for every situation :)

i found the cottage cheese skin the most useful metaphor though lol
sapphire 22 | 1,241  
30 Mar 2007 /  #16
same as there's a movie / tv series quote for every situation

well in this case its clearly not 'pretty woman' is it.
OP Bachelor?  
30 Mar 2007 /  #18
Haha! Well being a bachelor aint easy....our fingers do the walking

Had to get my description across (the men clearly picked up on this) and we all happend to be on computers and even mouse pads:)

I guess cellulite it is....just didnt expect it on a pseudo model-like woman....who is early 30s
Oscypek - | 107  
30 Mar 2007 /  #19
The metaphors are really over the top in this thread.

I particularly got a kick out of the 'foam mouse pad' one. :) :)

About the fitness issue in the US... Most don't seem to practice this. When I see even a group of young high school or college kids on a field trip in a city (here in the US), the majority of the young ladies are over weight. This wasn't the case when I was in school. The problem is definitely getting worse.
sapphire 22 | 1,241  
30 Mar 2007 /  #20
well my mouse pad is large, smooth and hard, so I guess it takes all kinds.
Sadly cellulite can affect any woman regardless of her age or physique.. even supermodels get it.. there is no real cause, but it can be aggravated by caffeine intake, smoking etc...you can buy treatments for it, but they are not that effective.. anyway, Im going to stop there as you will all be thinking that I know so much about it from a personal point of view.. but this isnt the case... honest guv. I just read a lot of magazines. I am intrigued to know what your reaction was when she took off her clothes and if you managed to hide it? I guess you are not still seeing her?
Oscypek - | 107  
30 Mar 2007 /  #21
Sounds like a good mouse pad. :)

Note - I wasn't agreeing with or recommending the use of that metaphor... just thought it was surprisingly creative and far out.
OP Bachelor?  
30 Mar 2007 /  #22
Saph,

Thanks for your interest. I really am not a chauvinistic jerk. This was the first time I have ever had this in like 100+ dates and maybe 20 partners over 15 yrs.

My deliemna was just how could a skinny/thin gal have flab/cellulite and such droopy bust/hips/butt....but otherwise be hot/sexy in clothes?

My reaction literally started on the first date; when I casually put my arm around her back. The sensation was not fat-back / bulging straps but just truly weird.

Without clothes, it looked fine in darkness; with harsh morning light it was another story. I was a nice guy and never/ever mentioned it knowing the deep damage such a needless flip comment can have on a gals body image/esteem.

For my own sake, I was more worried this was a sign of disease (HIV, etc) or mental issue (anorexia, eating disorder etc) or substance abuse (coke) etc. I guess I hoped it would improve with better diet, exercise or healthy living.

We did go out for over 2 years, as we developed a bond on other levels; and at the end morals/trust issues ended it.

I know looks fade, and superficial physical attraction maybe meaningless to some. For me, its an important primal element, and makes love and intimacy that much more powerful. Call me a caveman, but I still believe man is motivated by female health, youth, beauty, fertility.

Nevertheless, harsh comments from a female (yes female) member of my own family TO ME, after seeing her in a bikini led to this question.
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
30 Mar 2007 /  #23
Nevertheless, harsh comments from a female (yes female) member of my own family TO ME, after seeing her in a bikini led to this question.

And what was your reply? how long did you stay with her there after you were
questioned by this family member?
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
30 Mar 2007 /  #24
This whole conversation makes me wish I could see a picture of her. :)
OP Bachelor?  
30 Mar 2007 /  #25
My reply was that its heartless and insensitive; I think it was a case of "tough love".

A lot of things were not adding up....ie, dishonesty, she might be a lot older that she said, had a baby, was married, green card bride......I think my family felt the wool was being pulled over my eyes

I have heard similar experiences from guys who meet newly arrived women and have zero knowledge of the person (ie, family, friends, career, hometown, shared experiences) and a fair amount of distrust develops.

