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My Polish dates mum is wanting to 'get me into the Polish tradition'?


Polishlover2009 3 | 10  
3 Apr 2009 /  #1
Ok so the guy I am dating told me yesterday his Mom wants to invite me over for Easter and 'get me into the Polish tradition.' Is this a good sign, meaning am I being considered as future girlfriend?!
Arlene  
3 Apr 2009 /  #2
Not really, she is checking on you and see what kind gal you are dating her son. If she like you, which mean you pass test. If she don't like you for her son, it may not work out.

I do hope all things work out for you and new boyfriend.

Good Luck.
Pomorzanka - | 28  
3 Apr 2009 /  #3
It is good sign. Every religious holiday is connected with family in polish tradition. If mom of your bf invited you it means already that she thinks about you in seriously way. And possible that your bf told her all good things about you and she is happy that her son is happy.
sueswalkies 2 | 32  
3 Apr 2009 /  #4
Ok so the guy I am dating told me yesterday his Mom wants to invite me over for Easter and 'get me into the Polish tradition.' Is this a good sign, meaning am I being considered as future girlfriend

Oh no if you go please stay in a hotel just until you know them better. My mother in law tried this buisness with me. I don't kow this woman buy i got the mother in law from hell.

Is he from a big city or avillage?
niejestemcapita 2 | 561  
3 Apr 2009 /  #5
'get me into the Polish tradition.

make sure you do the washing up....:}
sueswalkies 2 | 32  
3 Apr 2009 /  #6
Not really, she is checking on you and see what kind gal you are dating her son. If she like you, which mean you pass test. If she don't like you for her son, it may not work out.

I do hope all things work out for you and new boyfriend.

Good Luck.

This girl speaks the truth i failed her test big time, she didn't like my cloths cos they were not polish fashion she said.She said she didn't like my blonde hair and i should die it red. Oh of course she said i always wear to much make up ( I wasn't even wearing any)

If i was a saint she would of found a problem with me. Please be carefull
sister act 2 | 88  
4 Apr 2009 /  #7
Cmon cmon tell us more......what happened next?
Did u get done for car theft>?
Was it the end of a lovely relationship?
Jinkies, SisterActs whole post has disappeared!!
Oh she has been randomised

What happed my post it was true every word, What i found to be ture also in poland is the MONEY TALKS AND BUSHITS WALKS , No my boyfriend rang me and came by train to gdsank and collect the car I left money for petrol for the the dad, wink wink nudge nudge more of a bribe plus lots more bottles of vodka and this car business was never mentioned again.any way I kept telling my boyfriend that i had asked to use the car i just took his dads silence as a yes but i didn't mention he was fast alseep not until about a year later., We are married now but i try block the family out of my mind, There was an another event that happened in my home when the mother in law from hell came to vist me in dublin, I had to call the police and she was take away in the squad car it was really funny,
niejestemcapita 2 | 561  
4 Apr 2009 /  #8
There was an another event that happened in my home when the mother in law from hell came to vist me in dublin, I had to call the police and she was take away in the squad car it was really funny,

Wow its gettin really interesting now........!!...;)
sister act 2 | 88  
4 Apr 2009 /  #9
Ok i will just give you the pg version as my treads keep getting deleted for some reason.
Right i will just explain my house, i was left a B&B by my grandmother, its nothing fancy on the noth circular road in dublin, i live across from the hospital so there are manily family members of patients staying with me. So I had allowed the mother to stay given her the key and let her do her thing, the next morning while i was slaving away in for the breakfasts for a full house, an elderly gentleman came in and sat down for his breakfast and said oooooooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhh who are those hot chicks up stairs twoing and frowing form the bathrom with not a stich of cloths on, excusse me what did you say, yes upstairs in room 3 there is only one bathroom on the that floor and is shared between all the rooms, he said i have been waiting all morning. to use the bathroom. As the breakfast room began to fill up i said to other customers whats going on up stairs,on elderly lady repiled theres a woman in her birthday suit. Now at this stage i was really angry so i stormed up stairs and to my horror i seen it my dripping wet mother in law strolling from the bathroom to the bed roon with only a pair of knickers on. I said woman what the F@*k are you doing put some clothes on we don't need to be seeing your varacose veins. Oh yes from around the bedroom door appeared the two sister in laws, " i never gave you guys permission to be her what are you doing exposing your selfs to my guests we are just ahaving a shower they repiled. I said ok all of you get dressed and get out. Well with this my crazy and yes still naked mother in law sarted screaming went running and locked her self in the bahtroom, I was speaking english and one sister was translating. I turned to the sisters ans said well you will have to pay me for stay ing here in my b&B I charge 35 euros each, IF you agree to be gone in 5 min i won't charge you anything. The mother in law was shouting this is my sons house you can't tell me what to do my boyfriend at the time was already in work , his sisters were cursing at me. I just said did you have a nice sleep You 3 dirty GIRLS, GO home to your own place its just around the coner. After a few mins the sisters leftas the had to go to work that morning. I went back to serving breakfast. Thinking that my house was now a polish free house. After the breakfasts were done i went about getting the clean sheets ready on to clean the rooms, on my way upstairs i could hear cries and screams coming from the bathroom, Oh NO THE MOTHER IN LAW was still locked in the bathroom, I knocked and tried to be nice" come on now i am two busy for this messing plese get dressed and go dowstairs and let me on with my job of cleaning. she was shouting and sobbing saying things like " this is my sons house how dare you tell me what to do in my sons house" I just gave up and rang the police I have a crazy naked guest that has locked her self in my bathroom, with in min s the police were at my house , " were going to have to break the door down " Be my guest i said" The woman wasn't even allowed to get dressed the police just wrapped a sheet around her and brought her out to the car handcuffed. It was the last time she ever asked to stay in my house, she spent the whole day in mountjoy police station until one of the daughers picked her up after work,
niejestemcapita 2 | 561  
4 Apr 2009 /  #10
crazy naked guest

