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Polish men (guys) - foreign women (girls)?


kasia24 6 | 27  
1 Jun 2009 /  #1
So far what I experienced its more common for a Polish woman to marry a foreign man, ore have a relationship with a foreign man! (from Uk, the States, e.g). But how common is it for Polish men (or younger guys) to involve into a serious relationship with a foreign woman? (from Scandinavia, the states, and so on?) Are they usually long-lasting ore just for fun? (stupid question maybe....love without boarders does exist no matter what sex we are talking about!) But what do Polish guys think about foreign women?

Do you see any benefits in a this kind of relationship? What experience do you have?
Would a Polish men's family have any problems with him having a relationship with someone from abroad/someone who's not Polish/Polish roots but still a foreigner?)

Help me please! I'm happy to share your experiences!

And what about the age different, if she's around 25 he's more ore less 10 yrs older... Does it make any different?
What do you belive? And what do Polish men see in foreign women since they have so beautiful women in their country, from my experience, I could see more benefits to involve in a relationship with someone who's more like you (Polish), sharing the same customs, values and traditions as you, than with a woman from a foreign country?
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
1 Jun 2009 /  #2
I know some relationships with Polish guy and non-Polish girl/woman. I don't think this is extremely uncommon. But I do think Polish female and non-Polish male is more common.

And what do Polish men see in foreign women since they have so beautiful women in their country, from my experience, I could see more benefits to involve in a relationship with someone who's more like you (Polish), sharing the same customs, values and traditions as you, than with a woman from a foreign country?

This is just personal preferences. It's impossible to answer such a question.
sapphire 22 | 1,241  
1 Jun 2009 /  #3
I could see more benefits to involve in a relationship with someone who's more like you (Polish), sharing the same customs, values and traditions as you, than with a woman from a foreign country?

Have you never heard of the saying 'opposites attract'? Some people find cultural differences attractive, if challenging and some people dont like to date outside of their own culture. There are plenty of threads on here about Polish/non Polish relationshipsif you search for them in the Relationship section.
polishcanuck 7 | 462  
1 Jun 2009 /  #4
Have you never heard of the saying 'opposites attract'?

Statistically speaking couples who have more in common with one another have more successful relationships than 'opposite couples.'

But I do think Polish female and non-Polish male is more common.

Yes, much more more common. From what i hear, it seems like single polish guys in the UK have a hard time.
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
1 Jun 2009 /  #5
it seems like single polish guys in the UK have a hard time.

Maybe they just need to grow a pair and get out and about and start to socialise ;0)

Statistically speaking couples who have more in common with one another have more successful relationships than 'opposite couples.'

I think in general European men are all much of a muchness :0)
markcooper 4 | 80  
1 Jun 2009 /  #6
I think in general European men are all much of a muchness :0)

It looked that way on saturday night. Myself and other half went to a polish nightclub in stratford / east london. Although would say it was probably 50% polish and the others mainly from eastern european countries.

" much of a muchness" 50 or so girls on the dance floor at anyone time. I don't think I saw more than 5 guys on the dance floor. This from 23:00 - 05:00

" much of a muchness" I won the longest hair competion. It's just off my colar.

" much of a muchness" Sporadic outbreaks of violence. Hourly on the perimiter of dance floor.

" much of a muchness" Shellsuits galore !!

............the dancing though, all them girls and baiscally no-one made an effort.
peter_olsztyn 6 | 1,098  
1 Jun 2009 /  #7
And what do Polish men see in foreign women since they have so beautiful women in their country

I have seen many beautiful women abroad with different kind of beauty (eg Indian, Swedish, Dutch or Japanese women) and this difference may be very attractive to some of us.

Notice that many foreign women look like a girl who is getting older but still have long hair, ponytail etc. Many Polish women continually do experiments with hair and make up and finally they look like a crow :/
sapphire 22 | 1,241  
3 Jun 2009 /  #8
much of a muchness" 50 or so girls on the dance floor at anyone time. I don't think I saw more than 5 guys on the dance floor. This from 23:00 - 05:00

A lot of guys dont feel confident about dancing, especially when presented with huge groups of girls.. that doesnt mean they are not making an effort, but maybe they are just more interested in the drink.

Statistically speaking couples who have more in common with one another have more successful relationships than 'opposite couples.'

Who the XXXX cares about statistics when it come to relationships! I would rather be in a minority than follow the masses.

From what i hear, it seems like single polish guys in the UK have a hard time.

I dont think thats true. The ones that dont meet foreign women, but would like to) are probably those that dont bother to integrate and get too pissed up on a weekend to be able to speak Polish, let alone English. And the others are probably not bothered or not really single anyway :).
DRJ - | 11  
3 Jun 2009 /  #9
I'm a Polish guy, married to a Scottish female, and I think we work really well together. The language difference was a minor hinderance at the start, but communication is possible if you can be patient! My parents have no problem with the fact that I've married a non-Polish girl...
Grzegorz_ 51 | 6,163  
3 Jun 2009 /  #10
A lot of guys dont feel confident about dancing, especially when presented with huge groups of girls..

I do.
sadieann 2 | 205  
3 Jun 2009 /  #11
It was love at first sight with my Polish husband. Love is Love. It has no barriers (not a cliche).
plk123 8 | 4,150  
3 Jun 2009 /  #12
yes, no, sometimes.
sapphire 22 | 1,241  
4 Jun 2009 /  #13
I do.

well we all know you are gay!
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
4 Jun 2009 /  #14
I do.

Get you Grzegorz Travolta!
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
5 Jun 2009 /  #15
I'm a Polish guy, married to a Scottish female, and I think we work really well together. The language difference was a minor hinderance at the start, but communication is possible if you can be patient!

I think you have pretty much said it.. Patience, this should be a given in any
relationship.
xoxCichYxox - | 1  
6 Jun 2009 /  #16
Well... I'm in a relationship with a Polish guy who's very close to my age (he's older) and it's more of us being extremely compatible and very open-minded and interested about one another's cultures for it to work, and surprisingly the values he was brought up with match perfectly with my own. And as sadieann said...

Love is Love. It has no barriers (not a cliche).

=3
BevK 11 | 248  
9 Jun 2009 /  #17
Who the XXXX cares about statistics when it come to relationships! I would rather be in a minority than follow the masses.

Well said!!
Ela26 - | 2  
21 Jun 2009 /  #18
hello?
I was wondering why di you ask that question?
do you see many polish guys with foreigner girls?
i live in Warsaw im studying over here, and i havent see any international couple here as others country.
well in exception of one couple that i have see them in the metro couple times, for sure he is polish but she looks like latin or spanish or arabic who knows?

but yes is very weird to see international couples in Warsaw!
Rayna53 1 | 2  
24 Jun 2009 /  #19
I'm an english woman, with a polish fiance...we've been together over 2 years...although a lot of the polish girls i know are with english or asian guys..so it seems to be more common that way round..
sapphire 22 | 1,241  
24 Jun 2009 /  #20
I'm an english woman, with a polish fiance

There are plenty of us about :) In my experience I have met more Polish women with foreign guys than the other way round though.
Scarlett - | 3  
25 Jun 2009 /  #21
Im also an English Girl with a polish man, been dating a year.....but again from what i have observed its more usual to be the other way around.....

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