As a woman I have to say I find it offensive seeing these people walking about with flab hanging out, but Ive seen a fair few fat Africans doing the same - I often wonder if these people have mirrors or friends....
in some cultures being fat is desirable..and men like women who let it all hang out. Obviously not Polish men though. Personally I have just found a quick and easy way to drop a stone in a couple of weeks, get giardia (a parastic stomach complaint) you wont want to eat and anything you do will come straight out...and to get back on topic, my polish man is very happy I am losing weight and probably also that I bought him a car!