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tornado2007  11 | 2270  
20 Feb 2008 /  #31
How come so much bigotry towards Poles is acceptable on a so-called POLISH site? What's the agenda here?

lol i nearly fell over myself laughing at your comment, not because it was you that made it or that i think your stupid, i actually think this site is mostly used fo bashing people that the polish don't like or for them to act the victim, its funny how two people can view the same website in a different light.

However you are correct about te PC thing, but really i hate PC you should be allowed to say black, Polish or whatever, without over touchy people taking offense to a simple statement of fact, don't you agree??
polski_zyd  2 | 72  
20 Feb 2008 /  #32
they are merely conveying their personal experiences and not suggesting that all Polish guys are bad.. so get down off your rocking horse.

the stuff which is written on here says NOTHING about what I know about Poles, yet this forum seems to be full of non-Poles who have met one or two bad apples, and seem to enjoy tarring us all with the same brush!!! So don't be surprised that I'm upset! This wouldn't be tolerated on black/asian/leftie boards, so why here? What's the deal?
tornado2007  11 | 2270  
20 Feb 2008 /  #33
lol there is always going to be an amount of 'bashing' going on by those who are ill-educated and mis-informed its just life. LIfe is one big **** sandwhich and we all have to take a bite :)

I wouldn't take it all to heart but mearly as just a few peoples points of view
polski_zyd  2 | 72  
20 Feb 2008 /  #34
However you are correct about te PC thing, but really i hate PC you should be allowed to say black, Polish or whatever, without over touchy people taking offense to a simple statement of fact, don't you agree??

Agree. All this "only whites can be racist" stuff the lefties in the UK love to go on about is nonsense, imo.

I wouldn't take it all to heart but mearly as just a few peoples points of view

ok lol
sapphire  22 | 1241  
20 Feb 2008 /  #35
have a look at all the bashing of all the other nationalities on here before you judge. Anyway a forum is all about free speech isnt it. I have a Polish partner who I love, but it doesnt mean I cant pass comment on what I see around me. Polski-zyd you seem to be a tad defensive if you dont mind me saying so...perhaps you are in denial or dont realise the reality.. or you just know some very nice people.. Just cos you dont know bad Polish guys doesnt mean there arent any.
ShelleyS  14 | 2883  
20 Feb 2008 /  #36
the stuff which is written on here says NOTHING about what I know about Poles,

But evidently it's what people have experienced from Polish men living in the UK...no one is saying you are like this, but didnt you know all English women are easy and fat...thats not nice to hear but its true in some cases....
Wyspianska  
20 Feb 2008 /  #37
this forum seems to be full of non-Poles who have met one or two bad apples, and seem to enjoy tarring us all with the same brush!!!

I'm Polish and have Jewish ancestors. Nice to meet you lol : )
tornado2007  11 | 2270  
20 Feb 2008 /  #39
have a look at all the bashing of all the other nationalities on here before you judge

exactly its the same point i made, good one :)

But evidently it's what people have experienced from Polish men living in the UK.

yes its true so their views are valid of course, Maybe polish men don't travel well, lol

I'm Polish and have Jewish ancestors. Nice to meet you lol : )

nice to meet you, you can come round to mine and we can whip of that chastity lock and have some fun :) mmmmwwwwaaaaahhhh (Joking) :) hi wyspi
Wyspianska  
20 Feb 2008 /  #40
nice to meet you, you can come round to mine and we can whip of that chastity lock and have some fun :)

it supposed to be funny?

I'm going to forgive you cos I know you talk too much and think far less.

hi wyspi

hi Torny hah
tornado2007  11 | 2270  
20 Feb 2008 /  #41
I'm going to forgive you cos I know you talk too much and think far less.

lol love you too, i'm sorry i forgot that sort of thing is offensive to you and your religous beliefs xx
PolskaDoll  27 | 1591  
20 Feb 2008 /  #42
they just need some companionship while they are here, but most arent looking for anything more.

That's the impression I got from my friend. He only wanted company and no one truly likes to be lonely.

Everyone has a different opinion and I for one am not bigoted and I dont think most of the other posters on this thread are either.. they are merely conveying their personal experiences and not suggesting that all Polish guys are bad.

I agree. I don't even think that the OP is doing more than sharing her experience and asking for opinions.

