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IS IT FRIENDS OR SOMETHING ELSE


orlandobelle  11 | 29  
15 Oct 2007 /  #1
My Polish friend has returned home to Poland - he is visiting me again in April. He will not admit his feelings towards me (I try to find out but he always manages to avoid the question)!!!! Well, when he visits in April he wants to meet my mum, dad and brother (who is travelling quite a distance) - do you think if it was just friends he would wants this official meeting?????
nauczyciel  
15 Oct 2007 /  #2
sounds like a proposal is coming.
OP orlandobelle  11 | 29  
15 Oct 2007 /  #3
Hi Nauczyciel - what makes you think this???????? He does seem very interested in what my mum thinks about him :.)
lii  
15 Oct 2007 /  #4
May I ask you what you think about him? Just a friend? Or more? Or hoping for more?

And he is only coming back in April, what about the time in between....?
FISZ  24 | 2116  
15 Oct 2007 /  #5
(I try to find out but he always manages to avoid the question)!!!!

Stand your ground :) He needs to voice his intentions and you can't let him avoid answering you.

Your pro says male. Is this a gay relationship?
plk123  8 | 4119  
15 Oct 2007 /  #6
that's kinda weird man. i'll have to go with lii's post.. tell us more.
Klaudiaimiolo  - | 2  
15 Oct 2007 /  #7
heard of the book "his just not that into me"... im not saying he isnt but why dodge the question...rather strange?! you deserve to find a man who cant wait to tell you how much he loves you- on the other hand why would he want to meet the parent- Maybe he plans to display his affection in public- I will be holdong thumbs for you!!!1
marek s  - | 269  
15 Oct 2007 /  #8
im saying hes not into you
ancilla  
15 Oct 2007 /  #9
I am actually female -entered the details wrong!!!! He has told our mutual Polish friend that he has feelings for me and has mentioned to her that he wants to buy me a ring. Whenever I ask him what he feels - he just says 'slowly-slowly'. Yeah, I would love it to be more, I am going to stay with him for two weeks to meet his family in March and we are going to New York together in October. He has just got a really good job in Poland which he is thrilled about - the money was good in the UK but his heart is in Poland. I did tell him that I would move to Poland to be with him, so he knows how I feel!!!!
_Sofi_  
15 Oct 2007 /  #10
He has told our mutual Polish friend that he has feelings for me and has mentioned to her that he wants to buy me a ring. Whenever I ask him what he feels - he just says 'slowly-slowly'

That is cute I think :)
PinkJewel  
15 Oct 2007 /  #11
I did tell him that I would move to Poland to be with him

What was his reaction when you told him this?

I think he does like you (from what I read) but maybe he wants things to go slowly because he wants everything just right - he's just got a new job etc, he wants everything to work out :)
Bubbles  1 | 120  
15 Oct 2007 /  #12
Would you really want to marry a guy who can't tell you how he feels at this super fun and excting stage of a relationship.

I guess I would enjoy what you got and take it one day at a time.
Wroclaw  44 | 5359  
15 Oct 2007 /  #13
IS IT FRIENDS OR SOMETHING ELSE

I'd wait and see what happens over the next month or so before I started making long term plans.
As usual on these matters I'm sceptical. But of course I hope everything works out the best for you.

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