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Joined: 9 Sep 2007 / Male ♂
Last Post: 18 Sep 2008
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From: chicago il
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marek s   
5 Jan 2008
Love / Divorced Polish women [63]

so you throw the stone, im supposed to sit here and take it ?

who started the whole real men comment? im a man unlike you and im rather real. not all men as you think are "real men"

you made huge assumption and you have no idea about me from the start.

how many times have you assumed with me?

truth is, you dont know me,
so there for all your statements only show a bitter person in my opinion..

so a person speaking his mind/point of view is bitter?
thats a rather closed view of the world if thats the case

forieigner4.. yes we have had our run ins.. so your making assumption based on
his of what kind of person I am .. judging are we?

so have judged others in different posts, so its o.k for you to judge yet not others??

so your saying that because I have two different fathers ( not knowing the circumstance of my life) would suggest automatically that I am what???? not a good
mother or parent for that?? again.. throwing a stone, judging...

if you can judge, why cant others?

he's blunt in how he feels, blunt like a hammer that can bash again'n'again'n'again until the first pieces of sk..

above is how i am in real life, i tell it like it is and do not sugar coat.
marek s   
5 Jan 2008
Love / Divorced Polish women [63]

3 years ago was the ex wife thing. ive moved on to better things since then, believe what you want.

but i checked way back to see where it came from and unless i suck at the internets then you dropped the first tirade of insults.

the real men comment that was directed at me started it off. i did not direct any of my replies to anyone before than.
marek s   
5 Jan 2008
Love / Divorced Polish women [63]

one of them is my
husbands best friend.. hes still living at home with his mother, still drinks /smokes
and comes over here and there.. no children, and says the same things. I want
a woman with no children.. yet hes been saying this for about 10 years or more..

he needs to get out more. there is no shortage of women, matter of fact there are more women in this world than men.

I only say what I say because I feel its necessary to point out that some instances
cannot be controlled or helped..

so name calling and such because people dont have the save view as your is necessary?

I only say what I say because I feel its necessary to point out that some instances
cannot be controlled or helped.. fathers leaving, fathers dying etc.. so a child should
not be thought of as baggage

single people call it baggage, believe what you want to.

thats how US married women view real men

not all married women have your view.

if you accept someone, you accept everthing
or nothing..

true.

I dont know if marek grew up in a hateful setting. but it appears hes lost
something in his life that makes him so bitter..

lol, your a doctor now, this is funny shitt.
i grew up in what a person would call a normal polish household.
we are all blunt and speak our minds. funny how when you dont agree with what i say im bitter, maybe your the one whos bitter. you were the one who first resorted to name calling, not me. thats very mature isnt it. a great mom you are for sure. then again, you have two kids by two different fathers, a prime example of damaged goods in most peoples eyes.
marek s   
5 Jan 2008
Love / Divorced Polish women [63]

god forbid anybody here speak their mind, they are called hate full

then marek comes along saying I and a bunch of other guys agree that we dont
want someone else's baggage,

pay attention to what the other men in this thread posted, im not alone in my stance, you just refuse to believe it.
marek s   
5 Jan 2008
Love / Divorced Polish women [63]

so you are calling my husband of more then 10 years not a real man?

his problem not mine

he is more man then you will ever be.

good for him.

judging by your
threads and how hateful you are,

im not hate full, im just blunt, some people are just to stupid to see the difference

you will be a lonely old fart

you know it all now dont you.

not with your attitude..

lol, women dont seem to mind my attitude at all, then again, the ones i maybe seeing have never had kids and do agree with my attitude.
marek s   
5 Jan 2008
Love / Divorced Polish women [63]

every man who has replied in this post has stated it would be a problem yet im wrong, o.k.

yes those are the ones ( like marek) who lose the women they have and end up
dying a drunk old man with no one who cares about them...

if above makes you feel better thinking so go ahead.

truth be told, youll be an old women on her death bed, with 5 cats and your kids surrounding you, because no man within his right state of mind wanted you.

There is the unavoidable issue of biology and genes though.

thank you, somebody else can see one of the points im making
marek s   
5 Jan 2008
Love / Divorced Polish women [63]

coming from a real man..

that is correct.

what if the father died at a young age of heart attack... would a man as you say
turn up his nose to two young children who have no father because his life was taken
so quickly...????

i dont care what happened to whoever, not my problem.

do me a favor,, shut the F up.. you are prime example of a closed head injury!!

truth hurts doesnt it.
marek s   
5 Jan 2008
Love / Divorced Polish women [63]

a real man as you call it, wont want anything to do with another mans kids, a real man wants to sire his own. real men dont want to deal with other peoples problems.

ill bet that your divorced and have kids, and a single guy minus kids wont date you unless your just his sex buddy.
im sure you have found this out already though.
no single guy within his right mind will want to date a women with kids when there are plenty of women without kids out there.
marek s   
5 Jan 2008
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

