i really like the way you said it lol
It's true. I was at my cousin's wedding in Poland end of last summer. She is a blonde bombshell. He is a good guy. Not a stud, but not ugly. He is a good guy. No, he's not rich either.
I can't tell you how many laska's were at the wedding, but not every girl is a model. A stud here or there, but mostly average looking, good guys. Guys (americans) at work always ask me to set them up with a polka, but they're clueless males that look at too much porn.
It's about personality to an extent, but it's really about compatability. Our culture and traditions are so deeply rooted into us from childhood that it's hard to really deviate from it as an adult. We tend to seek that in a partner for life, and pass it on to the next generation. Some deviate from this (which is fine), but for most there is too much culture and tradition to reject.
It's far too complicated to get into, but the bottom line is that women don't fall for a man's looks. Men - smart ones - don't fall for a woman's beauty in terms of looks either. Flings are one thing, but serious relationships are another.