i went to krakow 7 months ago and met this really cool polish guy. its his birthday soon and i want to send him a nice card. i asked a friend how i could say 'dear/beloved' but in a funny kind of way, to make it sound a bit old fashioned. i think she told me i could use KOCHANA but maybe it was KOCHANY or KOCHANIE -- she tried to explain the different endings to me but they really confuse me :-))) so if a girl wants to use this word to a guy, is KOCHANA correct? cenkuye in advance :-D
For a guy you have to use Kochany (Kochana is for a woman) Kochanie means the same as "sweety" so it can be used for a female and male, but i think is more used for female (also for your child or i.e. sister)