help dating polish lady

If the shoe fits PG ;)

Do you want her for one night or do want to be with her????? You know girl in relationship is dating diffrent guy. It doesnt matter how is between them she is cheating on him. If you want night it is a good option, she is open. If you are looking for a long realtionship leave her because in the future you will finish like her current guy;)

does lee evans site also have a "dating polish women" section?

Beat her up then say you love her, if she doesnt respond chances are:

1. She's uncoscious.
2.She's dead.
3. You have eye problems and have beaten up the wrong woman.

Anyway violence against women never fails, everrrr.

You can borrow my car if you like..just email me on zip3@hotmail.co.uk
send me a mesg and we can chat off line..dating a married women can be difficult but I can offer advice off line.

Yeah, a lot of **** can happen for sure.

be calm you well win

cmon kid give us an update. we give you all of our hard earned advice and we need an update!

yeh come on update time.please.i need cheering up.

ok.
I asked her for a drink last week and she said 'sure why not' was suprised as i thought she would say no or make excuse. Got her number and talk to her everyday. Think she like me as friend then boyfriend but iam ok with that. Rarther we dating but way it goes. So just waiting for friday now 4 are drink and maybe i get signs if she like/dislike me. Thats it really sure u all get kick outta this but i dont care as i dont know so...

cmon now no we all hope for the best for you. really. everybody wants love to win in the end. u r doing the right thing. slowly slowly. too fast and it will just be a quick thing good luck

Best of luck Helghast! Do let us know how it goes.

ok so you have done the first part of letting her know that you are interested. now the key is to not be too available. people are often most interested in what they are not sure if they can get. few are interested in that which is readily available. I am speaking of before couples are actually together. of course dont forget she has a boyfriend and if she does something with you when she is with him then you dont want her for a gf

was txting her for 2hours last night and got into convo about me n her. She said she aint type of girl for me and i dont know her. Yet i kinda do. And she said her life complicated and turns out are lives similier. I.e my last girl was just like her but english but she had problems. Her dad passed away the her nan in 1month and it got to her and said she cant live without them next day was her birthday 18 years old went round with prezzie and there she was hangin from a rope with a letter saying she sorry and loved me. Now with polish girl is just same and tha she told me she happy with her boyfriend and still be friends and go for drink still but i dont know if i want to now. As she gave signs out as if she were single and liked me. I should of seen this would happen ages ago yet a kept tell myself and people around me also said i may stand a chance. Im REALLY REALLY GUTTED but i cant force her to date me so my search continues :( wish i knew fluent polish so i really explain my feeling for her

everything happen's for a reason

It might be as well you found where she stands and how she feels before you got deeper into this.

She ditched you.


My good sir, i am not only very modest but also very smart so allow me to explain some deep truths about women that only sensitive individuals like me pick up.

Not all women can say "NO" some of them have a more subtle way of ditching a man, she was in a difficult moment of her life and apparently your presence was a comfort whereas her boyfriend might not have been comforting so she kept talking to you because it helped.

Eventually you asked for more and got confronted with a very subtle "no", the way i see it the girl sent you signals that you're a nice and supportive guy and its good that you're around and you've mistaken them for signs of affection, happens to best of us ( except me ).

My advice, let her go, break off the contact and go find ze lady thats for you.

this coming from the guy who said to beat her up. no you should continue to hang out with her because if it isnt her than maybe she has a nice friend who you might hit it off. you cant have too many friends

Well ... i'd be crying over ruining my favourite coat with blood while doing the beating, that makes me sensitive no ?


Sire you're speaking from a bystanders perspective whereas Helghast apparently is charmed by the young lady and should he not break off the contact he might just keep trying and trying only to suffer vain hopes and denial, if he cannot think of her as a friend and friend only he should definitely move on to spare himself a fugly situation.

i cant qoute as im on mobile phone.

But kameron your spot on. Everything you said is like you are at both ends telling us what to say but spooky to read lol. Like i feel used in a way but i said after 2night i wont sms her no more and i wont c her for 2wks as i off holiday. So i wont interact with her 2night. Im gona chill out and empty my head and prepare for my dri

Ing test friday. Listen to music. Thanks for advice lady n gents shamefully tho nothing good come of it. Mate said keep on her as i still stand chance. But i dont so i give up. So thanks again :)

hi people :)

i work for company at called asda doin nights for the xmas period stackking shelfs. whilst working there i noticed a nice polish girl whom i liked and was very intrested in. few months back i started talking to her alot and found out she had a boyfriend which i was ok about. tho we went out for a drink 2x. we had each other's number's by then and was txting each other quite alot (40-50 aday) untill one night she split with her bf and she never spoke to me the whoale night. and i didnt like it when we no speak to each other. next morning a gave her a sms to see how she was and we talked about the situation. her bf split with her and she wanted to split with him anyways, and she say that he done this 10x before but want back. (he also cheated on her) now at work i got the feeling she gave me the IM SINGLE NOW COME GET ME signals so i brought this. now before we met (im 20 she 22) i was a very quite lad never went out much due to personal reason's. but after i go with her 2x i become a better person. im more active im more talkative and more confident becouse of her. i found it hard to get her on another night out or get more then 10 sms out of her a week. i told her i like her before work one night in a email and asked if it would go further. but i got no reply :/

