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Patrycja19   
24 Dec 2006
Life / Kissing below the Mistletoe [17]

I concieved both of mine girls in the winter, I was friggin freezing. lol
Patrycja19   
24 Dec 2006
Real Estate / Poland Property...should I be scared [127]

I know you didnt just say that! cause you are in a dream world if you did.
and as for money, again i say, what she took from you dont include the
whole population in on that, as for greed, maybe you should look again at
how you handled things as well, possibly there was some flaws that you
need to fix in order to stop from getting hurt?

Manser, or Paul, can I all you Paul?

eventually someone will come along, and you will forget that you even knew
that person. and the next one might be Polish too, but is truely in love with you.
so try at least give respect where it is deserved. we all can disagree with each
other, but insulting that is not your style is it?
Patrycja19   
24 Dec 2006
UK, Ireland / We welcome Polish people to Britain! [224]

ok Paul, hope your Christmas is much better, as for bashing the poles, they are
not stupid, they are hard workers, your bitter, so I dont take anything you post
literally, anyway, do what you need to do.

Welsh, your being more of a dad then a target seeker. not a bad thing, but he has
a bad insight on life now since she is still trying to contact him, I dont think she
understands you, or you do her.

Friends can be there, and they can also be to overbearing, I listen to myself, I
dont take advice from my Friends (when I was in a relationship) in my 20s.

they dont know
what you do, what she does. they assume, so when you listen, it becomes worse
then it really is, how would they know her, or anything else, unless you have a
24 hour spy watching.

next time, tell your friends they are there to listen, if they truely are your friend,
and not tell you how to live your relationships. that is a true friend. offering
their ears . as for you and her, well, let me point out, that there are many on
here who know me, but we are all from different places, and communication
and just posting on here, people can get wrong impressions just because they
dont understand where your coming from, humor, serious topics etc, so yes
if you both are from different countries, it takes time to know someone and
know how to communicate without feeling frustrated.

so, I think you calling her stupid was your own selfish anger.

MY motto, It is better to say you have loved then to never have loved at all!

now buckle up and fly strait. :)

Oh Yeah, Merry Christmas. I have to get back to my Cooking!
Patrycja19   
24 Dec 2006
Life / Kissing below the Mistletoe [17]

Were you doing your 'conceiving' in a tent or a canoe- LOL.

LOL , no, but that isnt a bad idea lol

usually by the time we get back from the long trip, we are pretty much
to exhausted to find the energy to even move lol.

both my girls were conceived in November, both born in August.

something about November :) lol
Patrycja19   
25 Dec 2006
Life / Black people in Poland [357]

agree. same happened in our family. MY parents knew Polish, and would only
talk it when they had a secret going on. but both learned it growing up in
catholic schools, and parents, when my siblings and I went to public schools
and this is not taught there. nor did they teach us.
Patrycja19   
25 Dec 2006
Life / Black people in Poland [357]

I had heard from other family members that when they came, because of all
the war, fighting that they just wanted new lives, and to forget what happened
and I can understand that to a point (forgetting the bad) but not what your
culture stands for. I guess it all goes hand in hand.

One of our Uncles came here, to avoid getting drafted , but they caught up with
him through his father and was going to jail him ( his father) if he didnt return.
He had to write a letter to the govt stating that he had stole money from him
in order for them to not jail him. And the truth was he just left Poland on a whim
with his friends to come here, they all boarded a boat and that was it. None of his
friends or him wanted to be a part of any war. this was in 1905.
Patrycja19   
27 Dec 2006
UK, Ireland / We welcome Polish people to Britain! [224]

It's nice to care, but when somebody is playing the "look at me, I'm so miserable, please comfort me and give me a big hug mommy" card it really gets on my nerves. Especially if the person talks crap about other people in order to get this attention.

I agree to a point, and you know, there is alot of people out there who have
alot of anger, depression. were in a forum, so we cant take a look into his
eyes and say , yeah, this guy is really hurtin. were judging by his typing.

yes he said some mean stuff, but he is still growing, 20 years old , he hasnt
had to many relationships to learn that Hurt goes along with them.

especially if this was his first true love. you can like many, but there is only one!

anyway, I probably make no sense.