You're right, this is a Polish forum so yes, most of the opinions in this thread are going to include stories about Polish men!

the stuff which is written on here says NOTHING about what I know about Poles

Please correct me if I am wrong but you're not a female so I doubt you've had many relationships with Polish men - which is essentially what this thread is about. We know that there are hundreds of good Polish guys out there.
sapphire  22 | 1241  
21 Feb 2008 /  #43
you're not a female so I doubt you've had many relationships with Polish men

hey lets not be judgemental.. he may well have :)
MareGaea  29 | 2751  
23 Feb 2008 /  #44
Hm, my lady's Polish ex- seems to be very posessive and protective. I'm 6 foot 2 and he's 6 foot 5 and has arms twice the size of mine. He's not the brightest tool in the shed. Should I be afraid?

M-G (has never been afraid of anybody in his life, but does not fancy being beaten up by somebody with issues not caused by him)
jones101  1 | 349  
23 Feb 2008 /  #45
MG mostly they are all talk. While sure a big guy would worry you a bit more he likely will just posture and then go away when it comes down to it. The time or two a Pole has tried to get all bully with me just simply stepping up to him and saying "ok then let's go" was enough to get them to back off. If he shows up drunk stirring things up call the Police. He has yet to learn she is not his anymore. Sounds pretty immature.
MareGaea  29 | 2751  
23 Feb 2008 /  #46
Well, it's not yet the case, but if he really wants; I have never ran away from anything; if he wants to beat me up. He can try. Although his arms are twice the size of mine, I'm not weak either :) About the immaturity: that's why I wrote he's not the sharpest tool in the shed...

M-G
PinkJewel  
23 Feb 2008 /  #47
but if he really wants; I have never ran away from anything; if he wants to beat me up.

Has he actually said he wants to beat you up?
MareGaea  29 | 2751  
23 Feb 2008 /  #48
No, but his bodylanguage was quite explicit. Haven't told the lady about this, though.

M-G
PinkJewel  
23 Feb 2008 /  #49
bodylanguage was quite explicit.

I think you'll find he's just protective of her. Most likely she meant a lot to him and he doesn't want to see her hurt. May be that she was his first love.
MareGaea  29 | 2751  
23 Feb 2008 /  #50
Most likely she meant a lot to him and he doesn't want to see her hurt

Well, I take good care of her :)

M-G
Filios1  8 | 1336  
23 Feb 2008 /  #51
Sex solves everything.
PinkJewel  
23 Feb 2008 /  #52
Well, I take good care of her :)

So you shouldn't get beaten up then ;)

Sex solves everything.

No it doesn't.
marhefka  - | 8  
23 Feb 2008 /  #53
Sex solves everything.

not true....sex can spoil many stuff...for ex. friendship...
MareGaea  29 | 2751  
23 Feb 2008 /  #54
Sex solves everything

No! No matter how much you pay me, I will not have sex with him!

M-G (tsk)
Filios1  8 | 1336  
23 Feb 2008 /  #55
No, sex strengthens friendship, and from my own personal experiences, it always solves disagreements and bickering. Simply let the girl know, and hopefully she will be in the mood, and Voila! Your problems are solved.
JustysiaS  13 | 2235  
23 Feb 2008 /  #56
No, sex strengthens friendship, and from my own personal experiences, it always solves disagreements and bickering.

what about disagreements with your male friends? you sleep with them too? im disappointed in you filios. sex solves nothing, its only got a temporary effect.
Filios1  8 | 1336  
23 Feb 2008 /  #57
im disappointed in you filios. sex solves nothing, its only got a temporary effect.

Poor little Justysia. Maybe your man is not giving you the proper loving? ; ) Real sex is a lasting effect.

what about disagreements with your male friends? you sleep with them too?

No. Fortunately, I do not carry the same gay traits as my Greek and Macedonian Companion forefathers.. Disagreements with male friends? I never have them. Male-Male relationships are much easier. You disagree? You give him a punch to the face and let him know. These disagreements rarely last more than 5 minutes, until someone is left bloodied and battered, and you are friends again in the next hour after more Ouzo.
MareGaea  29 | 2751  
23 Feb 2008 /  #58
No, sex strengthens friendship, and from my own personal experiences, it always solves disagreements and bickering. Simply let the girl know, and hopefully she will be in the mood, and Voila! Your problems are solved.

Still, I will NOT have sex with him!

M-G (jeez, I wrote a darn good tune there - when will I top the charts?:) )
marhefka  - | 8  
23 Feb 2008 /  #59
No, sex strengthens friendship

It works in a bf-gf relationship, you are together, you are friends, you have sex, you become one...blah blah blah... but when you are only friends with somebody... it might put a wall between you...

Beside, how you can have sex with somebody who pi55ed you off...
:)
osiol  55 | 3921  
23 Feb 2008 /  #60
Great ****, but you still keep leaving the lid off the toothpaste and that really ****es me off.

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