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sister act   
9 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

you done in the past

I personaly have not done that in the past,

support them too to have their own economic independency from males.

Thats the plan, however I have to watch polish girls every day looking for a man to take care of them and still not understanding that they really do not need a man to take care of them.

economy recession hitting males, but, not females over there?

Of course the recession is hitting everyone, however I have NEVER come accross a gay polish princess.
sister act   
9 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

They still walk.Everyone wants the same things.

every one wants the same things, but most people go to work things for themselves not expect things to be handed to them on a plate,

You missed the russian revolution probably.

yes
sister act   
9 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

those polish girls who after money are following steps of western girls who walked on that same path in the past. repeating false long history.

maybe that is so, however that was in the past and now a days Ireland is very different place, Irish girls have lots of chances to get what they want for themselves and no longer rely on men to for clothes, money car or a roof over their heads. As I have said before I met my inlwas I never knew women Like the polish princess existed I hadn't come accross any girls like that.
sister act   
9 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

Hard times for polish girls

I am also seeing the same trend in Ireland, before the recession Irish males aged between 25 to 35 with good jobs, seemed to have a polish hottie an their arm, now not so much Irish males flashing the cash so I know many a polish girl here in dublin that dumped the Irish boyfriends cos he lost his job. Lose your high paying job = Lose your polish hottie.

When I asked the girls why did you dump him he seemed like a good man and took great care of you ? The answer I mainly got was he didn't respect me and he could't take care of me any more so now I am going to find a man that respects me. I am to understand the word respect means give her material things and money. One of the girls I spoke to is now dating a man in his 70s (in good shape) before her Irish boyfriend of 4 years was 32. This girls I am talking about is 25.
sister act   
6 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

They cannot follow long term plans with consistency.

So this is the polish princess Achilles' heel..
sister act   
6 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

polish girls tend to stay in mud.

From my experiences this is true, I don't understand how they manage to stay in the mud or in some cases get in even deeper.
sister act   
6 Nov 2009
Real Estate / 15 reasons why the Polish real estate market will crash soon [258]

What is the deal with polish estate agents I went in to a big estate agent company with huge reception, beautiful offices overlooking the city, I had money to buy and was interested in a property on their books, The estate agent was the most arrogant man I had ever come across he refused to let me do a viewing, but I persisted in insisting that I was interest in the end he snarled at me that he did a foreigner to buy it. It was a good deal and he wanted a polish person to have it I said yes but my husband is polish so it will also be owned by a pole anyway he practically threw me out of his offices.

So maybe its the coldness of some of the estate agents that might be harming the market
sister act   
6 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

My inlaws when they first seen dublin thought it was disney land and all their dreams would come true, they told lies to their families and the villagers about how rich they now were and boasted about there living conditions in Ireland for me going into Irelands 2nd year in recession all I know is that at last the lies have eased off no more boasting from the c*~ts.
sister act   
2 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

Or you can be slavicized and become a princess yourself.

Thats what my in laws want to do to me they want me to be like them dress like them an go shopping and be little girlie girls. It is like trying to sick a a square peg into a round hole .

Not a chance in hell of me becoming a princes. This is the problem I hate the Bull S#*t.
sister act   
2 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

Thanks for setting me straight. I realise now that I must just accpect my in laws game playing ways even if deep down in my bones I believe it is so wrong and confusing, hurtfull , and a waste of time. The only thing I have to figure out is how to live alongside th polish princess, and still be true to my beliefs which is to be open honest and direct.
sister act   
2 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

Anyway I forgive them as slavic,unstable

well your a very forgiving man.

How does a culture surive when this is how the women act, they also teach their children that it is ok to carry on like this. it carrys on form generation to generation. My mother in law is ten times worse than her daughters,
sister act   
2 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

I really have never come across game playing women in my life until I met my polish mother in law and sisters in law. Whenever I have reason to meet with my sisters in law I end up really confused as if I just got off a mental merry go round. I really believe that women like this make their life much more difficult than it has to be. Is life not easier if you are open direct and honest?

always say to her just tell me what you want straight away, no bloody riddles and silly tests.

I hear you, do you think that the polish women will grow out of this is it just a phase.

We men get burnt.

Well I am sorry to all the men that have been burned. It is not right.

