I'm upset - you encourage foreigners to take the Polish women away

This is my theory on the original poster's issue.

If you look closely in the early 80s and up till the early 90s, Poland had a very high spirits (i.e. liquor) consumption compared to certain countries in Europe. It is also describe by Moskalewicz in 1993,

"As a predominantly spirits drinking country, Poland is characterized by infrequent, but heavy, drinking with high levels of intoxication among males, leading to high rates of acute problems associated with alcohol consumption, and a lower prevalence of chronic problems."

I don't have any data regarding spousal abuse, but based on other data that I've seen, alcohol consumption had a significant affect on the rates of domestic violence cases. These episodes of domestic abuse had a traumatic effect on the wives and daughters of many men, and thus, made it more convincing to the female population in the later years that maybe marrying a foreigner would not be a bad idea -- if that will get them away from an environment laced with domestic abuse.

Just my $0.02.

From my own interpretation i believe Moralny sounds more like a racist, pls u should all know we re i a modern age, Allow people to follow thier instict,

Hi Qacer, I so much agree with ur theory. u re 100% right but u forgot something, its suppose to be a cycle, Because 70% cause of excess alcohol by polish men can traced to the behaviour of their wives, Polish women are very autocratic, likes too much sex and money, sometimes the man might not be able to satisfy them with all these which leads to bad behaviour on women side and too much alcohol on mens side in order to drive away sorrows. When u meet a polish woman new she is always an angel but with time she shows u her true colour. I am talking out of experiece.

Ummmm, got anything to back up this statement?

Hi Moralny I am sorry you have this opinion of the English as we are pretty nice and most English do not think we are better than the polish. I actualy admire the Polish as they are much harder working and more commited than most English. I am an English man in a long term relationship with a Polish woman and it makes me sad to know that there are people who would have anger toward us. I have been to poland many times now and have not met any one yet who did not like us being together (but maybe thats because I dont understand much polish as I am still learning!) :) Maybe next time we are in poland we can meet up for a beer? you will find the right woman one day and maybe she will be from another country trust me you never know who or how or why you meet the one your meant to be with you just know you have no choice! do not listen to all the negative stuff on here as most of it is just B*** Sh**.