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JustysiaS   
2 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]

this thread is so full of bs. and what does it have to do with Poland???

It seems that 70-80% of women have sexual diseases, problems, etc.

utter rubbish

An alarming 31% of all women say they would not tell a future partner if they had a sexual disease. This rises for 65% for single women

if they HAD it but don't have it anymore cos it's been treated then i really don't see a reason to brag

Vaginismus.

do you even freakin know what vaginismus is? it's a serious problem not so much physical but psychological. it's a fear of having painful sex, it happens to women who just had a baby, victims of rape etc. you're such an idiot seriously, maybe stick to goats then!

I thought yeast infections do not give men infections. It is women who have sex with different partners do not keep herself clean. This is what I know from my doctor.

you poor misinformed person, who is your doctor? yes you can infect your partner with a yeast infection, common name of this is thrush. both you and your partner should get treatment as you will end up passing it on to each other. it happens when the ph balance *down there* is disrupted by trivial things such as detergents, bad diet, cold or flu, no foreplay ha ha.... it's very very common among people who have an active sex life as well as among those who don't have sex at all. as for personal hygiene of your intimate area, too much washing is just as bad as not washing, if you wash too much that can actually upset the ph balance and as a result give you a yeast infection. you should also be aware that a yeast infection can happen in other areas of your body too, including your mouth. if it keeps coming back though then it might be signalling a more serious problem, which in the worst case can be cervical cancer.

One you have some kinds of warts and you have to see your doctors. He will treated it and you have virus in your body like Herpes, HIV and so.

warts are not a sign of hpv, hiv or any std's. they are caused by a virus that some people carry without symptoms (ie no warts), it is still not quite clear what causes it but it gets transmitted from skin to skin. most of those warts are totally harmless and a single treatment or a course of them gets rid of the problem, so make sure your partner gets treated too. it's a bit like with cold sores, some people get them and some people don't, and they are also caused by a virus.

wmeon should not have sex while she have yeast infections. It will get worst

well as they say, if it hurts (and during a yeast infection it will) then don't do it...

and as for this:

we'd like to know if they have a problem in advance before any touch.

we would all like to know things like that, not just you men! if people choose not to admit they have an std before having sex with someone new then that is pretty horrible, especially that most things can be treated these days and there is no need being ashamed of it and going around and spreading it. treating sex as a taboo is one thing, infecting someone becuase you choose to not tell them about your problem is something else. if not sure, don't touch, simple! especially if they're skanky white girls, your and your countrymen's first choice nomaderol.

i have so had enough of this rubbish you post
JustysiaS   
3 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]

Now you are beginning to understand what men have been going through these past decades with all the male-bashing

boo bloody hoo. cry me a river zimmy.

Next time you are in a restaurant, bar, theatre or wherever why don't you ask the men around you if they wash their genitals.

why don't you and this thread author go around asking women if they have std's. i'm sure the results you get will be just as accurate and honest.
JustysiaS   
3 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]

Don't have to; I'm not the one who made up the 90 percent figure.

boo hoo again

Hope my guest is ok.

he must be jealous of your online friends on the Polish forums if he goes round breaking your bidet all the time. you're a bad host.

i consider myself as an expert in this field.

you don't sound like one at all, coming here with a load of rubbish and no proof to back it up apart from assumptions and a few fancy words. your bad English makes you look even less credible as well.

turks

oh what a surprise, a turk who is an expert on std's. is it because you're a gyneacologist or you just had them all. you had vaginismus too?

just as example. vaginismus. no total cleaning treatment, but, if you read documents, literatures, scientists claim they know the solution. but, many different cures show that they are telling lies just like patients doing.

let me say again, this problem has not so much to do with physiology, a woman needs counselling, support. all cases are individual and different things work for different people. now with std's, there are treatments that are proven to work for everybody.

(swears snapped... )

WTF?

what if you had AIDS and if you knew that your remaining life is 1 year... would you sleep with women without telling them? easy to talk without living it. but, if i were, i think i'd sleep with some who ...

who what? who have aids too, or ones you don't like and want to punish or something. only a sick twisted person would even CONSIDER sleeping with and infecting people just because they have nothing to lose anymore.
JustysiaS   
3 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]

in my book, there is no virgin. what if your mother is std and if you drink her milk? you drunk? yes?

so is drinking your mothers milk equal to having sex? what is wrong with you?

if reasons of all individuals were different, we could talk about full chaos. we are averaging and most of reasons lie in history of human being; cultures, religions, etc. think "shame shame" being said to females for tousands of years. deviations from the average/mean such as bad personal sex past experiences are not many.

i was talking about psychological problems, how difficult is that to understand? there are medical cures to many diseases, not just the sexually transmitted ones, we have the same organisms and the same meds work on the same problems in different people. but when it comes to mental issues people should be treated as individual cases.

who are many, uncountable. they should pray that i am not aids.

i really don't like the sound of that sentence and i am very glad i will never get to interact with you in person because you deeply disturb me.

