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Polish guy broke this black womans heart, now he wants me back....what do I do?? [27]
From the information that you have provided, you have made the right decision. I appreciate that it is very difficult (near impossible at times) to be objective with affairs of the heart. Take a long hard look at the catalogue of issues you have raised, they are certainly not building blocks for a relationship. You were obviously good for him in many respects, economically more than anything else. It is evident that he does not have a better offer, as if he did, you would be history, or he could just be greedy and try to bleed you some more.
The truth is painful to face, and I am sure you will find a dozen reasons for each one you have received why you should probably give him yet another chance. What you need is to distance yourself from this man; you need time to think clearly. You will not be able to do this if you maintain contact; your emotions are just too sensitive right now, making it difficult for you to think objectively.
I am one hundred percent sure that you would like a man who treats you with respect, acts as an equal, demonstrates his loyalty, honesty, trustworthiness……the list could go on!
You know what to do………life is really too short to waste on people who are not worth while……….think about it, 2, 3, 5, 10 years down the line, what would it be like? The same stop start………there are loads of men our there, and I do know that it is not easy to find the right fit, however, the choice is firmly in your hands as to what you accept, and ultimately end up with.
Best of luck