Nevertheless, we stayed together on again/off again for another 6 months. Some heartless behavior on HER part led me to believe she was bad news.

In the end, I had my doubts about how the relationship started (borderline mistress/f-buddy situation) and how long it lasted given unhealthy aspects. Finally, some trust/moral issues came up that convinced me this is not the mother of my children.

I am comfortable in that decision as she aparently progressed to some destructive behavior in our post break up months, according to friends.
Huegel_gast  
30 Mar 2007 /  #26
He's a live one isn't he?

This was the first time I have ever had this in like 100+ dates and maybe 20 partners over 15 yrs.

Ninety nine red roses now slowly decaying in the bin under the big clock in the train station. Still, they're making a bomb on wigs in Tie Rack. Yep, he'll never spot me if i'm a red head. :)

Without clothes, it looked fine in darkness; with harsh morning light it was another story

lol

She was telling her friends that too.
Thankfully she was a nice girl and met you again, after hours naturally, against the advice of her mates. She was worried about corneal scarring though. Thank god they can do wonders with lasers these days. :)
BubbaWoo 33 | 3,510  
30 Mar 2007 /  #27
dont worry... nobody will notice... and even if they do, theyll never reaslise its you...
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
30 Mar 2007 /  #28
In the end, I had my doubts about how the relationship started (borderline mistress/f-buddy situation) and how long it lasted given unhealthy aspects. Finally, some trust/moral issues came up that convinced me this is not the mother of my children.

Why would you have concerns 2 years and 6 months later and so many nights together? you obviously had no problems continuing with this relationship till someone

mentioned something and acted on it by fear of family thrashing, so you picked up
on something she did wrong and took it to higher levels of distaste by adding that
you are doing fine and she is now in destructive behavior but that could be a result of
your rejection which you arent telling us because then you fear bashing here.

I am so sorry to tell you all that, but my female instincts tell me you were expecting more and let someone else lead you by the nose because to tell you the truth not

every woman has outer beauty so you let this happen by one comment and it bothered you and still bothers you to ask on a forum and yet you shared two whole years with

her and didnt love her because of anything else?

And if you were in the least bit concerned, maybe you would have asked questions because when you find a partener you would want to know health issues instead of

walking blindly into a relationship and not knowing what and how and for her to not
know your history you might have well just dug her a hole and put her in it with all
the partners you had and hopefully you wore protection because life is short and
so many take advantage of women these days by not using condoms and taking care
to make sure someone elses life isnt at risk.

maybe I am jumping the gun, but you should be ashamed of yourself for even posting
this because being a woman requires more then just outer beauty. make up and
panty hose doesnt make the woman, its how you present yourself , so all those women who work their tails off and sweat ,and work so hard daily to keep everything going in

the home dont deserve the label of a woman? what would they be called if they only
wear aprons? less a woman>?

There is select few I have heard very sweet comments out of in here, they know who
they are, for those of you guys who think that its about a pretty face and slim waist
your killing your Girlfriends. theres ways to keep fit without starving which maybe
is the reason why her body was like that, maybe in the past she was heavy, she found you and thought wow, I have to stay this way, I am going to stop, because now i am

getting way into a conversation which was more then likely discussed before and
all i can say is Karma sweetie, you should be so very careful how you say things because in the life we live, we have to learn to find love inside as well as out.

it appears as though you didnt find either. that is your own fault.

Sorry admin, I know its longer, but I had to get that out :)
miranda  
30 Mar 2007 /  #29
Partycja,

well said girl!!!!!
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
30 Mar 2007 /  #30
I know this risks offending and may be a sweeping generalisation but here we go.

Yes, it is offending not to us who will post to you, but I feel offended for your ex
who is now the center of this forum among men whom shouldnt know her business
and it is degrading to her and I feel more sorry for her putting up with you because
you sound like a arrogant arse who hasnt learned much respect for women in
your growing years.

Thanks Miranda I wasnt done , even though i said i was lol ok now I am done :)

We women have to stick together thru thick and thin.

That was uncalled for. period.

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