but on sunday 23rd november i found out that she had gone back with her bf. now when i asked her portuguese friend who very lovely girl if true and she say yes. and i also found out that in the first place i was part of the reason they had split as he see 1of my sms on her phone. now she didnt tell me this and i felt angry,sad,guitly in 1go. i was mixed reactions to it. was angry she never told me anything (tho she didnt have to) sad they back together and even more so guitly that i was part of it :( so i sent her (polsih girl) a email saying that i was very sorry that this happend and wouldnt sms her no more if it gets her in trouble unless she wanted me to keep sms. i also said i think her bf a silly boy for dumping her and wanting back all the time. and also sad that me n her didnt become boyfriend and girlfriend as i would treated her much better and said i thought we make good couple. also said talking to her made me happy which it did. she replyed with she understand msg and wanted speak at work.and said sweet dreams ( we say this when go sleep after work at 6am) but last night she never spoke to me at all not on break not nothing i didnt attepmt as she done this before. i smile and she smile back but lil bit tho. so i ask her friend to have lil word with her on way home this morn and i show her the msg and she say it lil deep which i agree but she say it weird that she wont sms now she with bf. what shall i do? should i carry on be friends with her or what? i mean like her so much i got in trouble speaking to her too much. i tryed learn polish. i changed the way i act. basiclly im diff person. im mad at her for making me beleive she was intrested and wanted to go further tho i dont know if she did or not. i duno if true but i heard she likes me but when we go out i was quite. which i agree as it was hard for me not been out for drink since 18th and go out for 1st time in 2years with somebody i only met month ago ( now 2months). im gutted i really am gutted but i want keep her as friend but at the min untill i find out whats wrong i just want to leave the work place and get new job. how i feel as i cant stand now talking to her not sms her. drives me nuts! all i do is think about how cool she is n stuff but i got get this out of mind now :/ sorry if this sounds dull boring and stupid but i need thoughts on i can do next as i got noboddy i can trust to talk to. i dont trust nobody at work at th minute.

thanks for time :) hope you can help me make the right choice

If you are desperate , stick with it..if not , find another girl who isn,t playing games...What she is doing with her boyfriend she will do with you....

Just out of interest what nationality are you? Do you think that might be the problem? Also you know she has a boyfriend, so why not leave it alone?

desperate is kinda harsh mate lol but i rarther be my friend then nothing at all. like i say tp her friend im not out to hurt noboddy i just done what any other male would do. i didnt think OH SHE LEFT HIM NOW I GO IN FOR THE KILL was nothing like this. just i maybe got the wrong end of the stick. whats made me more sad is her friend noticed we was getting along well and thought of an idea were me polsih girl her friend n her bf got out for drink but as she went to ask polish girl is day she found out they back together. tbh i still think we could date if ig to 2nd chance and with lil help from herfriend but im gona let things go as they are now as i cuased trouble when i didnt mean too :/ no matterwhat i want her as my friend or girlfriend with friend being the only option now. :(

man i sound like a man pouring his heart out to random people. haha

well I cant be bothered to read your whole post as its way too long and Im at work.. but my advice is that if you work at Asda you should be in a good place to meet other women, just check out their baskets to see if they are single or not.. or start a singles night at your supermarket. Leave the girl with the bf alone, she will bring you heartache.

im english and i dont see it as a problem else she wouldnt go for drink or anything would she? yea i wrote a long post but its better you get the full story then some of it. like i said i got noboddy to talk to as everybody i know seems to be backstabbing me at the moment. so i counting on a bunch of people i dont know to give advice so id appreciate if you keep stupid post's to yourselfs. not that im accusing anybody of doin so but this fireif could be a joke i wouldnt understand.

a guy who was in the same situation and posted kilometers of whiny, boring, uneventful details about how his mind cannot accept the fact that she was not into him. Pretty bad part of the posting history of Polish Forums and people are simply scared because some are still going through post traumatic stress disorder:)

Listen helghast. Leave the girl alone.
She is dealing with her bf at the moment and you are in her way. I'm sure he got mad when he saw your text on her phone. She cares about him, not you. You are just a friend from work, she doesn't want to share her life with you. She's nice to you because she's just nice. That's all. Find yourself another girl who's unnatached.

This will not work. Not at the moment anyway, until she decides she is over her bf.

Well, Just be yourself?
What else?
If she is the one, she will also know?
(:

ok :) i over this now i face facts. i now happy becouse i know she like me but i quite when we go drink. but i like this becouse it new person and long time i go drink with sombody 1 on 1. normally it be in loud place were you cant hear or talk haha. i sorry wasting people time and sound ******* idiot. i re-read what i posted and its stupid what i say. but i stay friends with her and maybe oneday something happen.

Are you really English? You are writing like a foreigner, and its hard to understand. Maybe she's not into your ethnicity, or can't understand you either.

Give the girl a rest, all this obsessing over her seems stalkerish.