I wouldn't mind that if she did not mention or revealed somehow or had the tact not to let sth like that be obvious

yep she even offerd me one of her cans.
sister act   
2 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

This is an insulting term.You mean I attract all the heavy lying?Or

forgive me I am the niave one when it comes to women like this, I did not mean to be insulting. It is just from your postings you come accros to me as an experinced man in the feild of polish women.

if you want to get burnt of course

I don't want to get burned any more by the polish princess.

I know a polish girl she had sex with a man so he would buy her a 6 pack of beer in dublin at a party I was at.
sister act   
2 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

This is defense.If they like you,they will omit they have a boyfriend even if they really have one.
I am talking here about manipulative lying with a goal,about mass organized lying supported by close friends if you understand the issue.

Explain this Phenomenon defence mechanism. What do you mean? The closest I have ever come to asking out polish women was when I sent my wedding invitations to my sisters in law. One week before the wedding they still hadn’t RSVP ed. So I rang them to find out If they were coming or not they said they were not coming as I hadn’t invited their uncle to the wedding ( I had never met the uncle). My response was ok that’s fine the wedding was limited to 60 guests and under no circumstances am I inviting the uncle. So I told them I will give their places in wedding bus and party to some friends I had really wanted at the wedding any way.

On the day of the wedding we had over 20 phone calls to our mobiles from the sisters, while waiting to go into the church a call came in form an Irish land line I thought it was something to with the wedding so I answered it and it turned out to be the uncle I never met, he was on the phone asking where the wedding bus was that he and the sisters were ready and waiting to be collected. I just told him it was too late for them to decide at 12pm on the day of the wedding that they wanted to come there was nothing I could do for them now...................It must of been very expensive for the sisters to fly in the uncle to Ireland at such short notice especially since I got married on new year’s eve.

So southern can this be classified as a polish girls defence mechanism, is it like if men ask a polish woman out to dinner and she says no but really she wants to go to dinner with the man. The polish woman is waiting for the man to ask her 3 or 4 times. Unless there is a payoff for them they will only say yes the first time if a man says something like I will buy you a pair of expensive shoes then we will go to dinner? Now I am sure a polish woman will not say no to that.

So were my sisters in law wanting me to prove to them that I really wanted them at my wedding and the real cost of me having them there would be to invite there favourite uncle. (Expensive shoes)
sister act   
2 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

you are boring with this,southern.

I think southern is far from boring, I would consider him an expert on this subject maybe even a guru.
sister act   
1 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

I total know what you mean and how the lying C*@ts can get under your skin. I have (polish) two sisters in law and a mother in law with these qualities. Every word that comes out of their mouths is a lie It started from the first day I meet each one of them just lies spilled out of their mouth and I just think to myself do they really think I am so stupid that I will fall for their lies. They were poorer than poor when they lived in Poland A whole family grandparents parents and 4 children sharing a one roomed cottage. When they landed in Dublin they became polish princess and even slagged me for shopping in Pennys as in their eyes it was below them. Only the best for them. It has been four years I have been putting up with the polish princess however this recessions seems to be the nail in the coffin for that bread of girls what do you think ?

There just isn’t the money any more is it the end of the polish princess Southern you seem
an expert on this type of women what ya think?
sister act   
26 Apr 2009
Life / I'm engaged to a girl from Poland. Moving to Poland from the US. [28]

dumb foreigner” or “stupid emigrant

Why do you sign on as a guest to insult people, I have never called anybody anything like that. Polish people stare at me when I am in poland, I never open my mouth so how would they know my level of polish, I have a polish surname and my grandparents are polish. The fact is i get glared at its rude just like your post.
sister act   
24 Apr 2009
Life / Question for British Ex-Pats in Krakow [18]

Just curious as to whether there is an established ex-pat community in Krakow, and if so, where do they meet?

There is also the international womens organisation in krakow, they meet every wed it think and have lots of things to do if your a woman
sister act   
24 Apr 2009
Love / My Polish dates mum is wanting to 'get me into the Polish tradition'? [25]

No most of the daughters boyfriends are not bother by this either, she looks great for her age. Yep i must be a prude not wanting my mother in law parading around in the nude in my place of business. Sure why don't i hook you up with all 3 of them.
sister act   
24 Apr 2009
History / MONSTERS AND DRAGONS OF POLAND...are there any...? [42]

That picture you posted looks very familiar......i am sure its my neighbour....