ha ha ha ha

she spent the whole day in mountjoy police station

You couldnt make it up!! Do you still speak to each other?
sister act 2 | 88  
4 Apr 2009 /  #11
You couldnt make it up!! Do you still speak?

No I didn't make it up some times i wish i did make it up, i cringe at what my daughter has for a grandmother. Believe it or not she still always inviteds me to family gahterings but sadly i am usually out of the country when there is somthing on. Y eah i have every name day and every other polish occaision you could think of in my calender and i make sure that my holidays concide with them. I haven't see her in a year thank god
niejestemcapita 2 | 561  
4 Apr 2009 /  #12
I haven't see her in a year thank god

She does sound .......eccentric...:)
sister act 2 | 88  
4 Apr 2009 /  #13
.......eccentric...:)

Yep she is putting it mildly. Hope you haven't got one like this
niejestemcapita 2 | 561  
4 Apr 2009 /  #14
Hope you haven't got one like this

Funny you say that, I used to have one that was convinced my house belonged to her son, but we get on fine these days, of course the shared vocabulary of about 50 words does help alot..:)
niejestemcapita 2 | 561  
4 Apr 2009 /  #16
ha ha ha .........definitely not thanks....:)
Arlene  
4 Apr 2009 /  #17
<<<This girl speaks the truth i failed her test big time, she didn't like my cloths cos they were not polish fashion she said.She said she didn't like my blonde hair and i should die it red. Oh of course she said i always wear to much make up ( I wasn't even wearing any)

If i was a saint she would of found a problem with me. Please be carefull>>>>

Yes, I have been there too. This guy was Scilian, his friends didn't like me because I was to old for him. They are from same town and they loves much younger women (25 yrs) he wanted me to dress like Spanish Girl like the ways they dress on Spanish program. Well his parents have passed away in 1990's. I had to dress my age and not wearing younger girl's clothes. It is problem when someone tell you what to wear, shoes, dresses and evening dresses, pajamas and so.

I got tired of this craps anyway. I don't longer date him.
OP Polishlover2009 3 | 10  
5 Apr 2009 /  #18
Haha ok well no this polish family does not live in Poland...all living here in England.

So I guess I should definately do the washing up as niejestemcapita stated, and I guess dress to impress?

I don't know his family that well yet however so feel a little uncomfortable bringing 'gifts' however I am fine bringing like a bottle of wine and maybe like a easter basket or something? I have no idea, any ideas?

I probably should ask him myself too...
southern 75 | 7,096  
22 Apr 2009 /  #19
from around the bedroom door appeared the two sister in laws,

I find these sisters in law quite tempting.Could you hook me up with them?
freebird 3 | 532  
22 Apr 2009 /  #20
Is this a good sign, meaning am I being considered as future girlfriend?!

S*it, probably more than just a gf :-)
southern 75 | 7,096  
22 Apr 2009 /  #21
seen it my dripping wet mother in law strolling from the bathroom to the bed roon with only a pair of knickers on. I said woman what the F@*k are you doing put some clothes on we don't need to be seeing your varacose veins. Oh yes from around the bedroom door appeared the two sister in laws, " i never gave you guys permission to be her what are you doing exposing your selfs to my guests we are just ahaving a shower they repiled.

My Polish dates mum is wanting to 'get me into the Polish tradition'?

I don't see anything bad with polish tradition.
sister act 2 | 88  
24 Apr 2009 /  #22
No most of the daughters boyfriends are not bother by this either, she looks great for her age. Yep i must be a prude not wanting my mother in law parading around in the nude in my place of business. Sure why don't i hook you up with all 3 of them.
pgtx 30 | 3,156  
24 Apr 2009 /  #23
most of the daughters boyfriends are not bother by this either

because most of the men don't care much about anything as long as there is food on a table...

;)
bullfrog 6 | 602  
25 Apr 2009 /  #24
... and sex in the bedroom ! (or food in the bedroom and sex on the table..)
Pani_Polska - | 89  
27 Apr 2009 /  #25
she didn't like my cloths cos they were not polish fashion she said.She said she didn't like my blonde hair and i should die it red. Oh of course she said i always wear to much make up ( I wasn't even wearing any)

Sounds like almost every Polish mother I know! They are never satisfied :P

I don't kow this woman buy i got the mother in law from hell.

You and me both!

If i was a saint she would of found a problem with me. Please be carefull

That is true as well!

she spent the whole day in mountjoy police station until one of the daughers picked her up after work,

You cant make that up! I've heard the "this is my son's house" before when I am the one paying for the house!!!

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