Bring out the firing squad for making a mistake, You never made a MISTAKE, you are MR PERFECT??? I think NOT

did not you take vows for better or worse??
ive made mistakes in the past, but never acted upon doing other women while married.
marek s   
5 Jan 2008
Love / Divorced Polish women [63]

having selfish thoughts caused by anothers offspring.

how about just not wanting to deal with kids
marek s   
5 Jan 2008
Love / Divorced Polish women [63]

has nothing to do with how secure a guy is. he just may not want a women with a different mans kids.
marek s   
4 Jan 2008
Love / Divorced Polish women [63]

i personally wouldnt have a problem dating a divorced women, but if she has kids, no thanks.
being that i dont have kids, i dont want to deal with anybody elses.
marek s   
4 Jan 2008
Love / Divorced Polish women [63]

nothing like stereotyping though ....

im not stereotyping. most single guys like me think along the lines of, im single with no kids and thats what the women should also be. guys i knew over the years avoided women with children. single guys dont generally want to deal with mommy and her kids. there are guys who dont care if women have kids, but thats a smaller percentage of men.
marek s   
4 Jan 2008
Love / Divorced Polish women [63]

generally speaking, single men without any baggage dont want women with baggage, a.k.a kids.
marek s   
4 Jan 2008
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

I suppose you do have the moral highground here in a black and white scenario, and to be fair, maybe infidelity should be a black and white scenario, but as people we often smudge things into gray.

infidelity is a no no in my book. if a person is willing to sneak around behind your back, they are not worthy of trust. once i dont trust a person, thats it.

there isnt much grey in my life at all.
marek s   
3 Jan 2008
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

question why we get bored and looking for appreciation and fun elsewhere!!!!!???????

perhaps if you get bored, women should leave there husbands first instead of sneaking around.

did you ever wonder why your wife left you?

she didnt leave me, i threw her out of my place.

How come its OK for men to have affairs though???? Rather sexist isn't it?????

where the hell did i say its o.k for men to mess around. stop assuming things about me as if you know me.
marek s   
2 Jan 2008
Love / Polish Boyfriend Left to Poland [19]

enjoy your time thats left with him and when he leaves, you have to get past that and move on.
marek s   
31 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

Wow thanks for your support, tell you're not in a long-term relationship. Married to 22 years, have very little in common with my husband now. Don't expect you to understand.

leave him them. my ex wife was a cheating slut also.
people who are in long term relationships generally unlike you are not liars.
i guess people should support liars and untrustworthy people in your eyes?

Tied to the kitchen sink for all that time don't I deserve some fun??!!

once again walk away.

So you want to have two men while he should confine himself to only one woman?This is unfair

guess thats her view upon long term relationships
marek s   
27 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

marek s...like to kick someone when they're down?

not at all, im just blunt. maybe if more people didnt sugar coat, the world would be a better place.
what i said was the honest truth
marek s   
27 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

im beggining to have doubts about giving him a second chance. i want better, its just i dont see better, and i know this sounds really weak and pathetic, but im scared of being single again.

your fuckin 19, get over it.
holding on because you dont want to be alone is sad, matter of fact, you deserve to get walked all over

maybe we can be friends that hang out together.

above never works because youll fall for his b.s soon enough and act like a lost puppy dog looking for its master
marek s   
27 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

he will not get away with what hes done, he deserves to be punished. im no judge, but he needs to be sentenced, im still seeking revenge. it aint over, im thinking straight and im strong.

no your not thinking straight, your thinking like the teenager that you are.
act like an adult and walk away. no revenge, punishment or whatever you may want to plot.
truth be told, your in your strong mode now or whatever, but he will play you, youll fall for it and will be kissing his ass soon enough, we all have seen above happen many of times over.

just because i chose to take him back, i am not the crying vunerable doormat girl i used to be

untill you see him and he plays all nice nice with you.

For him, one day, to find out you are in an honest, loving respectful relationship with somebody who really wants to settle down with you and seeing what he missed out on when you left him and moved on.

the guy is 21, hes not going to care about loving this and that. he wants to get laid as much as possible at that age like all other guys want.
marek s   
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

You guys are being mean!!

really read below, she will take him back. first off, he already gave her a reason to walk and the fact they are in different countries is also a clue to walk. ldr never works

i mean, i love him, and even if i take him back, theres going to be no more mrs nice/sweet/sensitive/doormat guy

he will have to do alot more things to get me to even wanna be with him.

I could and still can ruin their relationship if I wish

so you think. if he had you replaced so quickly, hes way over you.
marek s   
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

how could he throw it all away?

better now than later

this 21yr old is ready for a commited relationship.

guys this age are not ready to settle down and the ones that do act up in their later 20s

i gave him so many chances to leave and sow wild oats, but he insisted i am meant for him and wed be together and last.

he has you as his full timer and likes some part timers.