OK. Without beating about the bush (what a metaphor), I am the subject pretty much of quite intensive emotional abuse, and mild physical abuse. My partner doles this out to me on a daily basis. We live with our baby and two other Polish guys. The other guys just ignore it/act as if nothing is happening/laugh it off - even if I am sitting sobbing on the sofa, he is drunkenly shoving/etc. me and it is totally clear that this isn't funny.
I know there is a culture of not mixing yourself up in another guy's business, but does that extend to turning a blind eye to domestic abuse? I think for some Poles it does. Not all - because I know some guys who simply wouldn't let him do it to me - or who would rather move out that watch it. And I honestly think that most English guys would consider it not on, and would say something.
I know I sound like a spineless wretch in all this ... well, I am, at the moment. There's not much we can do about that - nobody is going to help me, and that isn't really the point of the post: I am just interested to hear what you Polish guys/girls (and anyone else with experience of this) think about the Polish take on abuse in the home ...
I know there is a culture of not mixing yourself up in another guy's business, but does that extend to turning a blind eye to domestic abuse? I think for some Poles it does. Not all - because I know some guys who simply wouldn't let him do it to me - or who would rather move out that watch it. And I honestly think that most English guys would consider it not on, and would say something.
I know I sound like a spineless wretch in all this ... well, I am, at the moment. There's not much we can do about that - nobody is going to help me, and that isn't really the point of the post: I am just interested to hear what you Polish guys/girls (and anyone else with experience of this) think about the Polish take on abuse in the home ...