Brit working in Poland - asking this Polish lady if she's in a relationship?

...same here lol........can't seem to do anything right myself but sometimes other people can see what you can't. If you get what I mean ?

But I always try my very best and that's all anyone can do I think.

.....have you thought if men and women were the same then where would we be ? Interesting question hahaha!

:)

True, its a lot easier giving an opinion than actually carrying out the deed yourself.

Yes. I wish I was wise and very experienced and know how to deal with things better lol.

I can solve most problems in a commercial sense but personal ones , well I could do with a hefty manual.

I expect when you do become that wise you end up being too old to bother about stuff like that <joke> LOL.

:)

for a man of the world you seem pretty shy, just say this to her. would you like to go out go out for a drink? or a meal ?or to the cinema??? if she says no well at least you tried and died!! if she say's yes well good luck man of the world.

Well.....today i dodged work for an hour....bought some flowers and drove to her office to deliver them.....She seemed really pleased with them , and offered her cheek for a kiss.....i kissed her....words can, t describe the tingle it gave me , made my toes curl....I think she asked me for a coffee sometime but i am not sure , anyways she is going to send me a text message which my friends at work can help translate......Seems to be going ok so far.....I seem to be thinking about her every moment since i first met her.....this could be serious.......eeekkkk

Fingers crossed !

ERR man of the world yes.....but not an expert on Polish women....Because of the difference in culture it is possible to offend the lady by doing something that maybe would be ok in the UK......I just don,t want to make a problem for her , so i asked the advice of Polish ladies.....I should have maybe said i was a man of most of the world...excluding Poland.....

I hope things work out for you wildrover, I think even Polish ladies would like to be asked out for a meal. or don't they eat over there? Do Polish ladies really get offended by being asked out? cos I think if they didn't wanna go out they could always say NO but thank you for asking... again good luck my friend...

good stuff mate... keep us posted on how things progress...


You're right, but I think that WR should take one step at a time... coffee, then lunch.... see how things develop... and then dinner

well maybe your right LC but then again if hes gonna take her out all day then he may as well ask her to a club as well, maybe that way she will cook breakfast:)

Easy, boy!!

I eagerly await her contact......i will let you all know what happens.....did i say she has the most beautifull eyes...i try not to stare , but its hard to take my eyes from hers....I think i fell for her the first time i met her...but i kinda denied it....now i am giving in to what i feel....and it feels nice.....god i hope she is single.....

"How do you like your eggs in the morning, fertlised???"

Get the Harley out mate. Give her the ride of her life.

also by me :)

ok wildrover this sounds serious:)) even I am crossing my fingers now:) LC I will have you know I am not easy:) But for dinner I will do anything:)

WIldrover lol you have us all sitting here on pins and needles... how wonderful
that your toes curled.. you know what that means.. lol

:)

NEW SHOES:)

Tell her you can get her a passport out of the country, and i am sure she will say yes to absolutely anything you ask of her!!!!!!!!!!!

[quote=innocentlady] Tell her you can get her a passport out of the country,

He has gotta get new shoes first:) didn;t you read he's got curly toes now:0
I think that wildrovers in l.o.v.e and I hope that things really work out for him. buutt if not at least he will have new shoes:)

no serious now - good luck WR.

Oooh, go easy on those exclamation marks.

A tad bitter this evening, huh?

Just think WR, she may be brazen enough to invite you to her place for coffee. You could nip around back to check out her shed and see if she has any of your tools. If not, she may be a good catch. :-)

hope this makes you smile

That's really great to hear wildrover.......am so pleased for you but
just take it one step at a time and slowly :)

Does she have blue eyes ? Mine are blue and people have always remarked on them ......lol.

Awww again wildrover best of luck with it but somehow I don't think you will need it. Just invite us all to the wedding. I'll come ! But am not wearing a hat <g>

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I think taking her for a ride in the snow and freezing her to death might not be a good way to impress her.....but when the sun is shining i will cetainly ask her to ride with me.....I hope she likes bikes....

lol.. nope.. take the car..

so when is the coffee date?

Good luck. It seems that you have been living in Poland for some time, I wonder why you dont learn Polish? surely that would be the first step towards finding yourself a nice lady. I speak from experience that relationships with language barriers can be challenging.

Yes it will be a challenge with my limited Polish , and her complete lack of English , but she is worth the effort it will take....With my job taking up so much time i don,t have much chance to learn Polish , but hopefully Jowita and i can teach each other......The coffee date is over these few days of holiday ..i think....i am eagerly awaiting her text message......

They can, I know also from experience. Can lead to misunderstandings as well. And cultural habits might not be always compatible, i.e.: some ppl mention your first name in nearly every sentense they speak to you; in Holland it's considered very rude to do this as it only is done there when ppl are angry at you. So as a Dutchman I always feel a bit awkward when somebody speaks to me, mentioning my first name in every sentense they say to me: you know, M-G, it is a lovely day today. Also, if somebody does not specifically answers "no" to a question asked or txted and instead does not answer, which is usual in some cultures, it is in Holland assumed that that person agrees. This can also lead to peculiar sits. If you know what I mean.

M-G

I can,t stop thinking about her....she is on my mind every moment i am awake.....I think i am in love with her....I haven,t been in love very many times in my life , but when i was it was pretty serious stuff....It ended up with broken hearts of course , but i am not bitter , and i still believe in love.....I just hope she is single , and that maybe she feels something for me too.....Not being fluent in each others language will be difficult , but Nothing good in my life ever came easy , she is worth whatever it takes to win her , and the fact she has a daughter is not a problem for me , unless she hates me that is , then it could be tricky......Oh god , why hasn,t she rung me yet...does she know my heart leaps every time my phone rings...but its not her....oh boy i have got it bad haven,t i...don,t laugh...this is serious...