dont care any more-if he is and i decide to visit him when i am in poland-then if he is guess he has a lot of explaining to do to his misses-about his english friend!
He doesn't have to explain anything. He will probably slam the door in your face.
If his 'girlfriend' answers the door, he will stand by her. He will lose face in front of his family otherwise.
If you make an appointment to meet him. He probably won't turn up. If he does, he'll be full of shite.
Most of us have told you exactly what would happen. And for the most part we were right.
Why do you continue to make life difficult for yourself ?
We understand your plight and want the best for you. Please, understand this and forget him.