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How to go about dating a polish girfriend?


brazilianguy 1 | 8  
14 Dec 2007 /  #1
I'm a high-skilled brazilian guy currently studying in the UK and living in London for 4 years. I've been dating some girls here but i really want to dating a Polish girl. I dont go out very much but would like to know how to get attention of a Poland girl when I find one.. I find then often in buses or underground {metro} but dont know how to start a conversation.. ;-)
polishgirltx  
14 Dec 2007 /  #2
I find then often in buses or underground {metro}

you may spare a dime...

good luck...

;P
plk123 8 | 4,150  
15 Dec 2007 /  #4
learn a few polish words and then use them when you see a laseczka. :)
southern 75 | 7,096  
15 Dec 2007 /  #5
You should ask her:Are you from Poland?Then she will answe yes,why?
Because you have polish looks.
nauczyciel  
15 Dec 2007 /  #7
i wanted to write something about sausages...but i knew it would be censored. :/
used - | 3  
15 Dec 2007 /  #9
best advice is....dont
Shawn_H  
15 Dec 2007 /  #10
Why not?
used - | 3  
15 Dec 2007 /  #11
There are many threads on this forum about Polish girls "using" western men for their own ends,.....I disregarded them,but after my own experience I can see a pattern emerging....maybe there is an element of polish girls who strike up a relationship with western guys just for personal gain .

I am sure there is this element in all nationalities to a degree,but after being taken in by a polish girl myself,i will never take that risk again.
Shawn_H  
15 Dec 2007 /  #12
I disregarded them,but after my own experience

Sorry about your luck, but for every unfortunate ending, I am sure there are many happy endings. I know of at least 8 guys happily married to / dating some wonderful Polish Gals that " arent out for the money ".

You should keep an open mind, and find the right gal, Polish or not. Better luck next time.
PinkJewel  
15 Dec 2007 /  #13
maybe there is an element of polish girls who strike up a relationship with western guys just for personal gain .

This is not just limited to Polish girls. There are plenty of of Brit girls who take up with men for personal gain. Probably plenty of girls in every country.

So is this another thread that's going to descend into slagging off Polish people?
used - | 3  
15 Dec 2007 /  #14
No offence to Poles,have Polish friends,just a bit off right now! :-(
PinkJewel  
15 Dec 2007 /  #15
I think it's a safer bet to say you're off girls right now, rather than Polish girls...
krysia 23 | 3,057  
15 Dec 2007 /  #17
I am sure there is this element in all nationalities to a degree,but after being taken in by a polish girl myself,i will never take that risk again.

Sorry to hear that, but I know it's true because my brother met several of them in Poland and all they were interested was money.

But not all are like that. There are these decent, down-to-earth honest Polish girls who wouldn't take a penny from anyone if she feels she didn't deserve it. Unfortunately it's only about 1% of the population. And I'm the one....:)
OP brazilianguy 1 | 8  
15 Dec 2007 /  #18
There are these decent, down-to-earth honest Polish girls who wouldn't take a penny from anyone if she feels she didn't deserve it. Unfortunately it's only about 1% of the population. And I'm the one....:)

interesting .. ;-)
the_falkster 1 | 180  
16 Dec 2007 /  #19
maybe there is an element of polish girls who strike up a relationship with western guys just for personal gain

(@used: this is not addressed only to you but your quote was just suitable...)

apart from the fact that it is not limited to polish girls (as was already mentioned here) i am interested in something else...

what kind of men are out there that you all can't deal with that?
it is normal and not even bad that everyone tries to gain the most for themselves. completely understandable that many girls are after material stuff, who wouldn't? if i knew that i only had to ask for something to get... i certainly would ask.

guys, there is a certain element of educating and getting to know each others ways in every relationship.

my girlfriend (yes, she is polish) does the same if we go shopping. it isa case of telling things as they are. i.d rather spend money to help her get a better job. i simply explain that if she wants all these nice things she needs to help with the money earning thing as it doesn't grow on trees...

then there is another element to relationships where greed (in the extreme case) seems to be an issue...
i am not the very best housekeeper but my gf enjoys housework (to an extent!). this frees up my time and mind to my work and earn money... housework is work too. doesn't she deserve to be rewarded from time to time?

