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H3LGHAST  
23 Apr 2007 /  #1
hey

recently i noticed a young polish girl that looks my age (18) but every time for strange reason we look at each other and look away. is it we like each other or what? im not good on dating but dating polish would be hard with the language barrier. she's a cleaner along with 6 other polish woman and people at work say ask her out or there help out. has any one got any tip's to help as i really like her alot. i will see her at work tomorroow night so im gona go hunt her down with any tip's provided.

cheer's:)
ArturSzastak 3 | 593  
23 Apr 2007 /  #2
recently i noticed a young polish girl that looks my age (18) but every time for strange reason we look at each other and look away. is it we like each other or what?

Could be. Or she could think you might be stalking her. You never know really.

Just try to talk to her, get to know her, and see how it goes :)

Ask questions about her home town in Poland, we usually love talking about them, since there is no place like home. Keep a smile on your face the entire time she talks about it, and if she goes into detail about it, say you'd like to visit there some time because it sounds nice.

Tell her you'd always wanted to learn more about Poland, whether you want to or not, and ask about certain cities.

Czestochowa (chest-oh-cho-vah)
Krakow (Crock-ov)
Warsaw (as basic as it gets)
Gdansk (gd-onsk)

Stufy up on Poland, learn about famous Poles, and never be afraid to ask about her home and what she liked to do. We Poles seem to love to talk about the mountain springs and the great monuments in Poland :)

Hope I helped :)
OP H3LGHAST  
23 Apr 2007 /  #3
Could be. Or she could think you might be stalking her. You never know really

this is every time i pass by her department. but yes you did help a bit and thanks. can you tell me some word's in polish like your Beautiful and stuff like this please? the only polish i know is the legend goalie who plays for my football team Liverpool fc and thats jerzy dudek. shame he dont play often :(. im 100% committed to dating her ever to learn polish
ArturSzastak 3 | 593  
23 Apr 2007 /  #4
No problem. Look for others with the language help. They have been speaking Polish longer than I and can help you more than I could :)
OP H3LGHAST  
23 Apr 2007 /  #5
ok cool but any other tip's to woo her. as polish woman are different to english woman. english are uptight but polish wear what they want and have crazy hair design's. which makes them perfect. as i found out. but i have less then 24 hours to learn more polish and dating tip's :)

anybody??
witek 1 | 587  
23 Apr 2007 /  #6
sometimes body language can reveal more about a person than mere words ever will :)

the wink, the touch , the smile :)



Moon - | 44  
23 Apr 2007 /  #7
Hi H3LGHAST.. sounds like you are still searching for answers. I'm a Polish female. (I'm not 100% but 1/2) I can offer you some tips if you are so interested.

polish wear what they want and have crazy hair design's

If you are describing the girl in question here.. it sounds like she may have a similar appoach to life as I.

1.Don't act too desperate.(I can't stress this enough) She is Polish; she probably is a very strong-willed independent person.

2. Get creative if you ask her out on a date. Pick something original to do... besides the standard dinner at a restaurant and a movie. Do something for her... Take her on a picnic and bring everything you need.. Make or buy lunch. Bring a blanket. Go for a walk.. spark interesting converstation.. and really listen. (so on date two, you can reference something in the conversation==to show that you did pay attention)

Keep a smile on your face

This is pretty important.. I agree with you. This shows you enjoy and are haveing a genuine time.
Hope some of this helps.
mohdanu  
24 Apr 2007 /  #8
Tell her you'd always wanted to learn more about Poland, whether you want to or not, and ask about certain cities.

That means polish girls are also very patriotic. right?
kasia1983  
24 Apr 2007 /  #9
Hi,
first of all, I'm polish and not really patriotic so not all polish people are patriots if they were they wouldn't be in the UK hehehe. But seriously, I think that the best thing u can do is simply ask her out. But remember that she can be shy if she doesn't speak english. She may feel uncomfortable talking to a native speaker if her english is not fluent. So u have to do everything to make her feel good in your company.SMILE A LOT.

u are beautiful = jesteś piękna (sounds "ś" and "ć" are difficult to explain, maybe someone has a good idea how to explain how to pronounce them, i suggest to pronounce "ś" like "sh")

your eyes are beautiful = masz piękne oczy (mash piekne ochy - or something like this)
if u have more questions don't hesitate to as. I will be happy to help you.
kasia

p.s sorry for any spelling mistakes
stepheng  
24 Apr 2007 /  #10
Thanks for the tips in this thread, I'm an Englishman (28) and I don't know much about Polish women but recently a number of Polish workers started at the factory in the business where I work, so I decided to brush up on some basic phrases to be polite.

Needless to say I found out later a couple of women were among them and one of them (as well as being very beautiful) seems friendly and I like her a lot. We always exchanged smiles when passing every few days, but one day when I was walking to my car for lunch (a bit of a surprise) she said hello to me in English. After being surprised by that I responded with Dzień dobry which we now say to each other when we cross paths.

I will ask her about Poland next time I see her and see if we can organise a time to get have a good conversation as I would like to learn more about her and her background.

Any tips would be handy. :)

Dziekuję
miranda  
24 Apr 2007 /  #11
well,
one of the members is in a process of writing a manual on Polish girls/women and it's not finished yet.
He recently quit smoking, so you understand that this might take a while for him to complete .
:) :) :)
OP H3LGHAST  
25 Apr 2007 /  #12
Hi,
first of all, I'm polish

ok thanks. yes she is very shy with me. i got some words in polish that im gonna ask her. today i see her when i finished work and went to ask her and couldn't find her so im SO disappointed now. i just finished a 12hour shift so i might stay awake get my tattoo and see her :) her english is ok basic really but i cant wait to see her again :) only thing is we both look at each other and both look away quickly but its weird
pedrin  
25 Apr 2007 /  #13
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