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Blingin   
13 Mar 2007
Love / POLISH GUY AND BLACK GIRL! [52]

i am a black girl from england, funny country but anyway, i have a polish boyfriend. he is the sweetest guy i have ever met. he is loving, kind, sexy, very handsome, good at cooking and everything. he is what i have been praying for. he has now met my mom and bros. i have met his sister and will be going to poland to meet his parents. i am excited. and yes, we have recieved lots of racism here in th UK. will i recieve it more in Poland? what do Polish parents expect a daughter-in-law to be. what do i bring? is there any traditional polish things i should know? help!!!!!!!!!
Blingin   
17 Mar 2007
Love / POLISH GUY AND BLACK GIRL! [52]

im not sure where? thy live in poland but im not sure what city. i will find out. thanx for replying.

i guess i should. thanx for that!
Blingin   
17 Mar 2007
Love / Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers [103]

my bf is of course polish. he told me his dad used to beat his mom, but hasnt for ten years now. now the other night, we had weed together and i started laughing and acting silly, but my bf didnt like it and started to punch me.

i am still with him as he said he wouldnt do it again and that it was beacuse of he weed.

he said before he would never hit me and he did. its weird because i love him and he loves me. did i do the right thing by sticking by him, cuz he is gunna get help?

the real question. do most polish men have bad tempers, also towards women?
Blingin   
17 Mar 2007
Love / Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers [103]

that is so true. and i know that its not just polish guys who are violent but the thing is, in the beggining, he was polite, kissed my hand, opened doors and all that and treated me like a real lady.

at first i thought he was trying to suffocate me, but he just put the pillow over my head and punched, 3rd time was the hardest. i was so shocked i cried, and then he hugged me saying sorry.

he sais he is sorry. he is the first man to treat me so nice though.

should i stick with him to make him seek help for his anger and violent outbursts?
Blingin   
17 Mar 2007
Love / Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers [103]

Didn't you feel like beating the hell out of him?

remember. i was stoned first time in my life. i was weak, my mouth was dry, i was slow at reactions. it really hurt. i wanted to, but i would never hit a person, its wrong. not even a guy.

am i weak? i am so confused.
Blingin   
17 Mar 2007
Love / Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers [103]

what i will do is he is coming o my house tomorrow and i will talk to him. he said to me he is going to tell his mom what he did. i mean, thats a start.

if i did hit him, then, i would have to leave him, because i know i could kill him!
Blingin   
17 Mar 2007
Love / Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers [103]

you are worth more than that

you are amazing for saying that. you dont Even know me and you think that i am worth more. thankyou.

i am still abit confused, but i dont wanna live in fear or regret. hes even said i deserve someone better.

thanx huegel X
Blingin   
17 Mar 2007
Love / Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers [103]

she put up with it herself. Will she think it's a big deal?

THAT IS SO TRUE. i didnt think of it like that. im f***ed either way. i stay with a guy that hits women for joke, or i lose the only guy that treated me the best.

oh well. btw, not feeling sorry for myself
Blingin   
17 Mar 2007
Love / Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers [103]

if one day i do this to a woman i will kill myself becouse this is ugly bad and horrible

will i trust again? i swear. he said he would never ever hurt me or hit me in the beggining of the relationship, and he did.

now, a guy that sais that, could be lying. i say never say never. btw, not calling you a liar:)

The guy you love hit you

im upset now because i know what hes like. iv seen his true colours. how could he do this.
Blingin   
17 Mar 2007
Love / Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers [103]

they will send him to jail if you call the police

i said i wanted to call the police, and he tried to turn it around on me saying that, its gunna look like its my fault because i smoked the weed and i provoked him. so wat if i did. thats no excuse. life is so weird.

the love not let you do what you have to do

sorry? i dont quite understand? do you mean, i should do what i feel is right despite my love for him?
Blingin   
17 Mar 2007
Love / Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers [103]

first time you feel sorry, second time also sorry,but them i just dont care anymore .

i understand. if i let him get away with it. its gunna be the same circle over and over again.

im going to be single again. i will miss him, but i cant be with a guy that used his fist at me and tried to strangle me.

in a way, i think he enjoyed it. probably made him feel powerful and in charge.
Blingin   
17 Mar 2007
Love / Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers [103]

you are in love at the end

no, no, no! i am not inlove. i just love him. well LOVED him before h changed into this FREAK BEAST!

i wont stay because of that. i wanna be happy. it may take some time to leave, cuz right now, i dont want to be alone.

i dont know actually. im talking sh**

he wil be in prision soon

back in poland, he was in a gang, and one day he stabbed a guy in the stomach, he didnt die, but he got caught and went to prison for one month (his words 28 days).

so he has a criminal record i guess. oh sh**, i am so stupid, i should have read the signs before getting invovled with him. he has violent writtEn all over him.

he even hits his sister, but stops when she cries, but because i didnt cry at first, he said he just carries on untill.

he is fu**ed up in the head. HE NEEDS HELP SH**. SORRY FOR SWEARING. IVE JUST REALISED THATS ALL.
Blingin   
23 Apr 2007
Travel / How much złoty would be enough to last 3 weeks in Poland? [25]

Today, 19:55 - Attached on merging:
going poland for 1 week.

how much pounds would i need to take foR exchange into polish money? i will be staying with my boyfriends parents, but i want money for clothes, fast food, luxuries, gifts and more clothes. Im going in a couple of weeks. any help would be appreciated. thanx XXXX

Today, 23:20 - Attached on merging:
1 week in poland........HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

how much pounds would i need to take foR exchange into polish money? i will be staying with my boyfriends parents, but i want money for clothes, fast food, luxuries, gifts and more clothes. Im going in a couple of weeks. any help would be appreciated. thanx XXXX
Blingin   
23 Apr 2007
Love / Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers [103]

thankyou all for your messages. he has again hit me since this post, but i hit him back, i kicked him in the face. he hasnt hit me since, and where getting on much better. only time will tell how it'll turn out. i trust my instincts and it sais give him a chance. but if he did it agian, we would both leave the relationship as it would be an abusive one. he doesnt want to hit me, and i dont want to hit him. mayb the ONE for me is in the USA, who knows. please reply XXXX
Blingin   
23 Apr 2007
Love / Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers [103]

why are you with him?

