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Joined: 21 Jul 2009 / Female ♀ 		Last Post: 31 Mar 2010
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Posts: Total: 507 / In This Archive: 127 		From: Krakow, Poland
Speaks Polish?: Yes
Interests: reading, travelling, fashion, dance, cinema, cultures du monde

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Nika   
1 Aug 2009
Love / Is my marriage proposal with a Polish girl idea good? Girls, what u think! [49]

tj123
if this is the way you guys see relationships/marriage then I feel sorry for you 'cause you will never be happy in your life.

I am an experienced and not naive woman and I don't blame the whole man kind for it, got over my experience and still believe in love.

And yes it is perfectly normal for a woman to want to feel special and men who know how to make a woman feel like this will succeed in relationship and not bitter and sad men like you.

And yes, you surely are convinced that if a relationship fails or 67% of couples divorce then it is because of women (never men) - how ridiculous!!!!!!!
Nika   
1 Aug 2009
Love / Is my marriage proposal with a Polish girl idea good? Girls, what u think! [49]

tj123
have you ever met me, talked to me in person? Do you know what I've done, been through in my life?
The answer is no, so stop telling me which category I fit to, if I am stupid or smart, exceptional or ordinary.
I don't agree with your point of view on men/women relationships that's it, it doesn't mean that you have to judge me in any way Mr I Got It All Figured Out How Women Think But Can't Get Any
Nika   
2 Aug 2009
Life / Why do People spend half their lives complaining about living in Poland? [55]

As far as Polish people are concerned then it is our national trait.
For the foreigners, well people seem to always compare the place they live in with the place they come from and seem to always be surprised that for example in Poland people don't do things the same way they do in UK, US etc.

I agree with what was said before, when you go abroad be open-minded and prepared that everything will be different, expect the un-expected and learn from it!!!!

Complaining about is like "walka z wiatrakami"...how would this be in English???
Nika   
8 Aug 2009
UK, Ireland / Polish expats in UK, USA, Canada and Ireland, are you planning on going home? [10]

Belgium is OK, they have very good beer (especially the cherry, peach or raspberry ones are delicious) and chocolate, also life is pretty nice here - salaries are OK and you work 35h/week only, it's not very expensive, social security and medical care are very good.

On the other hand, the weather is bad, food is not very tasty and people and the country in general are not very interesting.
It's just not a country that you dream of you see, people come here because they got a job in one of the eu institutions or because they follow their husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend...
Nika   
8 Aug 2009
UK, Ireland / Polish expats in UK, USA, Canada and Ireland, are you planning on going home? [10]

Dont know if its just me but the UGLY nation of the world award goes to Belgium. Man ive seen some ugly people there. Not specifically ugly, just ugly on the whole

ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You are probably right about that, they are not the most beautiful people...
I've heard a lot of good things about the film - I shall watch it!
Nika   
9 Aug 2009
Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]

no it is not a norm in Poland to hit one's boyfriend! so no worries you can continue dating Polish girls without fear of being treated like a punchbag :)

This girl must have some serious anger management issues...
Nika   
9 Aug 2009
Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]

Oh my God - she cut your face with a beer can!!!!!??????
I think that these girls realise they exaggerated but they just don't want to admit their mistake, I mean you can't think that punching/kicking/cutting poeple is OK!
Nika   
9 Aug 2009
Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]

Are you guys serious or you are making up these stories?
I probably shouldn't but I burst into laughter when I read them. I've never heard/seen women getting physical with their husbands.
I am astonished!!!
Nika   
15 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls Reputation [231]

I'm a little concerned about some negative comments I get from people back home (UK) about Polish girls, or having a Polish girlfriend.

you should not be worried about comments concerning Polish girls because you don't have Polish girlfriends but a Polish girlfriend and you should only be concerned about her.

If you trust her, find her faithful and uneasy then that is all that counts.
What really matters is what YOU think about HER and not what some people from UK think of Polish women in general!
Nika   
15 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls Reputation [231]

I heard they don't wash their asses often enough, is that true... ?

yes Grzegorz it is very true so stay away from us....
Nika   
15 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls Reputation [231]

Thanks for the nice comment Nika. That is surely true for me as well. But outside of the four walls it does matter a bit.

but it shouldn't really!
I realise that it's not always easy but if you believe in her you have to stand up for her everytime you hear this Polish girls are this or that bulls***.

I hate people that generalise, if you are an intelligent person you don't judge people by where they come from and especially you don't jugde a nation based on the emigrants that you came accross in your home country and I hope I don't have to explain why...

courage!!!!!!!
Nika   
15 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls Reputation [231]

ShelleyS:
Then why call UK your home. Slightly misleading wouldnt you say.

HOME - relating to or being where one lives or where one's roots are, at or to or in the direction of one's home or family, to the fullest extent,(...)

as per the definition, he doesn't have to be native British to call UK home...
Nika   
15 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls Reputation [231]

Like it or not, people who come from a certain cultural background do share particular characteristics.

I find it ridiculous to think that women are unfaithful or easy because they are Polish.
In my opinion these are personal traits of character and not national ones...
Nika   
15 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls Reputation [231]

and e.g. English girls are the most judgemental about this matter.

in your opinion, why it's mostly English girls and not English men?
After all, it's not the English girls who sleep with the Polish girls, so how would they know?