Manser, just try to come out of that " I hate" mode, because it will eat you up!

you'll end up hurting someone you should really give a chance to, and that starts
a whole viscious process. Like I said, its better to say I have loved then to never
loved at all.

Someone nice will come along and you will find your heart again.

and yes People. at times I am to soft hearted, but its Christmas and I dont
feel like being mean or stubborn! lol

Come ON Group HUG!!!! (((((((((((((((((( EVERYONE)))))))))))))))))))))))))!!
Patrycja19   
27 Dec 2006
UK, Ireland / We welcome Polish people to Britain! [224]

Mrs P you can be too nice at times, for me he was an attention seeking little pr*ck who thinks that because his x treated him badly, all Polish are the same and this is just simply not true, you know my feelings on people airing their dirty washing in public....its just simply not cricket! - english expression - meaning - its just not the done thing.....somethings should be kept between you and the other person...and not plastered all over the web...there are however two sides, she's probably just got on with things...

A He admitted it, and said he took it back, I plastered his dirty wash on the net
he was saying some really stupid stuff, but all out of anger, he is only 20 years old
probably was his first real love, we dont know his whole story, or hers, Im not
picking sides, was just trying to get him back to his real self, anger can make
you say things you dont mean. hes beginning life, and yes there can be Women
who do treat you good at first then start changing, but still expect to be handed
freebies, and then when the freebies stop, they start actually calling and saying
whats up?? <~that is an example, not saying that is what she did, but it happens
and it happens alot in all cultures. just like men can do this to woman. its not
a culture thing actually, but he did pick out the facts that she was polish, so he
did say (generalizing) some really stupid crap, I wont deny he didnt, but

what kind of people are we if we all jump down his throat and not let him heal.
yes he told on the other forum, then I brought it here because I figured it was
anger, and it is. he identified with Arien on some of the things he posted. so
maybe things will change for him, he can get some type of insight on how to deal
with what he is feeling, I know at age 20 I would continue on with things because
I didnt understand them, why did he do this, what made him do that?
then get angry and (generalize) ok, so all men are scum, but I said it out of anger
and People do this.

can anyone say with truth that you never have generalized about a woman
saying " I hate women all they do is take your money and run?" or dont get
married all women are money hungry?

or for women, we say, men only want one thing?

if anyone never has said this, wow, you are one of a kind, because I hear it in
alot of conversation, and when it happens to us, we say it.

I probably am to nice, I have been told this, but I do watch my own back, and
try to watch others as i go along, its a time healing thing. he will find someone
else who he really likes, and or she will adore him, they will click, and end of
story.

sorry if no one agrees with this, ya know, hes probably alone ( no girl) and every
one deep down wishes to have someone special in their lives at this time of year

I just think and try to be fair , and I could tell from posts it was anger, he didnt
just come in and start posting bad things, so , from that observation I could tell.

and No I am not Dr Phils sidekick, but, I try to see the good in people as well.

NO Stones Please, I have worked to much overtime this week and cant
throw any back :) lol.

I plastered his dirty wash on the net

oops to calrify that, I was the one who brought this up about his GF because of
his angry posts and the fact that I knew it was anger.

so he was not looking for sympathy here, it was on another forum.
Patrycja19   
28 Dec 2006
Love / Are you in a Polish-nonPolish relationship? [150]

I'm of Tatarian Ancenstry. My clan was Almak-han, which later got changed to Almakiewicz.

Krysia, how in the heck did you find out all that?

oops, wanted to say, I cant even get past half of some of my ancestry, but
anyway, that is pretty amazing what all you know about your family.
Patrycja19   
28 Dec 2006
Language / need help to spell a name of a famous Polish singer.... [120]

Boy, talking about hi-jacking a post! This one would probably win!!

WOW, you are not kidding!

Nothing like the pull you in read to the bottom kind of post, sorry for being
nosey Shewolf, but dang!!

I felt like i was in a room full of candles watching these two , need some
Peote so I can have visions too lol........ (kidding).

oops, crap. didnt mean watching you two, how bout I just go away
cause that sounded bad, lol now I have actually inserted my foot into my
mouth, goodnight !!! lol I am out.