Whoever dares to argue with zimmy obviously has a serious issue with themselves. At least in zimmy's sad, paranoid little world.
JustysiaS   
3 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]

Best solutions for all of you to do is take bath toegether with your partners that way you can see any diseases. Don't take bath alone.

rotfl! if you take a bath together you can see all the std's having a swim in the tub or something? ha ha sorry this is too funny. a bath together is supposed to be romantic! "darling, lets have a bath, i need to check if you have any std's" ahh priceless....
JustysiaS   
4 Nov 2009
Travel / What a horrible vacation (the water in Poland destroyed my gallbladder) [36]

you’re not American no American would use “in bottom of my heart” no matter how uneducated, so who are you?

why do some people hide or lie about their nationality? i mean if you have the skills you can pass as a person from an English speaking country if you REALLY want to for some odd reason, but mistakes like that really give it away!
JustysiaS   
4 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]

Zimmy argues with facts and believes in the reality of 'real equality' and not the "PC" of feminists. I, Justysia am not yet ready to accept rational discourse because it it to threatening to my self esteem.

ha ha the bullsh*t you post does nothing either bad or good to my self esteem, honestly. it just makes you look like a whingeing 'mangina' yourself. often when i read your posts i even tend to agree with some stuff you say, but the way you come accross and how you will not accept other people's arguements against your - admittedly mean and often unjust comments and critisism puts me, and i am sure not just me, off giving you some credit for your observations. just for the record, i've never been one of those evil, manipulating women, i've actually been through a lot of crap thanks to men but i didn't become bitter like yourself. i don't seek out opportunities to take out my petty, meaningless revenge on the male part of the population just because of my personal experiences, and look at yourself. i'm in an amazing relationship right now and my faith in good guys truly is back so there is hope!

but atleast you educated everyone

ha ha i read some of the stuff people posted and thought i just have to say something! i'm surprised that in this day and age people still believe in myths and are pretty clueless about this part of their lives, that they choose to ignore discussing it or getting help because it's still such a taboo. embarassing or not, ignoring it might lead to very serious problems with yourself and your partner(s).

sure my sex life may not be as much active as yours, but, give it to my fear of sex diseases everywhere

oh yeah whatever, you just can't get laid and i find it highly amusing that women explain themselves with vaginismus just to avoid sleeping with you...
JustysiaS   
8 Nov 2009
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]

I am also a muslim in love with a polish girl but if only she was strong enuff to stand for my love. she is just like you, she is also afraid of the things you are afraid of, its totally upside down of your situation for me. but i am not a forcer, i let her free its her life her choice, if she cant stand she chose it herself.

the only thing she should be afraid of is all those infections you might've cought while sleeping around. they say that if you love someone you will wait for them, but obviously in your case she'd be just another number on your scoreboard and you can't get over the fact that she doesn't want you. men like you should be avoided by all means.
JustysiaS   
8 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]

polsky

what are you trying to do? seriously some Polish girl must've really hurt you because you're so desperate to try make them look bad all the time. hiv is not out of control in Poland, we had a case a few years back when this Nigerian guy infected a bunch of women on purpose but you don't exactly hear about people dying there because of aids everyday. percentage wise, looking at the count of population in both Poland and Estonia, the latter looks worse off actually, and as Gaa stated, most of the infected are men. you just look stupid now because your arguement is not valid and all you're trying to do is incrimate Polish women. get over it and find a subject to discuss where you can show some of your intelligence, if you have any that is.
JustysiaS   
8 Nov 2009
Love / Help-my polish bf doesn't fancy me! [94]

kasia24

this is a perfect situation for you to use your imagination. you're a woman, you should know what works on men, especially this one in particular. it's quite common that after a while the passion kinda cools down, you get used to each other, you know that other person will be there for you, it's good in a way but you need that spark. if you want more intimate stuff, take the lead and do something about it! new perfumes, lingerie etc. ask him if there's anything he always wanted to do, be spontaneous. if that fails then it's pretty bad :/. maybe try cooking for him, if all else fails lol. przez żołądek do serca :).
JustysiaS   
8 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]

