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Is it possible to be friends with girls in Poland?


Plotin 5 | 25  
19 Mar 2008 /  #1
Hello!
I am very often in Krakow.
Much of the time I am with my friends, but I often miss some nice company from other polish people.
In my country it's normal being friends with both girls and boys.
Is this possible in Poland, without "people" thinking I just want "free sex"?
- and the girl is regarded as "professional"..?
What about age difference? Is this important for polish people when having friendly relationship?

I have lots of friends (girls) at in my country without beeing partners or lovers.

Is this possible in Poland?
If it is? - is there any nice (read: friendly) polish girl out there for sosial company in Krakow?
Just asking ....
z_darius 14 | 3,968  
19 Mar 2008 /  #2
Is this possible in Poland, without "people" thinking I just want "free sex"?

Unfortunately, in Poland sex is compulsory between friends of the opposite gender.
djf 18 | 166  
19 Mar 2008 /  #3
WOOHOO!!!!

I mean, oh dear, thats not very enlightened and 'western'.
Lady in red  
19 Mar 2008 /  #4
Unfortunately, in Poland sex is compulsory between friends of the opposite gender.

Lol . Hahahahaha ! That's so funny :)
OP Plotin 5 | 25  
19 Mar 2008 /  #5
Unfortunately, in Poland sex is compulsory between friends of the opposite gender.

Really ????
It this the gereral opinon..?
Not possible to have a friendly relationship with a polish girl..?
- for me this seems a really strange attitude, even if I am not gay.

More opinions about this subject?
- what do you think, girls?
z_darius 14 | 3,968  
19 Mar 2008 /  #6
Not possible to have a friendly relationship with a polish girl..?

How much more friendly than sex with a girl would you like to get?
OP Plotin 5 | 25  
19 Mar 2008 /  #7
Have you no female friend you don't having sex with??
z_darius 14 | 3,968  
19 Mar 2008 /  #8
I live in Canada. Things here are different.
OP Plotin 5 | 25  
19 Mar 2008 /  #9
Which means? - sex with all your female friends?
- or may be you have no female friends?
;)
z_darius 14 | 3,968  
19 Mar 2008 /  #10
In Canada it is not customary to have sex with all friends of the opposite gender, only with some.
miranda  
19 Mar 2008 /  #11
Dariusz is pulling your leg Plotin, but then things might be different in teh Niagara region, he, he.....
Wyspianska  
19 Mar 2008 /  #12
Ever heard of BLACHARY?? Please explain him when he's got nice car 70% of Polish girls will be like TAAAKE ME. Can someone please tell the truth about? Thank you.
tulipan - | 28  
19 Mar 2008 /  #13
Not possible to have a friendly relationship with a polish girl..?
- for me this seems a really strange attitude, even if I am not gay.

More opinions about this subject?
- what do you think, girls?

lol, yeah it is possible to have a friendly relationship with a girl: in Poland, in your country or elsewhere...
OP Plotin 5 | 25  
19 Mar 2008 /  #14
Ever heard of BLACHARY?? Please explain him when he's got nice car 70% of Polish girls will be like TAAAKE ME. Can someone please tell the truth about? Thank you.

Yes.. I really like to hear..
Has my BMW (and my wallet) anything to do with how many friends I will get in Krakow?
I am still talking about friend(s)!!!!.. I am not on the marked for sell/buy ;)
Wyspianska  
19 Mar 2008 /  #15
Has my BMW (and my wallet) anything to do with how many friends I will get in Krakow?

lol that's the condition. Just drive with your fresh washed car around the city playing techno as loud as you can, look around and chose girl you like the most. Though they all look the same. Plastic dolls with fuckking long nails and trashy, cheap gold clothes on lol. Good luck and welcome in Poland.
Mufasa 19 | 358  
19 Mar 2008 /  #16
Plastic dolls with fuckking long nails and trashy, cheap gold clothes on lol.

haha, wyspi has spent last night in the cutlery drawer! :D
Wyspianska  
19 Mar 2008 /  #17
umm i'm just trying to show people how Polish girls really are. I'm being sick of listening on this forum how wonderful and lovely they are.
Goonie 8 | 242  
19 Mar 2008 /  #18
lol i never met a polish girl that i would consider dating but my contacts are limited
miranda  
19 Mar 2008 /  #19
how wonderful and lovely they are.

some are, some aren't

lol i never met a polish girl that i would consider dating but my contacts are limited

time to expend then LOL
z_darius 14 | 3,968  
19 Mar 2008 /  #20
lol i never met a polish girl that i would consider dating but my contacts are limited

it's not about dating but about the routine sex ;)
OP Plotin 5 | 25  
20 Mar 2008 /  #21
umm i'm just trying to show people how Polish girls really are. I'm being sick of listening on this forum how wonderful and lovely they are.

Well... I have not great experianse about this.
But: I really think the polish girls are really great regarding girls in many in many europeen countries.
Of course I can not generalize.
Not just talking about look but about personality...
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
20 Mar 2008 /  #22
Very good comment Wyspi, being Polish urself gives it even more credibility. I'm glad that I can get them going in class but isn't always so rosy on the streets. As Osioł would say, there are lovely girls and not so lovely girls in every country
LondonChick 31 | 1,134  
20 Mar 2008 /  #23
Plotin... I'm not sure that I get where you're going with this.

Admittedly I'm not Polish, however I have lots of male friends... probably more guys than girls in fact. And they are just friends.

You need to have some kind of background in common - my friends are typically former colleagues, neighbours, mates from the gym etc. I don't think that you can ask random girls to be your friend LOL!!
OP Plotin 5 | 25  
20 Mar 2008 /  #24
Plotin... I'm not sure that I get where you're going with this.

My intention starting this was I would like to date a "random" girl, without other intention than beeing friends.. Many of my friends (boys) tell me this is not possible in Poland.

They instist girls in Poland will believe I wanted them to bed...

This is why I asked... :)
LondonChick 31 | 1,134  
20 Mar 2008 /  #25
My intention starting this was I would like to date a "random" girl, without other intention than beeing friends

Now I'm even more confused... you mean that you just want to go for a beer and hang out with a random girl? No way... that wouldn't happen anywhere....

However if you had something in common, then yes - I go out for a drink or even dinner with my male friends, and neither they nor I (nor my husband LOL!!) would expect me to sleep with them.
miranda  
20 Mar 2008 /  #26
My intention starting this was I would like to date a "random" girl, without other intention than beeing friends.. Many of my friends (boys) tell me this is not possible in Poland.

I believe it is different to have female friends in your won country where you have so many things in common with those girls, such as culture, politics and hobbies, common events and such.

When one goes abroad, you encounter people which whom you have less in common for obvious reasons. I don;t see it as a problem at all and I cannot see women forcing or pressuring you to have sex with them, unless you are giving them signals to do so.
comtrax2  
20 Mar 2008 /  #27
good and nice i want some one to keep me going on
Arien  
20 Mar 2008 /  #28
umm i'm just trying to show people how Polish girls really are. I'm being sick of listening on this forum how wonderful and lovely they are.

Yeah, but still.. Jesteś wspaniała!

;p
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
20 Mar 2008 /  #29
Jestes wspaniała Arien, Wyspi is a woman (ona)
Arien  
20 Mar 2008 /  #30
*Slaps himself*

Thank you, I make the same mistakes over and over..

(lol)

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