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WHAT TRAITS DO POLISH WOMEN LOOK FOR IN A MAN?


Polonius3 1,000 | 12,448  
11 Jul 2009 /  #1
As a Polish woman, in what order would you rank the following traits of a potential boyfriend, fiance or husband?
-physical attractiveness
-libido
-personality (sense of humour, gift of the gab, etc.)
-education
-professional prestige
-size of income
-age
-nationality
-common goals and priorities
-religion
-family (eg nasty future mum-in law?)
-other
krysia 23 | 3,057  
11 Jul 2009 /  #2
I wasn't born in Poland but lived there for a while and I know some girls would put money - size of income- in the number 1 spot because they like to dress up nice, put a lot of make up and they like to show off that they are better off than others.

But then my closests friends were really down to earth and they would say honesty and someone they can trust and love in the first place. I myself would say all that plus - personality
southern 75 | 7,096  
14 Jul 2009 /  #3
WHAT TRAITS DO POLISH WOMEN LOOK FOR IN A MAN?

1.Appearance
2.Money
3.Job
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
14 Jul 2009 /  #4
What traits do English women look for?
What traits do Swedish women look for?
What traits do Spanish women look for?
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
14 Jul 2009 /  #5
Depends on the woman in question.
southern 75 | 7,096  
14 Jul 2009 /  #6
Sometimes you wonder what a woman has found in a particular man.I mean they seem to lack everything and though they are chosen.
kazik1 - | 1  
14 Jul 2009 /  #7
K I tend to disagree... You have stated that you are not Polish and I believe you by the comment you made about the girls there..First, let me ask you if you have ever been to Poland? I doubt you have. See K, Let me educate you about the culture Of Polish women... Im going to put you in their shoes...Say it's a beautiful Saturday afternoon and you had nothing to do.. Wouldn't you dress up pretty and put make-up on and cruise the streets trying to find Mr. Right? If you said no, you are a liar!!! Give the girls there a break...They have it alot harder than you do.
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
14 Jul 2009 /  #8
Sometimes you wonder what a woman has found in a particular man.I mean they seem to lack everything and though they are chosen.

That's exactly how it is. Different people see these things in different ways.
southern 75 | 7,096  
15 Jul 2009 /  #9
Polish women are different because they don't have reverse thoughts.For example if you speak a russian a russian woman may think:Why does he speak russian?Did he have a russian wife?Is he an immigrant from Soviet Union?Did he have lots of russian girls?Is he a gigolo?Etc.So you have a harder job.

But if you speak polish,a polish girl will admire the fact that you speak polish without the reverse thoughts of russian women.
Jihozapad  
15 Jul 2009 /  #10
what about Czech women, then?
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
15 Jul 2009 /  #11
It depends on the woman. A man who can flatter and be firm I'd guess. Something to prop up the vanity ;) ;)
Jihozapad  
15 Jul 2009 /  #12
No wonder they love me then :D lol
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
15 Jul 2009 /  #13
But if you speak polish,a polish girl will admire the fact that you speak polish without the reverse thoughts of russian women.

remember you can pay for a Russian woman's silence, just give her some money and off she goes shopping till she drops, no questions asked.

;)
southern 75 | 7,096  
15 Jul 2009 /  #14
what about Czech women, then?

Czech women tell that you speak ''roztomile cesky'',I don't know what that means.They find natural that sb talks czech,do not ask further about that.It is like admitting natural superiority of czech culture.

But the worst is to speak russian to a polish girl.It blows your chances immediately.
Jihozapad  
15 Jul 2009 /  #15
Czech women tell that you speak ''roztomile cesky'',I don't know what that means.They find natural that sb talks czech,do not ask further about that.It is like admitting natural superiority of czech culture.

nice/lovely Czech

But the worst is to speak russian to a polish girl.It blows your chances immediately.

Hell yeah, anyone trying to speak to me in Russian wouldn't get anywhere either!
southern 75 | 7,096  
15 Jul 2009 /  #16
Czech women have the ability to distinguish sex from love while polish women do not have this ability.Polish are extremely romantic.
For exam a czech woman may tell you:''Asi tebe malo milujou.''which means ''maybe I love you a bit''.But a polish woman will never say:''Kocham cie chyba malo.''
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
15 Jul 2009 /  #17
Partly true but way too blanket as a statement.
dnz 17 | 710  
15 Jul 2009 /  #18
Cash, controllability, eagerness to get married within 5 minutes of meeting,
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
15 Jul 2009 /  #19
what sort of Polish women have you been hooking up with?! lol
beckski 12 | 1,617  
15 Jul 2009 /  #20
#1
As a Polish woman, in what order would you rank the following traits of a potential boyfriend, fiance or husband?

The first thing that usually attracts a woman to a man is his physical appearance.
For me, he must be at least average-looking.

Second, I enjoy meeting a guy with a great personality. One who is well-rounded and veryversatile.

Third, I'm attracted to intelligent men. I thinks brains are very sexy!
Arlene  
15 Jul 2009 /  #21
Business which some of men own.

Polish women do fall for this kinds of men because they don't have to worry about money.
I am sure they will help their husbands to run businesses if they are intelligents.
PennBoy 76 | 2,437  
15 Jul 2009 /  #22
Polish girls in POLAND first look at looks, then if he's wealthy or nice or whatever, Polish girls in the west first look at money, but that a generalization of course
George8600 10 | 637  
15 Jul 2009 /  #23
I wasn't born in Poland but lived there for a while and I know some girls would put money - size of income- in the number 1 spot because they like to dress up nice, put a lot of make up and they like to show off that they are better off than others.
But then my closests friends were really down to earth and they would say honesty and someone they can trust and love in the first place. I myself would say all that plus - personality

Generalize much? lol What's with all these guys saying money money money? Polish girls are the least materialized girls I have ever met. (maybe that too is generalizing) but I would rather take it from the girls themselves whom have replied to this thread.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
16 Jul 2009 /  #24
you guys have obviously been coming accross/dating the wrong girls from Poland. it is stupid to ask what Polish women go for because everybody is different. and as simple as it sounds, you notice the looks first whether you're a man or a woman. on the first meeting they play a massive role, if the physical attraction is not there then it can be tough! of course once you start to get to know someone and like them for who they are, the attraction might appear, but then it depends what you're after really. and how drunk you are ha ha. this thread is pretty rubbish, you can't throw every Polish woman into the same box or category.
southern 75 | 7,096  
16 Jul 2009 /  #25
WHAT TRAITS DO POLISH WOMEN LOOK FOR IN A MAN?

Appearance.Intelligence.And wallet.
Jihozapad  
17 Jul 2009 /  #26
You forgot "car", or does that come under "wallet", lol
Wroclaw Boy  
17 Jul 2009 /  #27
1.Appearance
2.Money
3.Job

hey dude if they have the first two who cares about the job?
wildrover 98 | 4,451  
17 Jul 2009 /  #28
You forgot "car",

Yep...a beat up Audi or Bmw with a loud exhaust pipe will make you a great catch.....
southern 75 | 7,096  
17 Jul 2009 /  #29
You forgot "car", or does that come under "wallet",

Yes,if your car can be contained in a wallet.
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
17 Jul 2009 /  #30
Money, Money, Money, Money, Money, level of income, money, level of income and did i mention money!!! :):):) I'm joking of course but there are girls out there like that!!!!

It seems silly to me to specifically say 'Polish Women' as i think all women are different and if there are groups to be pigeon holed its not by nationality. There are women who look for money and income, women who look for physical attractivness and position of power, personality, morals and commong goals.

There are also many many many many many other groups!!!!!

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