Actually, scratch that. everyones right, i have no self esteem, im stupid and dont want to be lonely. i cant and wont find a good guy here. thats why im with him. i know there is someone in the USA, but im in stupid UK. im with him for the wrong reasons, but im just weak. no-one is going to help me become stronger. but forget the abuse, he is a decent guy.

Hopefully you've bought some shares in Ibuprofen. Just so you can make a bit of money whilst you're waiting for the road to Damascus moment.

was that sarcasm, cuz i dont understand that joke.
Blingin   
23 Apr 2007
Love / Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers [103]

but forget the abuse, he is a decent guy.

what i meant was, if you take away his bad behaviour, he is not so bad

just curious

huh? tell me what you wanna say, please
Blingin   
23 Apr 2007
Love / Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers [103]

Anyone else suddenly feel like they're on Trisha

your making fun of me arent you? yeah, when you feel like nobody wants you and you dont feel like theres away out because no -one opens there arms to you, you would kind of understand. its not easy. you dont get it, i feel like this is it.
Blingin   
3 Dec 2007
Love / how can i get him to fall in love with me again? [43]

me and my polish boyfriend have been together for nearly a year now, at first he was so nice, caring, wonderful and commited, and at one time he used to love me before i loved him.

now, months down the line, he says i call him too much, want to see him too much, and that he cant breathe, i mean, i love the damn guy, i just want to care for him and be with him all the time, hes my man, but he doesnt show me that side he had anymore, was it real?

hes sweet sometimes but he doesnt understand me, he thinks hes right all the time, and he treats me cruel like im a piece of dirt. i love him but i cant take anymore of him treating me like im his stalker, he says he wants me to give him space. what have i done wrong?

how do i get him to feel the same way i do, any tricks, what makes a man fall in love with you, truly, madly and deeply, thats what i want. no magic rubbish, i mean things like making him miss me more, buying gifts, stuff like that. HELP!!!!!!!!
Blingin   
3 Dec 2007
Feedback / how can i log out??? [19]

how do you sign out?

i dont know how to sign out of this site

Click "Profile" top left and it will give you the option of "logout" :)
Blingin   
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

hey guys remember me. yes, the one who didnt listen to your advice. well now im paying for it. i made up a fake profile online and i sent him messages, and i asked him if he was single. he replied "yes im single". then he sent her a comment saying "beautiful eyes" twice. i sent him back a message asking why this girl (me) has sent you messages saying she loves you. he said "yes im sure im single, shes just a friend". i sent him back saying do you want to meet, he said "jan 3rd between 8am -5pm.

i was of course crying, how could he do this to me. he lied saying he was in the shower when in fact he was speaking to the girl i made up.

he doesnt know i know. hes away at the moment and will be back sunday, tell me, what should i do. how do i handle this? i want payback, i want revenge, but yet i want to know why, im not ugly, i love him, ive never cheated on him, i wanted to marry and breed with him one day. so why did he turn out to cheat on me?
Blingin   
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

The guy is still in his adventure phase, and you may just be one of his short stops.

weve been together 1 yr. weve met eachothers parents, ive gone poland and stayed with them for a week. how could he throw it all away? i used to think he would never cheat, i am such a big fool to believe this 21yr old is ready for a commited relationship. im 19yrs and im ready. i gave him so many chances to leave and sow wild oats, but he insisted i am meant for him and wed be together and last.

even worse, i have to pretend i dont know anything and speak nice, and when he comes back i have to hug and kiss him. or the plan wont work
Blingin   
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

find another polish guy.

not after this. im put of them, completely. all his friends have cheated on their girlfriends, he lives with his friends so he has bad influences, i told him they were but he didnt listen. my heart is broken . but i have to move on. its now or never. yes i am afraid he will beg for forgiveness and plead i should take him back, but i deserve to be with a one woman man. hes gonna call me soon, and i have to pretend like everythings cool and sweet. im not looking forward to my heart being broken a couple more times though
Blingin   
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

i confronted him. he said he did it as a joke. he said because he wanted to flirt, and she wouldnt flirt if she knew he was in a relationship. he sais hes sorry. he told his parents and sister. i said i dont want to be with him, he sais hes not coming back from Poland, and is going to stay there. so what should i do.
Blingin   
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

I doubt he'll be running into your outstretched arms.

hes begging me not to leave him. he told me he was leading her on as a joke, but bit him in the face didnt it. yes hes in poland im in .uk. hell come back. i am now going to play cool and not take things seriously. he will have to do alot more things to get me to even wanna be with him.
Blingin   
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

learn from it

i am definetly. i am much more stronger and i feel like no one can f*** with me. i mean, i love him, and even if i take him back, theres going to be no more mrs nice/sweet/sensitive/doormat guy

what advice would you give even if i was to take him back?
Blingin   
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

If it was innocent, why would he have to tell her about it ?

true, but still no excuse. i am so not in the position to get hurt. i have totally turned off my feelings. or shall i say they have automatically switched off. his antics have made me feel so strong. i feel like nothing will hurt me.

he cant control me now. i know it sounds weird, but i feel like a different women. or is this just a phase, it feels good, i hope its permanent. this way i can have relationships and not get hurt.