I am sure there will be some razzin on this one.
Patrycja19   
28 Dec 2006
Life / Are Polish People Racist? [1037]

Let me tell you all before we go any further with this thread.

when I am pissed at someone, I dont know their race, if they cut me off when
I am driving, I dont say hey you F**k*N Irish bas***d or listen here you
stupid F**KTard Brit.

I dont use Nationality at all, I dont know what they are when I am yelling
Profanity if someone crosses me wrong, all i know is they pissed me off enough
to make me wanna kick their Arse, but because I am driving, or not in a position to
Kick their arse, I yell the Profanity and get all riled up for nothing, but ya know
I dont think anyone knows what nationality someone is until they start yelling back.

as for everyday life, I dont have time to sit and berate someone when I have too
much to do , what kind of person has that kind of time? what kind of person would
sit and make racial comments constantly just for jollies?

I tell ya who, a F**ken Idiot is who. a person who is probably the lowest life form
there is .

Anyway, yes this thread is getting old, Polish People dont make anymore racial
comments then the rest of the world.
Patrycja19   
2 Jan 2007
Love / Racism and Religion in Polish relationships [209]

I thought blood is red, but maybe i'm not a real white person...

it is when it hits air, but actually its blue inside the body, kinda like martians. lol
Patrycja19   
2 Jan 2007
Love / Can anyone help with my brokenheart???? [67]

Griff, usually when a girl or guy says I need space , they are saying nicely, I dont
feel the same as you. I dont like to put it so plainly, but space means leave me
alone.

you sound like a well put together man, your heart is in the right place, dont let
this ruin you for the next "right girl" who will love you for what you are and who
you are. sometimes people are not meant to be. if it is only one sided, then you
have to do whats right.

you know that saying "if you love something, let it go, if it comes back to you, it
was meant to be.

in this type of situation, what I would do if it was me, I would call or text and
tell her you just want to be friends. dont say anymore, just say, Now I need my
space and I just only really want to be friends if that is ok.

she will wonder whats going on, because she knows you are available and willing
but if you do a 360 on her, she will wonder why? maybe she wont. but I think she
is keeping you hangin around in case things dont work out with whatever she is
doing now. To me, her not talking with you while she was out with other friends
is a signal that she is keeping you hangin.
Patrycja19   
2 Jan 2007
Love / Racism and Religion in Polish relationships [209]

That is exactly what i am trying to prevent from happening.

u are a little to late to prevent anyone from having sex. like it or not
if someone likes someone, and they have kids , ya have no say in it.

Culture is something that people follow. traditions, and if someone is polish and
very close to their culture, they will teach this and keep the culture going within
their family. Religion will always be a seperate thing. if someone is catholic and
islamic, they dont become cath-lamic. they either choose islam or catholic.

so your point of a coffee colored world is wrong, there will always be seperate
religions, cancer happens because we are all born with it and although genetics
plays a part in ones family "my mother full polish and died from lymphoma"
and wasnt a mixed pole with other nationalities, its called triggers that make
the cancer active. smoke, environment, asbestos etc. many factors play a key
role in cancer.

you are definately jaded.

cancer in my family of ALL POLISH. starting with my grandmother :stomach cancer
mother : lymphoma, Grandfather Pancreatic, cousins two to be precise also
on same side Pancreatic cancer. all Polish. no mixed blood.
ANOTHER COUSIN- SKIN CANCER . ANOTHER COUSIN BREAST CANCER.

so your theory is just that, a theory with no facts to back it up.
Patrycja19   
6 Jan 2007
Genealogy / Research in SE Poland [56]

Hi,

Yes, that's what I would like. I thought of writing to the parish in Lubno, but I read about people who receive no responses from the parishes. I'm hoping a Polish/Ukrainian relative sees this message.

dont believe that no response thing, it might take them longer to find it, what you
need as far as a strait line , but you will get it. just make sure you send enough
to cover expense, I can tell you privately if you email me, what is good amount.

remember, it costs more at their banks just to cash money orders. and the
American dollar is worth less compared to Zloty. Patty

Koach,

You seem to have everything there. Do you want tips on how to take the family tree back further ?

