Why are polish girls more approachable than north american girls

That's a nice answer. If only all men felt the same way. Well, I have to get off the internet now. It's late. Thanks for the conversation. Have a nice night. :)

I don't know about approchable Polish woman but my boyfriend is Polish and he as very shy when i met him. Now hes very open the one thing that bothers me is that he compares me to other polish girls he dated. Im lebanese and in views of culture we're complete opposites!

well. I did try to explain more, but apparently you didnt read it all, and so,
with that, Ive seen alot of posts about American women this and that.

What I understood about the posts was you were asking why they are more
Approachable. But how can anyone answer that Question and know how?

How can you base a few dates with some American Women, and say that is how
the whole population acts?

as for counseling, no need, I might have my mind set on certain things, but I dont
come in here and call others names, I did get more upset then I should have
but Was having a bad night that night, so Please excuse the tone if it was taken
wrong, I was more aggressive then I ususally am , and I did point out and will
Point out always that American People are European decendants.

Everyone is or has roots to Europe. so when you knock down America, you knock
down your brothers and sisters, as for them not being approachable, well
again, you probably were in the wrong place at the wrong time. but I dont think
that is a bad thing, cause now a days you cant really trust anyone. that is in all
countries.


Yes I took the post wrong, but you posted it wrong also.

as for hating Americans, maybe you arent the creme la creme they want
either.

How can you not answer this question.. its simple when u go talk to a person in north america how responsive are they compared to aperson in europe... and this isnt based on a few dates, but intercating on a daily basis and comeing to an understanding... everyone may have european rrots that doesnt make them european at all, and u cant say im putting my fellow man down because thats BS...ppl who become part of the melting pot are american not european.... as for the counselling i think u should really consider it " cause now adays you cant relaly trust anyone" hhahaahahaah watch out ur neighbors a terrorits hahaahaahah

i dont think im the creme de le creme but i live my life and base it under certain morals and principles... and i can back up almost everything i say and do...... whereas americans think they are so much better then anyone one else... its like this ignorant cockyness... yet harldy none of them step a foot outside of there border and when they do they go in groups of emricans, cuz they dont knwo how to act indepently and they stick out so much...... even worse are those who pretend to be canadains and put canada flags on for " security" reasons hahaahaha if there so coky, and proud to be what they are why do that, isnt that a complete contradiction???? and thats exaclty what i mean they dont stand for nothing they say things andact a certain way but there is no substance to it... its just a shell of a person trying to be what he thinks he shoudl be

now your acting stupid. I dont mean that, you know it, as for interacting on a daily
basis, how many times did you Approach someone with the same thing? now your
not making any sense. you mean you asked this person out more then once?
or you asked many out more then one time? explain?

so someone who comes to America to work for a year, two three, and doesnt
get naturalized is part of the melting pot, and is not accepted back as european?
wow, thats really sad. there are people here who live here, but do also live and
have dual citizenship in other countries.

and again , it might be BS to you that we are American, but American isnt a culture
its made up of all different cultures! mainly from Europe!

America is a culture of money and no culture.........ur just looking for something arnet u??? im seroiuos go have chat with your doctor, the way u process things is compelty worng....... how am i acting stupid, i talk to ppl everyday, i talk to freinds,with family, and i talk with strangers both women and men... i see how ppl react .... and when i say appraochable i mean how social how freindsly are they to chat with a stranger..... and yes u can trust everybody, get out of ur paraniao, noones after you...

canada is a coutnry of many cultures the USA is a melting pot


hahaah i missed this one thats great hahaahaah i wouldnt be supirsed if there is some truth to that hahaah

you cant even spell, so your telling me to get a doctor?
get back in school!




this is only three out of many words you cant spell.

yep, I will get the doctor, you go find a teacher.


now I know you need a teacher.


Wow thats smart. someone who tells a person they need a doctor, but he
cant process how to spell .

ok, this is finished.

Shewolf,

I am a feminist and very liberated. Even sexually...I have always been...
However, I can control myself and as long as I do not hurt anybody on my way, everything I do in my bedroom (and not only there:) is my issue.. And I am lucky, because my bf is not a guy who stick his penis into everything that moves and has a hole tight enough, otherwise I could not be with him.

I think Polish women will at least feel bad about dating a guy with kids behind his girlfriends/ wife's back. That woman and many other "open-minded swingers" did not see anything wrong in what she was trying to do... I really appreciate my bf self-control.

