There is now a move afoot in Poland to outlaw all corporal punishment,
including even the occasional "klaps" (smack) on the bottom. Opinion is
divided on this.
Nobody is in favour of severe beatings, mutilation or torture, sometimes
leading to crippledom or even death. But when babcia (gran) uses a gentle
slap or tap to prevent a two-year-old running into traffic, or a mother
warns "wait till your dad gets home" as a rearing technique, is that
really a threat to children?
Some observers have noted that it is easy to say outlaw this or that, but what about enforcement?
To enforce a no-spanking law, a widespread snitch network would have to
emerge, something quite unlikely in Poland, where memories of informers in
the service of totalitarian regimes linger on.
How about the underclass of unwed couples living in abysmal filth and
usually addicted to alcohol who are notorious for physically abusing each
other and their children. Those who promote concubinage (informal
cohabitaiton) as something modern, cool and trendy as opposed to "stodgy",
old-fashion marriage, would do well to look into this more closely.
About 3/4 of the Warsaw police's calls to intervene in household violence
involve unmarried couples. Step-partners are especially notorious for physically abusing their partner's kids by another...er, um...what's the word...relationship. It's something to think about.
including even the occasional "klaps" (smack) on the bottom. Opinion is
divided on this.
Nobody is in favour of severe beatings, mutilation or torture, sometimes
leading to crippledom or even death. But when babcia (gran) uses a gentle
slap or tap to prevent a two-year-old running into traffic, or a mother
warns "wait till your dad gets home" as a rearing technique, is that
really a threat to children?
Some observers have noted that it is easy to say outlaw this or that, but what about enforcement?
To enforce a no-spanking law, a widespread snitch network would have to
emerge, something quite unlikely in Poland, where memories of informers in
the service of totalitarian regimes linger on.
How about the underclass of unwed couples living in abysmal filth and
usually addicted to alcohol who are notorious for physically abusing each
other and their children. Those who promote concubinage (informal
cohabitaiton) as something modern, cool and trendy as opposed to "stodgy",
old-fashion marriage, would do well to look into this more closely.
About 3/4 of the Warsaw police's calls to intervene in household violence
involve unmarried couples. Step-partners are especially notorious for physically abusing their partner's kids by another...er, um...what's the word...relationship. It's something to think about.