Let's be rational and talk FACTS and RATIONAL... not emotional blablabla bs

hmm this sentence kinda looks emotional to me. thing is, you're just a b*tchy girl and every post you make is designed to offend Polish women. why, i can only guess, but i wouldn't go on an estonian forum just to offend your kind, i'm not that sad. i don't agree that there is an aids epidemic in Poland, those figures are only a small fraction of the Polish population and they are isolated cases, it is not out of control. stop being an idiot and looking for a problem where there clearly isn't one. get a hobby or something.
JustysiaS   
16 Nov 2009
Love / Is it really possible for a Polish man to be just friends with a woman? [32]

friendships with Polish men don't seem to work for me. have a lot of English guy friends and they're basically like brothers to me but not the Polish guys, i find that they are a bit full on even if they know you're not single. a few girls i know complained about this too. i work with this Polish guy and i'm being nice to him because we see each other every day etc. but he takes my niceness the wrong way and basically stalks me. it's kinda creepy and annoying at the same time because we already established i'm not interested in him 'like that'. he's quite lonely and i do feel sorry for him, but the last time i invited him to go out with my flatmate and a bunch of English people, he ended up having more than half a bottle of vodka and a few pints, got thrown out from the bar we were in because he refused to stop smoking inside, then he walked off, got in his car and drove home! idiot...
JustysiaS   
17 Nov 2009
Love / Is it really possible for a Polish man to be just friends with a woman? [32]

Women have friends who are guys and they are like brothers

we've been friends for a good few years now, no advances have been made from either side and when people casually ask (as they do lol) 'so have you never...??' we're like noooo we're basically family. when i used to work part time in a pub i'd hang out with a bunch of guys, we went to partys and each other's houses and none of them ever hit on me once. friendship between men and women is possible as long as either of the sides has no hidden intentions or expectations.

when i approach friendly i will be considered like a brother

if i order meals, give gifts, etc.., i fear i'll be considered as a father

if you haven't got a grasp on differentiating between flirting and being being friendly or treating and sponsoring then maybe that's why women run a mile from you or pretend they have vaginismus. think about it. and stop being so damn creepy, it's uncomfortable.
JustysiaS   
19 Nov 2009
Love / My Polish girlfriend checks my mobile phone all the time [70]

i was flirting with a girl from the internet that i had never met

ass*hole. my ex did that all the time like it was something normal and harmless. what is it with men looking for reassurance from some annonymous women off the net? they're probably fat old hags getting their kicks online, watching them on webcam would probably make you sick. shame on you.
JustysiaS   
19 Nov 2009
Love / My Polish girlfriend checks my mobile phone all the time [70]

they guy comes on asking about what to do because his girlfriend keeps looking at his phone and all you've got to offer up is a point of view on what he does on the net?? what?? great help that. I actually think you have a point about people online but why post it here and now when we are supposed to be talking about untrusting women who poke and pry on mobile phones of their partners.

wah wah wah, here's the defender of all righteousness! the original poster never appeared again so we're just having a discussion - as you do on a forum - and it is related to this subject. i expressed my views, and i see you're expressing yours and even ganging up on one of the new posters just because you don't agree with her. nice job!

as for untrusting women poking around, it's just human nature that we're curious. of course you don't have the right to breach someone's privacy and it's a very insecure thing to do BUT sometimes it's best to come clean about the mistrust and ask for proof. and if you're suspicious because your other half all of the sudden doesn't let go of their phone or it's on silent or off at all times when that wasn't the case before, there is clearly something going on. same for their phone beeping or ringing very late at night. funny how their reaction is always the furious attitude, all the 'how dare you' rubbish and pretending to leave just to distract from the real issue. i have no problem with my other half knowing my passwords or even checking my phone.

if you are doing nothing wrong and your partner still doesn't believe you then you need to sit them down and talk to them, tell them how much you care and that you would never betray them but that they need to trust you. don't hide your phone, don't act sketchy, just let them feel secure again. unfortunately if your partner doesn't trust you with your phone, emails etc. it may signal that they are fooling around themselves!