Wroclaw, your very helpful as well, I like your style. very imformative.
I know I have a time my self searching. but what I do know, I do share.

one of my friends husbands family was piece of cake to find records all the way
back to 1600's. most of the documents were here. so she had luck with his
but not hers. which is a big problem with Polish roots as many dont know
which direction to go once they get back to the immigration part.
Patrycja19   
7 Jan 2007
Love / Some expert in polish women can tell me what happened here? [37]

"I want to make sure this is love, and not just passion"...

Believe me, what she did, most of the time, females end up regretting.

she knew and was afraid of your Love, sometimes, when ya think you have
no corner to get out of, the only solution is to stop it altogether.

Or, it could be, she felt like you both were like best friends, and you can have
male best friends where you share alot. she felt close to you but maybe not
in that sexual way. what ever the reasons were, she should have stepped
up to the plate and at least gave an explaniation of why. so you could have
moved on sooner instead of sitting and wondering.

well thats my two cents. Patty
Patrycja19   
11 Jan 2007
Life / Black people in Poland [357]

I hate skinheads, what even possesses them ?? it baffels me.

when I see them on tv screaming white supremeacy <~I lose it!!

because their plans go beyond just keeping it all white. and I cant stand people
who think they are the supreme beings!

Life in itself is Supreme. no matta the color.

a Polish Skinhead

Ranj, this is true about small brains for Polish skinhead.<~still baffled on that.
after all the history, knowing what happened. how could anyone even
want to be a part of that ? what they stand for?

anyone who can harm another human being over their color has no brains.

this issue came up on my dads side of the family. needless to say, I dont include
him as part of the family, due to his stupidity.

I never met him. nor would I ever.
Patrycja19   
11 Jan 2007
UK, Ireland / No more double taxation for Poles working in the UK [6]

Polish President Lech KaczyƄski has signed a law ending double taxation for Poles working in Britain.
So far, workers returning to Poland had to pay Polish tax in addition to the tax already paid in Britain. The issue has been a problem for many Poles working in Britain who saw it as discouraging them from returning home. They have been lobbying for a tax change for a long time now.

The agreement was made between Polish and British finance ministries in July. British parliament will vote on the tax change in April.



I just seen this. wow. good news for polish workers.

good job fighting it!! even if it took long time. good for them, they deserve this.
There are currently hundreds of thousand of Poles living and working in Britain.

Ps. I know this is old news. so anyway, again, I say, good job!!

hey I will say it again, good job!! good Jobbbbbbbbbbb..
good job good job good job.

Yes, I am feeling a bit goofy today, have to go to work soon, last day then I am
off for 1 day. I think I should put a tent up at work, Im there so much.

this post is going back to the top.

isnt anyone happy?:(
Patrycja19   
11 Jan 2007
UK, Ireland / No more double taxation for Poles working in the UK [6]

its a shame you cant claim back all the tax you have paid twice though

I didnt pay double taxes, course where I live uncle sam gets a good portion of
mine, I dispise him!! lol

I was happy for Poland. its not fair anyone from any country should pay twice on
same paycheck. what would you have left after bustin your bootie ?

anyway, I think its good thing. some good positive Poland news :) for a change.

It seems few Poles paid double taxes anyway - they figured out how to avoid that even under the old law..

I dont blame them, thats the govts robbing the working class. dont you agree?

how many taxes you think they should pay? ten? twenty?

how bout they work for free?

comon, dont sound so depressed over it. this could have been your shoes and
how would you feel if they taxed you in another country? the govts need to find
other ways to collect money besides taking from the working class. there are
other ways. my thoughts are that businesses should be, because they do cheat
alot. "dont anyone say they dont" there isnt a honest business unless they are
privately owned, and some of those even are shady.
Patrycja19   
11 Jan 2007
Life / Black people in Poland [357]

White culture is worth preserving

life is worth preserving.
Patrycja19   
11 Jan 2007
Life / Black people in Poland [357]

The way I see it. if someone is brought up a certain way, and they prefer their own
whether it be polish, arab, irish, etc. that is fine. but if someone says to me, hey
we want to preserve White people. ok, so do it.

what they heck are they going to do? you have billions of people all around the world
how in the heck is the white race going to die?

were not endangered species. and you cant implant every woman with a diaphram
to stop her from having kids.

if a person of polish culture wants a polish man or woman, that is good. same for
arab, african, etc. people will be people. they find attraction in another culture
its unstoppable. and sometimes, telling someone only makes it worse. you tell
a whole bunch of teens to not date people who are of different color. see what
response you get.

