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Joined: 6 Apr 2007 / Female ♀
Last Post: 14 Aug 2011
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From: Memphis, TN USA
Speaks Polish?: Nie

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shopgirl   
22 Apr 2007
Love / Help me! I fell in love with a Polish man! [137]

OK then, I will see if I can get a satellite feed to my computer! :)
What color jacket do you wear? I need some kind of identifiable criteria to start the search, or do you wear the kilt pretty much every day? :)
shopgirl   
22 Apr 2007
Love / HOW MANY TIMES CAN YOU LOVE IN A LIFETIME? Once, twice or many ... [70]

Did you share a kiss or anything? Or you we just friends?

Just one. It was very scary for me. Like nuclear explosion or something...brain shut down...like deer in headlights really. *sigh*

He obviously made a big imprint on your heart

That makes it hard to find someone else.....it is hard to avoid comparing that kind of chemistry to what there is with any new guy, don't you think?
shopgirl   
22 Apr 2007
Love / HOW MANY TIMES CAN YOU LOVE IN A LIFETIME? Once, twice or many ... [70]

complaining about their native men saying they have their (wive's girlfriend's etc) at home and their women "FRIENDS" here. so some actually have families in both countries.

I've read that on another website on Polish culture..that they bond to a woman out of isolation, culture shock, and lonelines when often there is a wife and family in Poland. One more thing to add a degree of difficulty to finding a good guy. Keep chanting that mantra, ladies! :)
shopgirl   
23 Apr 2007
Love / Met a polish girl... [27]

But I talk nonstop to her in polish.

Awww that is sooo cute!
I dunno Goonie, sounds like you are ready to make friends, a very good first step.....just take it slow!
:)
shopgirl   
23 Apr 2007
Love / Met a polish girl... [27]

Oooohhh I think Witek is a little bit jealous!
:)
shopgirl   
26 Apr 2007
Language / Polish letters Alt-codes... Anyone? [60]

I have set my keyboard this way (like FISZ's instuctions) and I keep the language tool bar in the system tray at the bottom of the screen so I can switch back and forth easily. I find that if I don't type words with the correct Polish letters, Poltran can't translate them for me. I have considered putting little pieces of tape over my keys to help me learn where things are. You have to hit SHIFT and press the punctuation keys to get additional letters. :)
shopgirl   
27 Apr 2007
News / Poland's overall view on the US? [38]

The People of Iraq hated Saddam, they were afraid of him, he was a tyran. But at least they could lead their lives.

I see some truth in this statement. The various tribes that inhabit Iraq do not get along, and have always fought with each other. The only thing that kept them from killing each other was fear of Saddam, who was the scariest and most vicious of all. These groups are going to have a really rough time with a democracy, because I think, deep down, they don't want it! They continue to fight for power and control in the government right now. As long as they (all the tribes) care more about control of government for their particular sect, there isn't going to be much impetus for co-operation. Democracy requires some degree of co-operation. Sadly, I don't see there being peace in Iraq, with or without troops, with or without rebuilt infrastructure. They just are not ready for peace or democracy.
shopgirl   
30 Apr 2007
Language / Five Commandments for Polish Language Learners [36]

Hi telefonitka :)

You know what is the most frustrating thing about learning Polish for me? It is not being able to find a word in the dictionary. I need a big, fat dictionary that has every little word in it. It is making me crazy trying to "guess" at word stems.

Also, trying to remember the difference (in English) for words infinitive, dative, genitive, accusative (I was asleep in class that day, obviously)! (insert intense pain smiley here)

Those of you lucky enough to grow up knowing two languages....you have no idea how blessed you are! Be thankful!

I have to stop with the lesson today before my skull splits open.
:(
shopgirl   
1 May 2007
Life / Polish Driving Techniques [20]

Everyone says the roads in Poland are awful, but in these video clips, and in the photos posted from vacations or travel by forum members, I don't see anything wrong with the pavements (no potholes or crumbling asphalt). I'm confused!
shopgirl   
1 May 2007
Language / Five Commandments for Polish Language Learners [36]

listen to polish music during day to have key words stick in my mind.