No one told you to date an arab.

have you dated an arab before, is this what they're like?
JustysiaS   
22 Nov 2009
Life / Why Poles don't use Facebook? [43]

Justysia, I (accidentally) looked up how many hours a week you spend "on facebook".

facebook is always on when i get on my laptop but i'm not always *on it*, if you get what i mean. i've been in trouble with work cos of facebook recently, but that's just because one of my "friends" snitched to my boss about something i said because she thought it was about work. had a lot of explaining to do, and i'll pick my friends more wisely in the future...
JustysiaS   
22 Nov 2009
Love / Help-my polish bf doesn't fancy me! [94]

and there 's no need to make an effort to make things happen, it all comes by itself

at first it does babe, not after an x amount of weeks or months though. you BOTH should make an effort, that's what keeps the spark there.

before he used to beg for bj's

there are 2 possible reasons as to why that is. one - you're both in a stable relationship and his needs are considerably smaller than at first. two - someone else is doing it for him...
JustysiaS   
23 Nov 2009
Love / Help-my polish bf doesn't fancy me! [94]

yeah but that just means you have to take more off!!!! I'm all for bra and panties but don't you think stockings are a bit of a waste of time??

torny torny, you keep the stockings on, that's the whole point! ;D oh and high heels too rotfl
JustysiaS   
23 Nov 2009
News / nasza klasa in the news. [11]

I agree that facebook is not great but still, you can prevent pretty much anyone you want from ever finding out you are even on it. It's all in the privacy settings. You can get rid of the 'message' option so that only your frinds can write to you. The problem i have with it currently is that every now and again there are torrents on it, also some weird add ons and pop ups that are potentially dangerous to your computer. Apparently this is happening quite a lot now.

Same with nasza klasa, you can hide pretty much all the info about yourself that you wish. And if you don't like someone then don't add them and block them. Simples.
JustysiaS   
23 Nov 2009
Love / Help-my polish bf doesn't fancy me! [94]

Hes thinking of tights, poor sod.

ha ha oh yeah. poor chap...

- Doctor, when i make love to my girlfriend she always complains her toes really hurt
- Maybe try taking her tights off next time you do it

If the spark was there before, it can be rekindled

not always, it takes two to tango and if he doesn't wanna know then there's nothing she can do
JustysiaS   
23 Nov 2009
Love / Help-my polish bf doesn't fancy me! [94]

we are possessions, after all, and if we want to be cherished, we need to take care of ourselves ; )

i don't like to think of myself as some blokes potential 'possession' to be honest! of course you need to make an effort when it comes to hygiene and appearance. still, they should cherish you no matter what, we all have bad hair and bad skin days, no? i say keep them on their toes and don't let yourself go just because they're yours now, but don't obsess too much about it. funny thing is men kinda expect you to look good but they get all p*ssed off when you're taking your time doing it ha ha. you just can't win! i take care of myself regardless of the fact whether i have a boyfriend or not, but it's still so nice when they notice that you made an effort or that you're wearing something new, changed your hair etc.
JustysiaS   
23 Nov 2009
Love / Help-my polish bf doesn't fancy me! [94]

ok stockings maybe can pass, i'm a leg man myself so maybe the suspense is a little exciting but boots?? what?? the only reason a girl takes her shoes off is when she wants a massage!!! right?? (when she takes them off for a man that is)

i must say this, you are an odd one. when somebody visits you and they take their shoes off do you instantly give them a foot massage?
JustysiaS   
29 Nov 2009
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]

Amathyst:
in the 6 years with my ex I didnt pay for one drink or one meal.
No wonder he's your ex.

in the 3 years of my relationship i had to pay for almost every meal and drink we had, even when he took me out to apologise and make up. no wonder he's my ex ;).

No you are just tight!

i would disagree, if someone invites you out they should at least buy you a drink. it's like i was cooking dinner, invited my date over and got him to pay me 50% of what i spent on the food. now THAT would be tight.
JustysiaS   
29 Nov 2009
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]

that is awful. SHould be a red flag from the start;)

should've been, but love is blind eh, and i felt bad about making him pay cos he was always in debt (another red flag right there ha ha...)

As kind as he was he was a miserable fecker, plus his relationship with his mum was a bit too close...he brought her to the pictures with us once!

i find it highly uncomfortable when you only just start going out with someone and they introduce you to all of their mates and family right at the start before you're even remotely sure that it'll last. and oh dear, a mommy's boy. i probably wouldn't give the miserable fecker the time of day, but hey, love IS blind ;)