tornado, if it's not too personal can you tell us about how your relationship with a polish girl went awry.
i like the wording and not its not to personal, you make it sound like some kind of tragedy, it was just unfortunate.
Its pretty simple really, we were together for about 6 months, we had a good time and we liked each other a lot. She had finished her studies and kept her word to her family that she would return to her home in Poland. It was agreed by us both that it was probably for the best that we end our relationship instead of dragging it out into nothingness. We had a lot of good times and we wanted to remember them. We both have no regrets about our decision, i'm still in contact with her through e-mail, messenger etc and enjoy talking to her, its no basis for a relationship though. People move on and thats it :)
Unless you know sausage personally and the girl he's involved with and his situation and both their feelings on the situation then you cannot possibly say that either of them are "wasting time".
yet its ok to give to suggest the flip side of the coin, 'ow yes go for it, why not, risk it' you know him as much as me, were both commenting on something we don't really know much about. Our opinions are of equal standings and validity, just because i'm giving what could be viewed by some as negative, your telling me i'm wrong :) funny that :)
How to sustain a Long Distance Relationship with a Polish girl
This was the original topic title. Nothing about it being realistic or being a fantasy.
part of the topic, this is the title, if you look at the actual content of the first post he clearly states his situation, please don't try and discredit my points with bureaucratic forum rubbish, a point of view is a point of view, whether said in or outside of a forum.