That's what I do for pronunciation. I print out lyrics, then match them to the singer's pronunciation. I am very grateful to Artur Rojek of Myslovitz for his excellent enunciation of syllables! :)
shopgirl   
3 May 2007
Life / Poland: The Things That Make Foreigners Lift a Brow [123]

About the jokes, this line from the end of the article sums it up well, Patrycja:

In fact, Poland is a community that has a rich history of literature, music and scientific study. One who truly has studied Polish history wouldn't find value in the "Polish joke."
shopgirl   
3 May 2007
Life / Poland: The Things That Make Foreigners Lift a Brow [123]

I think that we all make generalizations sometimes without even being aware of it, until someone points it out to us.
Generalizations are usually wrong, because very little of anything in life is ALL or NOTHING. I think it is a feeble attempt to try to make sense of the world and to sort things out.

What do you think?
shopgirl   
3 May 2007
USA, Canada / What were some of the reasons for your family to immigrate to America? [14]

I see your point.

I suppose it is just "easier" to point fingers at Americans, because America is "larger than life". I still can't get over how much our culture is "everywhere". I don't always understand the fascination that other countries have with the US. Whether other people love us or hate us, just depends on what aspect of the country they are focusing on at the time. There is more good to this place than bad. No, we aren't perfect. No, our government isn't perfect. No, our society isn't perfect. But the US is better than a lot of other places, too.

We are a melting pot. I like that, because I believe that diversity lends strength and character to a country. And like you said, even Poland is a blend of other Slavic peoples.

My family tree is blended from various immigrants, and I am thankful that my ancestors made it to this country and worked hard to bulid it.

Don't worry if other people act like you aren't "authentic" Polish because you were born here. It is not anyone elses place to tell you what you are, because you already know what is truth in your heart, Patrycja. That is what matters most! :)
shopgirl   
3 May 2007
USA, Canada / What were some of the reasons for your family to immigrate to America? [14]

more than 20 lechitic tribes were united by the Polanie tribe to form Poland

What period of history would this refer to?

I imagine that with the fluctuating borders of Poland (over a period of hundreds of years), a lot of people moved around in and out of the general region in response to invaders, economics, and numerous other factors.

Does anyone really know?
shopgirl   
3 May 2007
History / Polish Constitution Day on May 3rd [14]

I'll be seeing Myslovitz tomorrow.

Oh, that hurts! :D

You KNOW how much I LOVE them!
It's just NOT FAIR! (crying, sobbing, temper tantrum in progress) :(

(I've been listening to Myslovitz all morning, sigh)
shopgirl   
3 May 2007
History / Polish Constitution Day on May 3rd [14]

I was hiding under an umbrella with about six other blokes.

I would happily stand in the rain and under threat of lightning....it would not matter :)
I'd get a boat if it begain to flood! Nothing would make me go :)

But I hope it doesn't rain on you tomorrow! Enjoy it for me! Tell Artur I love him!
:D
shopgirl   
5 May 2007
Travel / What's happening in Poland. [7]

4th May Myslovitz play in Wroclaw. A good live band.

So, you might as well tell me "how it was", OK?
Did it rain? Were they awesome (of course)!
Just try not to rub it in too much :)
shopgirl   
5 May 2007
History / Soviet war monuments in Poland - what to do about them? [133]

The Russian youth group NASHI is protesting in Estonia on behalf of Putin. This group of 20 somethings has been accused of being paid protestors. It seems strange to me that a bunch of university age kids wouldn't rather be with friends, (or playing sports or something) rather than demonstrating whenever someone goes against Putin.

Bizzarre and creepy....
shopgirl   
6 May 2007
Love / I cheated on my girlfriend (I'm British, my gf is Polish) [167]

You know, there was a time when I would have said that if a guy cheated, that would be "the end", "we are done", and so forth.

But now, I would look at this situation closer. I would ask myself "did I contribute to this in any way, am I partly responsible"? I would want to see if this was a wake up call to fix something in the relationship that had been neglected, or if the relationship had run out of steam....some anaylsis would be my first task. Then I would weigh up the the good things versus the bad, to see if the loss of trust could be rebuilt or is it not worth it.

I would talk it out and take it slow. But that's just me...

(I know this may not pertain to your particular situation, but I have learned that life is not always "black and white" but a wide ranges of grays).