I like men with red hair, more burly, and doesnt have to be my culture.
so my husband has red hair, tall, burly. that was what I was attracted to.

whats his nationality. Arabic, Irish, and German. guess what, his grandpa is
full arabic. , and he looks like me. regular, fair skinned, and just a all around
nice guy. my husband has really fair skin, cant go in sun without getting scorched!

the theory of carmel color people is way off. someone needs to stop drawing
cartoons.
Patrycja19   
11 Jan 2007
Life / Black people in Poland [357]

What the hell does that mean? I am not talking about killing anyone. We want to preserve the white race. This does not mean destroying other races.

are you joking, people are attacking people over their race. where you been
locked up?

skinheads for one. so when I hear we want to preserve the white race
that sounds to much like supremists.

I hate supremists. so anyway, what is your point?

keep olga away from rashid? lock up the key and or what?

Im just trying to find justifcation in people saying how they will convince the
world that the white race is turning brown. its been going on for years interracial
marriages. thats why I say, what is your plans? because I find it a bit whacko.
Patrycja19   
11 Jan 2007
Life / Black people in Poland [357]

Don't be so stupid.

oh please shut up. calling us stupid when your on here trying to convince
people.

A , your probably right. I agree. and sometimes it gets out of hand like this.
Patrycja19   
11 Jan 2007
Life / Black people in Poland [357]

But how do we differentiate?

you know, when I was dating, or meeting people, I could generally tell by the
way he carried himself (men who approached me) if he was a jerk or a kinda
nice jerk, or honestly wanting to talk.

its good to have voice.
Patrycja19   
11 Jan 2007
Life / Black people in Poland [357]

We will have you stand at the border and let people into Poland based on whether you think they are jerks or not.

thats good that you can laugh, after all, I thought people with closed minds
didnt know how to laugh.

maybe you can build a box, I will stand guard for you so no one from any
other races will get you ok!! BOO!

lol hahahahaahhahahahahaha
Patrycja19   
11 Jan 2007
Life / Black people in Poland [357]

Me too. You can tell who's nice and who's not.

ok, take over , you got this one, I have to go to work now, I hate to leave
in the middle of this. good call on the posts.

maybe interesting found the light? lol

have good one. P
Patrycja19   
11 Jan 2007
Genealogy / Research in SE Poland [56]

Koach, no they dont do it that way. it would be like a offering to the church. so
you would pick what you thought. "agreeable" amount but, did you let them know
what you wanted in terms of records?

sorry it took me so long to get back today, I was at work. :)

Koach, become a member, so you can email me. or me you.
Patrycja19   
12 Jan 2007
Life / Black people in Poland [357]

There was not one piece of Logic in that statment. Do you want Warsaw to be Malmo?

there wasnt supposed to be logic, I was telling jose to take over, I was going to
work.

then I said "maybe Interesting found the light"! <~you picked that name, if it
dont make sense to you, why did ya pick it then?

as for saying do you want warsaw to be malmo.

I dont live in Poland, hearing some of the comments on here about black
people makes me sick.

no one who has any kind of decent upbringing knows better then to come on
a forum, or say it in public that they should stick with White folks.

If I heard that in public, I would speak up and tell them to shut the F*ck up.
respect goes along with knowing what to say out loud and common courtsey
for others. I dont care if your personal choice is white, black ,beige, green , or red.
I dont care to hear about it. as I wont tell you my personal choice in whom I will
have children with. what your taught inside the home , should stay inside the
home as far as preference. racism wont stop, if people dont stop it!