This girl I am talking about has commitment issues
With you she does, it doesnt mean that she will have them with the next man, i'm betting that when she meets a guy she really fancies you will be amazed how her "commitment issues" disseapar.
Again you need to talk with her but it seems you're a "just in case" guy if she doesnt meet someone of interest.
Just because people tell me I'm wrong to be so determined, doesn't make me wrong.
It makes you naive and yes it does make you wrong, you need an honest talk, an honest answer and then to consequently take steps in accordance with what she tells you, atm you're just wasting your life.
She has a daughter to protect. She will only commit if she is really sure - and rightfully so. I've been patient and continue to do so.
Just look at yourself buddy, you've got it all worked out dont you? After 3 long years during which a naive guy like you tried to be his best she still "doesnt know" and you built a comfy story to it on how its all about her daughter and commitment issues.
A woman always knows what she wants, if she says she doesnt know it typically translates into "i dont want to give you what you want but i want you around" so be prepared to be her "friend" untill she meets a guy she fancies and dumps you like trash.