How could someone pick an internet relationship over a live in boyfriend.
you have a point, but I dont think its just a internet relationship. it sounds like she knows him better, like they are long time friends.. or old lovers..
in any case, I do think it takes two to make it work.. but it doesnt sound like she is in love with you anymore ( and I dont mean to sound harsh) its just that this happens sometimes and how and why it happened could help turn it around, or you can let her go, and start new with someone who will be compatible..
dont feel like your wasting time, love is hard to understand. sometimes we think its love, its not, but we mistake this, and then all the sudden things go sour and bitterness sets in, you dont want to set yourself up for a fall..
you just have to find the compatible person for you. someone who likes things you like, I dont think you like the things she likes and Vs Versa.. but maybe both arent trying hard enough and compromising for each other and learning to love each other no matter where you are is what love is about.. its not the things around you is who you spend them with.. and you learn to accept that maybe she doesnt like different styles, certain things, but thats ok, because you love her and that other stuff is all small shyt you get thru.. the large and small bridges you cross you whole life.. all the tests.. once you find the one, nothing else matters :)
so anyway, what I was getting at, maybe do some different things for her.. she sounds like she would appreciate more educational/intelligent conversation, or just more conversation period.. sometimes we forget to communicate with each other and dont say you have, because everyone is guilty of it,, even me :)
but sometimes you dont need words either..
find out more about her, and her interests.. the relationship is still fairly new,, its just lost its varooooooooooommmmmmmmmmmmm...
do the romance thing, get out the candles, roses, candy, get your grove a grovin and run her a warm bath, massages, all those wonderful things that lead it back to the first time...
What you describe has nothing to do with "Polish". It has to do with [insert your favorite "slang" for a bad woman]
you are correct here,, and the word you look for is B***H.. but we all get this way when we feel neglected.. we dont ask for these things, and if we did wouldnt that look pretty silly if we had too all the time?
honey can you communicate with me more and take me out to a candle light dinner and buy me roses and candy and put on some sexy music and make me feel wanted?
she's talking to a man whom prob could be her best friend and thats how great relationships start.. so you need to talk to her.. whatever way you have to go about it, you need to do something, or let her go.
remember while your talking to tell her, that you know things are partly your fault as well as hers..
if shes not willing to listen.. I would just move on, and find someone more compatible, because you dont sound happy with her much either..
anyways.. my two sense? or cents?
PS Edited for the sake of conversation