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I'm heartbroken and confused - are all Polish girls like this?


paulo66  
19 Mar 2007 /  #1
Can anyone offer any insight please? I met a wonderful Polish girl from wroclaw in Greece, we spent all our free time together, for 3 months fell madly in love! then she went back to Wroclaw and I was gonna follow in a few weeks.

But after speaking every day on the phone one day she just stopped answering without any explanation & has put the phone down since! needless to say I was heartbroken & confused & I'm just wondering is this a normal way to end a relationship in Poland? or is it just her way?

I'm thinking of visiting Wroclaw in the next few weeks just to see if I can find her and maybe get an answer!
miranda  
19 Mar 2007 /  #2
Paul,

what can I say. Did you meet her on vacation?
ArturSzastak 3 | 593  
19 Mar 2007 /  #3
She found someone else....most likely situation. Sorry bud :(
miranda  
19 Mar 2007 /  #4
I wouldn't go all the way to Wroclaw to find the answer which is in front of your very nose:) sorry.
King Sobieski 2 | 716  
19 Mar 2007 /  #5
summer loving...had me a ball...

ahh vacation loves that never last.
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
20 Mar 2007 /  #7
needless to say I was heartbroken & confused & I'm just wondering is this a normal way to end a relationship in Poland? or is it just her way?

I've seen men complain about this same exact thing many times before on this forum. Apparently, it's not uncommon for Polish women to behave this way. I guess in other cultures, people explain why they're leaving you.
RazZ 1 | 180  
20 Mar 2007 /  #8
paulo66

there you go, another Sucker for polish love got heart broken. Funny as it may seems but its always the case with people with other nationality in relationship with polish ladies. but that the truth.
BubbaWoo 33 | 3,510  
20 Mar 2007 /  #9
shes got a long term boyfriend mate
miranda  
20 Mar 2007 /  #10
I've seen men complain about this same exact thing many times before on this forum. Apparently, it's not uncommon for Polish women to behave this way. I guess in other cultures, people explain why they're leaving you.

nope:) :) :)
Ranj 21 | 948  
20 Mar 2007 /  #11
Apparently, it's not uncommon for Polish women to behave this way. I guess in other cultures, people explain why they're leaving you.

Can anyone offer any insight please?

I don't think its a matter of culture, but more a question of maturity. When I was younger, I admit, when I didn't want to see someone anymore, I would just blow him off. I figured he'd get the hint. I was just a coward. I thought it was because I didn't want to hurt their feelings, but really, I just didn't want to face the fact and accept the responsibility for hurting someone. It wasn't until it happened to me that I came to the conclusion that its much better to be honest, even if it hurts, then to leave someone guessing. The turmoil it causes, especially when everything seems to be going well, is just unbearable. I had something similar happen and I truly thought something terrible had happened to the guy. I ended up hearing from him again, many months later, to find out he was engaged (to someone he was with before me). I won't go into anymore detail, but I will say, I have met someone new, and I'm much happier with him.....he's so much more than the other guy could ever dream of being. Good luck.:)
lovely - | 24  
20 Mar 2007 /  #12
I'm thinking of visiting Wroclaw in the next few weeks just to see if I can find her and maybe get an answer!

Don't do it. That's called stalking and it will really make her lose respect for you...so let her go and keep your dignity as painful as that may be :(.
FISZ 24 | 2,116  
20 Mar 2007 /  #13
I've seen men complain about this same exact thing many times before on this forum. Apparently, it's not uncommon for Polish women to behave this way. I guess in other cultures, people explain why they're leaving you.

I just think it's the type of women that these guy's are going for. There are players in both courts :)
Guess you just have to meet a woman with good family values and morals. These guy's are just getting played.
polishpower  
26 Mar 2007 /  #14
She found someone else.............. Or got murdered! Polish women are targets because they are so HOT, the russians try to kidnap them and turn them into sex slaves undergroud. If u visit her city..... bring some fire power!

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