They were literally jumping into his bed...
And there are so many artistic, progressive0thinking handsome and SINGLE/SWINGERS guys in Boston, NYC... so why my bf?

sweet...it loks like passed this grammar test..


makes you think eh??? 2 of my good freinds' ex-gf's ended up sleepgin with mutual buddies after they (my good freinds) broke up with them(gf's)... and both these girls were smart, educated A students in highschool, i think even boht of them were virgins before my good freinds i know 1 defintlay was a virgin.... anyways both of them ended up sleeping with mutual buddies inorder to get backat there ex's in some sort of way.... which is just so low that it showed me how scum women can be....and both my freinds are good guys & they broke up with these girls on good terms...and still maintained a freindship with them after they borke up but i guess these girsl couldnt take it so ******* there freinds was the way out, it almost seems like they dont care about there own self image or what they represent but as long as they can affect what a man is about thats what matters most.... do you think this happens often in europe? cuz i relaly think its an norht american thing...... i think europoepan girls know they are not incomplete without a man and still caryy themselves with some sort of pride even if they were dumped by the man of there dreams

AM iwrong???

I believe you answered your own original question. You have prejudices against North American women, so therefore you are probably putting off a vibe that makes you unapproachable to them. Most people are receptive to genuine friendliness, but you go into it with an attitude that something is already wrong with the person (ie: they are arrogant or have no personality). Well my friend, you usually tend to get back what you give!:)

you know, I think girls and women are the same everywhere, and you may decide for yourselves if that's a good or bad thing. and I mean that I can't ever judge you because I don't know you. :) and generalising is even worse!

but reading these type of threads, I really had to chuckle a few times. :) it's not like polish girls or women never cheat, it's not like they're more or less comitted than the rest of the globe.

I have had numerous offers to sleep with married women, as you may already know, polish women tend to marry earlier compared to dutch girls. I didn't know this a year or two ago. I kinda flirted along and learned a thing or two. :) but I actually was surprised and shocked to see how many married women were cheating on their fellows back home. and in all fairness, not all.. most of them were decent enough ladies!

anyway, I turned them all down, even though I am lonely. I'd rather die a lonely death than to cheat on someone or to ''borrow'' someone's loved one.

my point, don't call girls ''sluts'' just because they weren't born in poland, because I know it happens in poland, just as it happens everywhere. and before someone gets offended again, I do realise men aren't any better than women.

so let's quit talking about people we don't know. it's fine to discuss, but I think it's a little hypocrit of polish posters to claim they have more manners than the rest of europe, or the rest of the world for that matter. :)

it's the same everywhere really, or did you just woke up? :)

You are right, Arien, all kinds of cheating is going on in Poland too.

My point is: when I spoke to that woman, she did not see anything wrong in what she was trying to do. And she was trying to destroy my relationship and my family...She still didn't feel quilty or at least bad about that.I asked her, why she sent her nude pics to my bf and she answered: " because I am a professional working artist"...You know what, she could think about sth else,she could have told me more creative lie, if she was so artistic.

And she was really patronising me, like I do not know what the art and photography is. I think she is a real ignorant, who thinks I am a Borat-like female. I guess she also thinks that we do not have artists in Poland and generally live here in Borat-like "Kazakhstan" uncivilised country ...BTW There are bilions of "artists" like she in the US. And she is a graphic designer. A girl from military family. She was born in some s--thole in Connecticut and now is trying to be "liberated, open-minded, progressive-thinking bla bla bla" in Boston where her soldier-daddy do not tell her what to do.

All her girlfriends are like her clones. They do the same things, speak the same, wear the same "designers" clothes.They are so fake! It's really terrifing.

My relationship is open. I know how to be liberated, but don't hurt other ppl, who do not want to be the part of the game. Also, I wouldn't date a guy with kids and family. I do not want kids to suffer...

I think in Poland culture is different.Women tend not to break/destroy somebody else's family.And if they do it, AT LEAST they know they do sth wrong. That girl (she is 28, older than me) did not have a clue.

I agree, Arien. There seems to be a lot of judgement and generalizations on the site; but like you said, you can get a few chuckles from it!:)

And also, I am not prejudiced against women from the States.
I am really very open to all nationalities.
But why they (these American girls) were trying to "steal" my boyfriend?
He is a superstar or what?

Maati, I don't think the fact they were American had anything to do with their trying to "steal" your boyfriend. Some people don't have morals or an ethical code, but that's not limited to just Americans. Every nation on the face of this earth has people like that. I am sorry though that you had to experience that, but at least you know you can trust your bf!:)

Thank you Ranj and Arien!

I might have come across to harsh in the beginning, but I was trying to explain
and I agree, its across the globe, two or three instances doesnt mean the whole
population does it.

I agree that some young women are more promiscous, and it doesnt say much
for them, you know who you can trust and who you cant once you see the true
person, and I think all or most of us have had people like what maati has said
do something wrong to us, and we move on.

personal experiences we learn from.

I may have a prejudice but i dont put off any vibe.. i treat/approach everytone the same from the getgo when i meet them....but i recogonize what is what and its soemthjing that i have expeianced and seen numerous times and if ppl cant accpet it then there lieing to themsleves...... like im not saying all North American girls are like this and all european sgirls are like this....... but its a fair to say there are more approachable women in europe then there are in North America.... so many of points have be proven in this thread alone... women in north america are more paraniod= patricja saying you cant trust anyone these days..gues what she lives in the states.


exaclty...... and isnt it kinda of coincidnetal that this is happening to you in the states whereas in europe, im not saying it would never happen , but imsure it would be less likly...so there is a correlation between the 2... dont lie to urselves... what i wanted to find out is why" european girls are more approachabel then north american girls".

