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Need help figuring out a polish guy [55]
someone mentioned the guy might've just been seeking some more physical closeness apart from the night together so as harsh as it might sound this could be it. i know it will be hard but wait a few days, if he doesn't contact you then you can txt him, but i personally wouldn't. nobody likes a stalker lol. you got his number off facebook? if so you can send him a message on there. just get on with things and if he calls then great, if not then don't try to make up any excuses for him as he has your number right there and it only takes a few seconds to get in touch and arrange a date. how do you know he didn't delete it as soon as you walked out his door? men are ass*holes sometimes and it is not a great thing to sleep together on the first date/first meeting but sometimes it does work out. depends on the guy and what he's after at the minute, no point trying to figure him out cos everyone is different. if he thought really badly of you then yes, he wouldn't bother with breakfast and cuddles, but maybe he's just one of those undecided men who give away mixed signals, or just a gentleman who will not kick out a chick from his flat after a hot night out lol. either way, hang on there and wait for his move. in the mean time keep your options open, enjoy being single but avoid sleeping with men so fast. i know that sometimes you just can't help yourselves but at least wait till the day after when you both sobered up. do it right, it pays off.