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Confused, a Polish girl disappeared after I talked and danced to her


Poor Edward 10 | 154  
4 Aug 2008 /  #1
Hi, I was out with at a party last night and got talking to one of the Polish girls. Im learning Polish so I was chatting away ok and her english is perfect so there was no language difficulty. We were dancing very close all night then she disappeared and when I seen her in work today she hardly said anything to me. Is this normal behaviour for Polish women? I think shes a lovely person but dont want to make an effort if shes time wasting.
miranda  
4 Aug 2008 /  #2
maybe she was drunk and now she is regretting it.

ASK HER!!!!!!!
southern 75 | 7,096  
4 Aug 2008 /  #3
Is this normal behaviour for Polish women?

Yes.
big_blue - | 7  
4 Aug 2008 /  #4
Is this normal behaviour for Polish women?

What's a womans normal behaviour? Can they akt normal? I still don't know...
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
4 Aug 2008 /  #5
THe simple answer is: she's Polish, they don't do polite, nice, friendly, if their not interested or you cannot do something for them in one way or another. I'd leave it be mate if i were you
Misty 5 | 144  
4 Aug 2008 /  #6
maybe she was drunk and now she is regretting it.

ASK HER!!!!!!!

Yes, good idea to ask her. Maybe she was drunk and though she might have came over too strong or something like that. Plus there is the fact that if you were out dancing all night, she might be completely exhausted at work today and not capable of more than a few words... :)

Poor Edward:Is this normal behaviour for Polish women?

Yes.

No!
OP Poor Edward 10 | 154  
4 Aug 2008 /  #7
Is anyone here from Dublin?
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
4 Aug 2008 /  #8
no i'm in England, Exeter
OP Poor Edward 10 | 154  
4 Aug 2008 /  #9
THe simple answer is: she's Polish, they don't do polite, nice, friendly

I work with about fifteen Polish women and most of them are nothing but friendly and polite to me.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
4 Aug 2008 /  #10
Before I had my GF, this was the way. I stopped bothering with them, they are self important little gits not worth worrying about (in clubs). Go to classy student hangouts and u'll get in with a different shower. That may restore ur faith in Polish women but beware, the Princess Syndrome is ubiquitous/prevalent.
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
4 Aug 2008 /  #11
I work with about fifteen Polish women and most of them are nothing but friendly and polite to me.

i was taking the, you know what, on a serious note, i think her not saying anything to you has nothing to do with her nationality :) As Misty and Miranda have said, there were probably other reasons for it

Before I had my GF, this was the way. I stopped bothering with them, they are self important little gits not worth worrying about (in clubs). Go to classy student hangouts and u'll get in with a different shower. That may restore ur faith in Polish women but beware, the Princess Syndrome is ubiquitous/prevalent.

Having said that, what seamus has put is good advice!!!! Some are a little, me me me me me, its just finding the ones that are not
OP Poor Edward 10 | 154  
4 Aug 2008 /  #12
I work with her, she wasnt someone I picked up in a club. Is anyone here learning Polish?
wildrover 98 | 4,451  
4 Aug 2008 /  #13
I just returned from a Zlot ( motorcycle rally ) while i was there i danced with lots of lovely girls , seemed to be getting on great with them , then at some point they would simply dissapear.....Some of them i later saw with their boyfriends , others i guess just went home without saying anything.....I have got used to this , it may not be normal for all Polish girls , but for quite a lot i think.....
southern 75 | 7,096  
4 Aug 2008 /  #14
I work with about fifteen Polish women

If they are naked,they could be simply shy.
OP Poor Edward 10 | 154  
4 Aug 2008 /  #15
Cheers everybody thanks for the help. Is anyone here from Krakow? Im going in a couple of weeksby myself and want to know a bit about the place before I go.
Misty 5 | 144  
4 Aug 2008 /  #16
the Princess Syndrome is ubiquitous/prevalent.

In many, not just Polish girls.

Poor Edward - just talk to this girl, you'll find out more about why she was quiet today by just asking her. Rather than asking us here.
southern 75 | 7,096  
4 Aug 2008 /  #17
the Princess Syndrome

Or golden pusssy syndrome.
Arise_St_George 9 | 419  
4 Aug 2008 /  #18
It sounds like she was hammered, had some fun and is letting you know not to take that night too seriously. I did this once. I snogged a girl that used to be my ex girlfriend when I was pissed but I deliberately ignored her to let her know not to take it too seriously. I was wrong I know, but I spoke to her again a few days later. Perhaps she'll do the same. Why don't YOU talk to her? Don't bring up the night though. Just a "hi, are you ok?"

By the way, you didn't grope her, put your hand down her knickers or owt did you lol?
miranda  
4 Aug 2008 /  #19
just talk to this girl, you'll find out more about why she was quiet today by just asking her

a wise thing to do.
OP Poor Edward 10 | 154  
4 Aug 2008 /  #20
Cheers Misty, but I thought Id ask here first Im a little shy when it comes to women so just thought Id ask here. Is there any Polish people here or is it just a forum about Ploand?
southern 75 | 7,096  
4 Aug 2008 /  #21
That a polish girl dances with you does not mean anything in particular even if she kisses you.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
4 Aug 2008 /  #22
Definitely not just Polish girls but this was the focus of his posting Misty, so I confined it to that.

Southern southern, u never cease to amaze lad :)
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
4 Aug 2008 /  #23
In many, not just Polish girls.

i would agree misty, however i've seen it in more polish girls than even girls from the UK, i guess i've just met the wrong polish girls :)

I think Edward, to be honest, instead of talking to us about it you should be talking to her. If you talk to us your not really getting to the bottom of the problem or indeed the source. If you ask her straight up what she meant by leaving without saying a thing then you will hear it from the horses mouth

That a polish girl dances with you does not mean anything in particular even if she kisses you.

lol, even if she sleeps with you :):)):)))
polishgirltx  
4 Aug 2008 /  #24
Can they akt normal?

define 'normal', please...

Poor Edward

maybe she's just not into you...

I work with her

i wouldn't recommend to date anybody you work with...
OP Poor Edward 10 | 154  
4 Aug 2008 /  #25
By the way, you didn't grope her, put your hand down her knickers or owt did you lol?

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Not really groping we were dancing really close but it was her who started grinding meand taking my hand and wrapping it around her waist. It was just a little crazy.
southern 75 | 7,096  
4 Aug 2008 /  #26
lol, even if she sleeps with you :):)):)))

No,this means sth.That she possibly wants children with you.Let's face the polish miracle.
Misty 5 | 144  
4 Aug 2008 /  #27
Cheers Misty, but I thought Id ask here first Im a little shy when it comes to women so just thought Id ask here. Is there any Polish people here or is it just a forum about Ploand?

That's fine. We like to give advice :) Yeah it's a good mix of Polish and non-Polish people here. There is loads of information around the site so if you need help just have a look around :)
Arise_St_George 9 | 419  
4 Aug 2008 /  #28
Not really groping we were dancing really close but it was her who started grinding meand taking my hand and wrapping it around her waist. It was just a little crazy.

Nowt wrong with that. As long as you didn't go a step too far, although it can often be tempting.

Seriously, you're best off talking to her. We don't know the girl. She's probably waiting for you to approach or perhaps she's a bit shy or embarrassed of what happened that night. Perhaps she's asking the same question you asked in another forum. You'll never know until you find out for yourself!
OP Poor Edward 10 | 154  
4 Aug 2008 /  #29
dziękuję bardzo za twoja pomoc ludzie.
southern 75 | 7,096  
4 Aug 2008 /  #30
If I counted how many polish girls have disappeared,now I would have to call Interpol.

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