Nope its my mother in law, thats the wicked witch of noth east poland on her way to visit her evil daughters, they hunt down men (especially irish and english men) and bleed them dry please warn your tourist friends,
sister act   
22 Apr 2009
Love / Dating a Polish guy..acceptance in family? [45]

Would kinda like to have abit of relationship with the family

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And when I do something that is different it is always questioned by everyone (like why am I toasting the bread when its fresh?) to *shock horror*

I am married to a polish man for 4 years, I realised in the early days that if i was a saint she would not of approved of me no matter what i did she was never happy. so i haven't seen her in more than a year. I don't go to family functions when i know she will be there and i never invited her to any of mine. Like my wedding or childrens events, i just tell her i don't want any drama so she is not invited. Even after all that she still tries to cause trouble for us.
sister act   
10 Apr 2009
Life / I'm engaged to a girl from Poland. Moving to Poland from the US. [28]

I feel like I'm being glared at on the streets and busses, especially when people hear English. Actually I don't feel it, I see it. Is this a Polish thing, or just a city/Warsaw thing?

I hear you on the glaring thing, I have noticed that and its very annoying, what the hell are they staring at. I know that they must be thinking forigner..........
sister act   
9 Apr 2009
Love / New in Warsaw - can't find girlfriend. [12]

not easy to got girlfriend in warsaw and speak english. so pooring life :(

What are doing to find a girlfriend. My husband says you should join a dating agency in warsaw?
sister act   
8 Apr 2009
Life / 3 Things I LOVED about Poland [58]

3 Things I LOVED about Poland

so the 3 things i love about poland are

The baguettes in Olsztyn train station were are the bost amazing and tasty and longest ever, just what you need on a cold snowy winter day.

My house in the snow, my little house in poland is surrounded by a forest and a lake, I have never seen anything so beautifull, when there has been a snow fall, the snow on the trees, ice skating on the frozen lakes with my family and no one around only but the deer watching on.

I like the way polish people wait for the green light when crossing the roads, I know it seems a small thing but it really makes a difference this makes to the driver, driving in a polish city compared to dublin. Where drunken fools jump out in front of cars when driving throught dublin city at night.
sister act   
8 Apr 2009
Love / Advice from Polish Girls please :) [54]

I'm still utterly confused as to how polish people are

Why don't you just ask her, what are you afarid of, The next time your doing your shopping just ask her out.
If she says no then you know where you stand,
sister act   
4 Apr 2009
Love / Polish girls' obsession with marriage [124]

There is also the slavic concept of generosity.Unconditioned love,unconditioned expenses.

This concept is new to me kind of, I have not really experienced it, i need to know more to understand this.

'you have to be cruel to be kind'

Maybe the men use their money to control the women folk, well would it not be kinder to tell them to stand on their own two feet. If i look at my sisters in laws the are now 23 & 24, can't drive and need assistance from people to surrive daily life in Ireland.

There is also the slavic concept of generosity.Unconditioned love,unconditioned expenses.

I understand unconditional love in a family enviorment with young children, I believe you should help people less well off and people in vunerable positions, you should help the NEEDY NOT THE GREEDY. at some times in all our lives we will have to ask for help, when we were a baby and when we get old for certain, thats ok as long as we are not taking advantage asking for help when we really can do it for ourselves.I am fully aware that life is about giving and you get a great joy from giving, but we must be sure that we are giving to the right person
sister act   
4 Apr 2009
Love / Polish girls' obsession with marriage [124]

''Widzisz ani ty nie mozesz mi pomuc a ja chce kogos kto chce byc zemna i trochu pomocy.''

oh my god, if all the men in the countrys were girls behaved liked this just told them to f@~k off whats wrong with you? get a job i am not your daddy.

You are rich perhaps because you worked your ass off for it. Keep what you got and let others pave their way.

Why can't more girls adopt this attuide. if you can't take care of yourself don't expect others to, how can this be love between a man and a woman one person in the relationship on the take the whole time. Where is the respect? why do men contuine with this why why why,
sister act   
4 Apr 2009
Love / Polish girls' obsession with marriage [124]

this stuff makes me anrgy, why would a woman want a man too take care of her, I remember in the early weeks with my husband when, His polish friends dishing out advice him, telling him that he should buy me clothes to impress me and keep, he kept saying come on i will take you shopping, I found it insulting too me, it caused lots of fights, i was saying" whats wrong with my clothes, are you blind did you not see my bedroom all my wardrobes were bursting at the seams i had a clothes and shoe mountain taking up half the room, I kept telling him what do you think you are my dad? " I found this attuide to be very degrading. I just don't under stand the girls that think this is right to take from a man when she can get it for herself.