Love / Men attitude towards women in the Polish culture [82]

Wow!!!

What a topic!!!!. I see I'm not the only one. I met a Pole a month ago or so. since the day I met him, he always had a nice compliment for me. He ask me to go out and we did.

That day, we were talking about something, I don't remember what; and all of the sudden , while I was talking he said "I really like your eyes", I felt embarrased maybe because It's been a long time since the last time I dated someone and it's been also a while nobody tells me a compliment; it's been just a year since I got divorced from my previous partner and it's actually the first time I date someone after that.

I honestly don't know what to expect, but I noticed he likes to be toooo nice to women; I don't want to seem like I'm possesive, but after a divorce...... I don't know what to expect, I don't know if it's just the way Poles are or it's him, that wants to show his "Don Juan men side" to every women.

Love / Men attitude towards women in the Polish culture [82]

I don't know what to think about this Pole guy. For some reason, I feel he is so sex oriented, whatever I said he turns it into a sexual thing; Come on!, we've been out just once and everything I say he turns it into a sexual comment. And then all of the sudden he has a kind of nice cute compliment. I just don't get what he really wants sex or sweetness.

Also I want to ask something else: Don't Polish people like Jewish? , I don't find that nice at all, but he said aaaaaall Polish still having a kind of conflict with Jewish, come on! , we are in 2007!!!!, and ultimately, shouldn't it be the opposite?

Love / Men attitude towards women in the Polish culture [82]

You have very little tolerance for this, well I have none!!!!. I agree, you are right, it's more about personality than a cultural thing.

I'll see how things go, we've just started dating anyways.

Love / How to get to know a polish guy better? [102]

I've just read the whole story. Obviously I didn't like the end of it; But I really recognize that liii was very brave to get to know the truth and what he really thinks by been so straightforward, maybe I wouldn't have the guts.

After all, this experience brought you the opportunity to overcome your shyness instead of being intrigued for who knows how long more.

Don't worry, I'm sure there's someone else around the corner, and the good thing is that next time you won't be waiting this long to know his real feelings towards you, so you will have the decision to stay or to move on without wasting your time.

Something else liii: Give the other guy the opportunity to get to know you, I think a sincere friendship doesn't harm anyone. I had a similar situation long ago and you can't imagine how I regret now not giving the opportunity to a nice guy just because I didn't find him interesting and a little "nerdish" at that time.

Sometimes we are so obsessed with someone (that it's not always the best afterall) that we don't see all the good around us.

Love / How to get to know a polish guy better? [102]

Hey girls!!!, sorry but English is not my first language; what is "alpha female" and "tiptoe about subjects" (is this the same as beat around the bush?)

Love / When a man first holds out a hand to a woman - is it polite? [24]

why is that considered rude?

Love / Men attitude towards women in the Polish culture [82]

There is no way you should keep doing that any longer!!!!. Paying even for his laptop!!!!.

I started dating a Polish guy not long ago, we've been out 3 or 4 times; he pays for everything when we go out. He is also a doctor back in Poland but unfortunately here in Canada he's trying to get into the field. I would never do what you are doing, to me sounds like he is using you.

Love / How to get to know a polish guy better? [102]


Was this from the nerdy or from the Polish?

if it was from the nerdy, it's always nice to have someone who likes you so much, take him as a friend, you never know what's gonna happen in the future; just give him a chance.


HAPPY BIRTHDAY liiii