and finally it makes me happy to see the sparkle in her eyes when i buy something nice (sometimes a bunch of flowers works the trick already as it shows that i care).

yes, she was coming from a rather poor background but i made this money thing clear quite early, not because i had too but because i wanted to. i want a partner who feels equal.

i know that it is tempting to throw the money out and act as "the man", but in the long term that doesn't work. yes. from time to time it is a good thing. but if you come to the roint that your girl is expecting you to spend money on her, simply say no and explain. the earlier the better...

if she doesn't like it and dumps you for that... it wasn't worth it anyway, right?

as the beatles sang: "money can't buy me love"...
blackadder 1 | 114  
16 Dec 2007 /  #20
average age of virginity lost.

furfy.com/virginitymap.html?source=qgyh2

maybe he didn't had luck in Brasil?
just joking
OP brazilianguy 1 | 8  
16 Dec 2007 /  #21
maybe he didn't had luck in Brasil?

Yes I did, but the matter is: My ex girlfriend dont like europe and I had to try europeans girls here. I've been dating girls from From England but didnt like too much.. ( no comments ) thats why I do want to try a polish girl, to see-how-it-goes relationship.

;-)
Curtis 3 | 73  
17 Dec 2007 /  #22
I dont see why you can just simply say.. I want a polish girlfriend!

Personally I think when two people meet, no matter how different they are, if there's that something that clicks right there.. The kind of moment that could last forever.. Then that's the thing people should look for in having a relationship with someone.

Hey Falkster, Cool hearing about how you and your girlfriend work things out around the house. By the sounds of it, it's how I would want to be with my girlfriend someday.

I know if I go out wearing my rolex, with a wod of cash in my pocket, my mobile phones and iPod then there'll be a certain type of girl that will want to stick around. But I really don't want that kind of girl. I don't wear any jewellery, don't gel my hair (taking care of yourself is cool and all, But I don't go all fancy just to go to school and stuff), only carry enought for what I need (usaully a bus fair or two for the return). Personally want a girl who likes me for who I can, not what I've got. Material things don't mean much to me, I'd easily give up everything I've got in exchange for that girl who just wants me.

Only my opinion though, different people say different things.
osiol 55 | 3,922  
17 Dec 2007 /  #23
Dendrochronology?
Radio Carbon Dating?
z_darius 14 | 3,968  
17 Dec 2007 /  #24
Material things don't mean much to me, I'd easily give up everything I've got in exchange for that girl who just wants me.

Wrong.
Before you reach the destination someone will steal the rolex and the cash, and you will be lucky if you can still recognize yourself in the mirror the next morning.

I know if I go out wearing my rolex, with a wod of cash in my pocket, my mobile phones and iPod then there'll be a certain type of girl that will want to stick around.

How much you got? :)
LCzachor 6 | 68  
17 Dec 2007 /  #25
Isn't it a bit senseless to choose the nationality of the girl you want to meet?

I mean... They will just show up and you will fall in stupid love again and again, is it about nationality? :/ Someone will just show up... I'm sure you can find a decent british girl :)

Love sucks btw
OP brazilianguy 1 | 8  
17 Dec 2007 /  #26
I'm sure you can find a decent british girl

Yeah , maybe. But after dating some of them .. and the last one have said to me that she is 100% british and should date a 100% british guy, I decided to give up such kind of girls . In the beggining they said that I was wonderful .. romantic guy, and everything I am and do.. the way I take care of then is so special, etc.. etc.. but after all they just change their mind and say they have to stay "pure" . I just dont like very much such comments, anyway I know that poland girls are good ones to make a family .. ;-)

Personally I think when two people meet, no matter how different they are

Yes we are so different, I mean, different thinking about love and respect for someone that we love, not just a spare when we need such a sexual needs.. ;-)
Curtis 3 | 73  
18 Dec 2007 /  #27
Wrong.
Before you reach the destination someone will steal the rolex and the cash, and you will be lucky if you can still recognize yourself in the mirror the next morning.

I don't mean it as I'd love to get mugged walking down the street. I mean it by if I had the choice, I'd rather be happy with someone special than be loaded and have a lot of things.

I'm not going to say how much I've got, as like I've said, it doesn't mean much to me. I'd rather people know me on here for what I post, rather than that guy with this that and the other... :)

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