Brit working in Poland - asking this Polish lady if she's in a relationship?

Wildrover, do you have her number? maybe she's sitting holding her phone saying ring will ya. and yes you do have it bad, good luck, but for gods sake ring her or give me her number and i will ring her for you:) maybe she's shy as well and if one of you don't ring soon I will put an advert in every polish paper asking her to ring you cos this is like watching paint dry:) only joking :)

My guess is that she's spending Easter with her family (I mean grannies and aunties etc) - isn't it more of a family celebration in Poland?

Tough it out today, and call her tomorrow and see if she'd be up for lunch on Tuesday.

Good advice:)

Just call me Claire Rayner... LOL!

ok, now i'm confused:0 are you Claire or london chick? is that why you write for publications? agony aunt? LOL!!

Today i discovered the email address of her office...So , i have asked her out , asked her to text me...AND told her that she is kinda special to me.....now i wait with baited breath.....

Here's hoping that you don't have to wait much longer...all the best

please don't try to kiss her with baited breath :) lol

depends...on what its baited with...not fish hopefully.....

good to see your sense of humour back mate. by the way how come you get all the Jowitas??

i have decided to collect them...perhaps breed from them...start my own herd.....

hope the Jowita you love don't read that:) :0:*)

Ha..if she was on here...i wouldn,t be desperatly waiting for her to call me.....

well any news yet WR?? I goota know before I go to Poland tomorrow or I will be worried about you for my whole holiday:) take care ...

What's the news?

Still waiting for her call....but i do have some English learning books for her , that i may just drop off there next time i pass , after i have been to the flower shop.....She likes flowers...so i want to get her some......maybe i will get another kiss on her cheek.....i am still on a high from the last one.....on 19th of march.....at 11.22 am......

Have you got her number ?

now my holiday will be ruined:) I will have to go to an internet cafe in Krakow. for Gods sake man get your ass round there:0 good luck WR.. man this is worse than Eastenders:):)

errr no...but i am going to ask for it when i go to see her....TOMOROW.....!!!!

That sounds cool, its been a week.

Lol@errr no.
Just ask her. Dont ruin olivers holiday. lol

good advice firestorm.. is it me or has the qoute button moved again???

Yes. Its moved.. Again.! lol

any updates, mate?

Today i went into work late...something to do with the fact i have driven for two days wirh only a few hours sleep...anyways i decided to visit Jowita,s office....I took her some learning English books that i used when i was a teacher , and some magazines that had stories about me in them , as she wanted to know how come i ended up in Polska....She seemed pleased to see me at first , but she was definatly suffering from a cold , and said this was the reason she hadn,t phoned me......I had an uneasy feeling she might think i am becoming a pain in the arse , maybe she just felt ill , but i decided i was going to back off and not chase her anymore unless she contacts me....Maybe i read the signals wrong , maybe she is just ill , maybe she has a boyfriend...Whatever....i am giving her a miss unless i get some signal she is a bit interested....I don,t want to be a pain , even tho i can,t stop thinking about her.....So...fraid no good news to report.....but my cats love me........

maybe she is really,ill?? hope things work out for you mate. thought I would check on ya from krakow..lol

Woman can be strange. If she was feeling ill she might have thought she looked bad and didn't want you to see her.

I suppose you have made the move twice, so a little bit of reciprocity would be nice !
Maybe just take it easy for a while.

As I have said before, I am in no way qualified to give advice.

....She seemed pleased to see me at first , but she was definatly suffering from a cold ,(quote)

I was wondering about ya.. yes having a cold/illness can make things difficult..
but show her you care about her health.. bring her some soup or maybe something
that is going to make her feel better.. if you back off now, she will think your not
interested anymore and wonder what it was she did. if anything, establish that
friendship..men who show these small little caring things really make women feel
more comfortable.. and tell her.. its only to make her day brighter.. cause you know she doesnt feel well. and that your sorry she feels so bad.. the attentive man is very attractive to many women.. :) go get er tiger.. lol

Aww i just see this thread, i'm in a very very similar position mate, only in England.

She is the reason i started learning Polish, we only been on a handful of dates but things have been from great, to nothing, to great, to nothing again. I managed to forget it last time and move on, carried on with the language because i'm enjoying learning it and all was cool.

Then after another month i start getting ominous messages again on *add generic networking site here*. We trade a few pleasantries and last night i text her to ask if she was free, but no reply.

I'd be happier if she told me to feck off, this 'limbo' business sucks man, it really does.

Big hug in your direction wildrover, I hope you get yours.