Kiddo, you've got LOTS to learn (besides English).

Believe me, when someone has prejudices, their body language alone puts of signals, whether they realize it or not.


No points have been proven---you simply have offered an OPINION. Guess what? I'm from the U.S. also and I DON'T believe that all people are not to be trusted, therefore contradicting the statement that just because Patricja said, " 'you can't trust anyone theses days,' women in North America are more paranoid." Generalizations, once again!

Yea im alays learning... teach me... i think u took my comment out of context..... women and men feel more complete with a partner its human nature .. what i was alluding to is that north american girls are more lilkely to act out of revenge or whatever it is then european girls.... unless you can tell me of high school european girls sleeping with their ex's freinds in order to complete thmeselves and fufill their need of a rebound to feel whole again.. or whatever the resaon is they do what they do???? like once again im not saying this doens hapen in europe i just think its less likely and when it is the girl actually has some morals behind it and maybe veen feels ashamed that she did it whereas i find girls here will do it without no concisouness and even feel good after for it.... hahah such low lifes just give women in genral a bad name


thereare so many international ppl in vancouver that i rellay dont care who i talk to as long as im talking and interacting....belive me if u ever met me i have my belifs and morals but i talk and treat everyone equaly but i know it when i see it... im sorry i dont want to sound arrogant but im quiet sure i have traveleld more then you and most likly interacted with more ppl ten u in my life.. tis isnt just an opinion its afact...please wake up and face it... the question u shoudl be asking is why?

How can you presume to know what these girls are feeling (both Europeans and North Americans). Do you have some special power that you can actually get inside their head and see what they are thinking and feel the emotions they are feeling? If so, you really need to market that, because I know a lot of people who would love to have that ability.:)

That's ok. Because this is just 1 man's opinion at this point. I disagree with you. I think both are just as easily apporached.

Cyprian, I can see that you feel hurt by some women (girls). You would love to see them just as pure angels and virgin Mary's. That's nice and romantic. But.

Well, we're not. Don't want to be.

Some are really "bad apples", but you don't need to throw out the whole bushel...

bsed on my exeriances thats how a number of girls from vancouver have done this not only to my freinds but also tomyself and they have no guilt behind more like there happy to tell u so they can throw the low blow and be like this is what u get for not staying with me.... whereas i find girls from europe to have more self assurance and educuated /more common sense then to dothat, and i have also expeiranced it by dating europeans gils and chatting to my european mates about these sort of things.

Maybe brought this kind of experiences on yourself with this kind of attitude?

yea?? try this out..... go out in the states canada, cruise by yourself and chat with ppl , then talk with some girls and ask them how they are, what there doing, and if they are intersted in going out for a drink sometime? then go to poland ansd try it or somewher ein europe... u wll be suprised at theresponsies...... i have sdone it and contunie to do it, in north american most likly they ignore u or theyl;l be petriffied..... wheras in europe there will be some that will ignore you 2 but there are many that will even introduce you out before u even get chance to ask them out...... i have done it and seen how girls are they say yea we are going out to this bar theres going to be abunchof our freinds out come out if u like.....hahaha u'll be lucky if u get that here.....i dont know if its just there mentallity that whn guys a aprraoch them the guys just want to only sleep with them, wereas they shodul think of it as a good opportunity to meet someone new, and if soemthing is there great if its not thatf ine as well..... if i talk with an atractive girl but sh is a complete idiot i dont want to sleep with her...let alone be around her... thats why u apprach ppl to see if there is a connection or not.... but some see it as a invasion of there privacy and there petrifed of this stranger

could be...although kinda strange that it has never happened to a european i have been with.....i am still freinds with a number of them... whereas norht amercan girls rather hate after then repect it for what it was and who u are and remain freinds....whyis that???

You obviously don't know who you are talking to when you say these things to FISZ.:)


I don't think you are arrogant, but I do think that's an ignorant statement. How do you know what my travel itinerary has been throughout my life and with what people I have interacted? I can guarantee you that I have been beyond the borders of the United States and I have dealt with many people of diverse backgrounds, ethnicities and nationalities. Once again, you assume things which is opinion and not fact. I'm done debating you!:)

:) no assumptions .... just a fact that i have traveled quiet a bit and usually its more then the average person.... therefore this is not just an opinion as i have credibitly behind it.... not to mention i have an internaitonal business and i deal with ppl everyday from aroudn the world i notice patterrns and take menatal notes of them.... its on ly human ur learning everyday... im sorry if this generlization is to difficult for u to comprehend or its to out there for you accpet but its the truth and a fact that european girls are more approachabble then north american girls

Well, I guess this all depends on your character my friend :)

yea although its the same character that is talking to european girls??? hmm i wonder why there more responsive?