Hantsie
24 Oct 2007 / #1
Hi, I've been reading this forum with interest and now feel brave enough to ask for some advice from the men who post on here.
I'm english (and a bit shy when it comes to dating) and met a polish guy last week and we've been on two dates. On the second date I took him a cake I'd made as a promise to him. We then went to a polish bar and I sampled some polish beer and vodka's (maybe one too many), and we had a great time. I was merry, but not drunk and stumbling, and still able to hold a conversation (no slurring).
On returning to his flat and after having a coffee, I was a little bit poorly (yeap I was sick, but I made it to the bathroom). I felt very embarassed and asked him to get me a taxi so I could go home, but he insisted on me staying and tucked me up in his bed (to sleep).
In the morning he was really lovely saying I am a sweet drunk and that he felt a bit responsible for me being "fizzy" as he bought doubles and I was being nice by wanting to sample them. He made me a cup of tea and tried to make me some breakfast but my tummy wasn't up to it. We sat around and talked for a while but I knew he had things to do so made a move to go home, he drove me home. At my place he said he had a lovely evening. I was still feeling very silly and said to him, "give me a call, but only if you want to", (I'm thinking at this point I've blown it by getting drunk, etc). He said he would call me, no matter.
He doesn't do texting, prefers to call, (which I'm getting my head around), all I've done is send a text yesterday, just asking if he'd had a good weekend, was the cake ok. Then a bit later asking if it was ok to call. Nothing though. I haven't tried to contact him more than the two texts as I hate crowding, chasing a guy.
So guys have i blown it?
I'm english (and a bit shy when it comes to dating) and met a polish guy last week and we've been on two dates. On the second date I took him a cake I'd made as a promise to him. We then went to a polish bar and I sampled some polish beer and vodka's (maybe one too many), and we had a great time. I was merry, but not drunk and stumbling, and still able to hold a conversation (no slurring).
On returning to his flat and after having a coffee, I was a little bit poorly (yeap I was sick, but I made it to the bathroom). I felt very embarassed and asked him to get me a taxi so I could go home, but he insisted on me staying and tucked me up in his bed (to sleep).
In the morning he was really lovely saying I am a sweet drunk and that he felt a bit responsible for me being "fizzy" as he bought doubles and I was being nice by wanting to sample them. He made me a cup of tea and tried to make me some breakfast but my tummy wasn't up to it. We sat around and talked for a while but I knew he had things to do so made a move to go home, he drove me home. At my place he said he had a lovely evening. I was still feeling very silly and said to him, "give me a call, but only if you want to", (I'm thinking at this point I've blown it by getting drunk, etc). He said he would call me, no matter.
He doesn't do texting, prefers to call, (which I'm getting my head around), all I've done is send a text yesterday, just asking if he'd had a good weekend, was the cake ok. Then a bit later asking if it was ok to call. Nothing though. I haven't tried to contact him more than the two texts as I hate crowding, chasing a guy.
So guys have i blown it?