Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]


Just trying to make sense of some of the posts to my thread.....some of it starting to make sense though.

Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

Does anyone know Wnętrzne ?.... Its off route 76.

Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

Lads and Lassies......this thread is beginning to lose its purpose.

To answer a few questions.

1. Yes, i accept some of his calls but sometimes i just press reject. I respond to some of his idiotic txts.

2. Would he follow agnieszka back to Ireland.....most definitely. If he cant have her then no one will. He has told her that.

3. Would she have to turn her back on her family......thats why she went home to tell them and ask them to respect her wishes. When we spoke on phone at start of week she told me she wanted still to come back.

4. For those who think she wants money......she has more than me !!!

5. Could I take this lad if it came to it......No, he is an absolute nut case with no respect for life.

Thankyou to those of you who posted your respects yesterday.

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for those of you who think that she will look money from me....you do not know me or her....she is as indpendent as i wish the whole of Ireland was and has never asked for a penny.


I try not to reply

Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

Update.....today 20 years ago my mother died at age 47> She took a massive heart attack in her sleep. I was 17. The yougest in my family was just 8/ I was the eldest.....my point is as the eldest in my home, I cooked, cleaned, went out to work and done my bit for my family........she know that. that is why she respected me. that is why we got on so well. Shew knew where I came from........I love her and i know she still loves me. today of all days, i have received 67 calls from this prick and 17 texts...... I know i am a thorn in his side but both agnieszka and me cannot run away from our feelings.....

Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

most of the texts are in broken english. This is one he sent me in Polish....not sure what it means...maybe some of you can translate

Sam Sie Pierdol Kutasie I Tak Cie Dorwie Juz Niedlugo Obiecuie Ci To Huiu Zlamany !!

Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]


I think so..... i'd say thats the reason for all the calls and the texts.

Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

For those of you who want an update.....I got 3 calls from her last week. She is very unhappy but still wishes to come back to Ireland. She is under alot of pressure from her family. I also got 22 calls from her ex on friday night, none of which I answered. also got 2 threatening texts........

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Would you care to ellaborate on this point ?

Love / Why do Polish Women Think They Know Better? [134]

Thread attached on merging:
Are Polish Women Independent ?

Hi

Are Polish Women generally Independent or do they rely on an alpha male ?

Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

Hi all....just ti update you all on the situation. After taking alot of your advice I had said to myself to forget the wholw thing......I got a call from her todat at 2pm. She told me she miseed me and my son and never stopped thinking about us. She said she missed her life in Ireland. She said she hoped some day soon she would come back........ IF YOUR CONFUSED BOUT THIS THEM HOW YOU THINK IM FEELING RIGHT NOW !!

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I may be a Senior Manager but believe me 20% is alot. I am also losing 3 of my staff so yes that means more work for me and as a Senior Manager I do not get overtime. I already work 55 hours a week. Im not looking for sympathy but I do have sympathy for those people on the factory floor. They have families and homes.....I know that. I am divorced. I have children who I love and adore. I rent a 2 bedroom apartment. I gave up my family home to my kids. Times are hard. No one is immune but you can rest asssure that the governments who helped the banks will not come to help me or you when the balliffs come knocking on our doors.

Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

Lads and Lassies.......Im not going to Poland. I may sound niaive in my ramblings on this thread but im not. I know what would lie ahead. Remember....I know this Ex. He worked for me. She knows where I am IF (small word with alot of meaning) she wants me....IF not then more the fool me for worrying over nothing.

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Alot of truth in this comment....this is what she said to me on phone last Monday. That we cant do anything until they stop watching her movements and they think that we have given up !

Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

A call from Dublin Airport to say.....Baby Im back ! Can you come collect me.......I know dream on Lad !!

Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

If I had one incling that she wanted that still I would be over there like a shot.....just need that sign............

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Thought Id add a comment on this post......Im a Senior Manager at a company in Ireland. All the SMT have been asked to take a 20% pay cut at end of this week for next 5 months.......no one is ammune to the big 'R'.......only this time there aint no coffin ships heading for the shores of America !!

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We were building, and planning for the future. I remember cooking her Sunday Dinner one day. She couldny get over that I would do such a think. She came an hour earlier thinking she would make it....and washing up....jasus that was another story !! . I have a son and she adored him and he still asks for her. I was always careful in the past to avoid people getting close to him that would confuse him.....well I fecked up on that one !!

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I'll hang in there for another few weeks.....the last text I got from her was when she arrived in Warsaw. It said.......Baby I am in Warsaw. Flight ok. I miss you and I love you. 1000 kisses for you.

Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

I told ye before....this lad is a dinosaur. Part of me wants to forget but a bigger part wants me to keep going. The bit of the puzzle that I dont know fits is if she is feeling as I am......if I knew that either way at least I would have closure.

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Well just to update you all on the craic. I was a naughty boy yesterday morning. I text her EX to tell him I was on my way tp Poland and I would see him later......then I turned off my phone for what would have been the duration of the flight. Had 2 voice mails when I turned phone on telling me he was at Warsaw airport waiting for me. I never answered and turned phone off again. Turned it on last night and I think he thinks im in Poland by the texts I was getting. I tried girlfriends phone this morning (with number withheld) and it was ringing but I immediately hung up, so I got her Manager to ring it straight after. The EX answered it and refused to let her speak to her. She siad it was important but still he would not let her speak saying she only speak Polish now. He obviously has her phone checking to see if Im trying to make contact.....anyway thanks all the news I have to date.....sorry for being naughty :-)

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I know the ball is in her court......all I can do is see if absence makes the heart grow fonder. Thanks all for your comments....some of which I will admitt are not what I want to here but I appreciate all points of view. Im gonna sign off on this thread for now.....will update ye if any news comes my way. Take care all.

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I aint making this up........nor am I the only one who has concerns about her. If she is in the process of making it up with her ex then I will respect that, though I doubt it very much. When all is said and done there will always be a part of me in Poland as long as she is there..........my heart !

Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

No never, she is very mature and had goals in her life. She was always looking to learn new things partic.ularly good english grammar. She had a bad relationship growing up with her father but talked alot about her mother. Her family was getting oe side of the story from her ex and she wanted to go home to set the record straight and for them to respect her wishes.

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I do not assume she is physically being held, but choices are being made for her. And yes this ex has a violent streak. For the record I did not start this thread to discuss the culture of male poles and am not suggesting that all are same...I am merely trying to come to terms with what possibly has happened.

Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

Once again thanks for all your comments. I just want to understand what is going on and how something like this can happen. Maybe I am niave as some of you have suggested. Time will be the teller of that, but until then I refuse to give up hope.

Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

Harry...beginning to think you know her ex. that him to a tee. Sorry if im offending anyone here by saying that. I know him and thats exactly him.

Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

Harry alot of what you said is true. She comes from a small village.She was with her ex for nearly 7 years. He cannot accept what happened and told her she would never be free or in her words 'have peace'. She was under alot of pressure from her family particularly because they had been building a house together and she had invested alot of money but she was no longer interested in it......she wanted happiness !!! The night before she left we talked and she siad if her family did not respect her wish then they would have to accept she would never go back home again.

Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

a couple of things still stick in my head......Why book the return flight for Saturday 28th if she was not gonna return. Why take just the minimum baggage she needed for the week? She has a house here that she shared and alot of items she bought for it....fridge, bed,TV etc. A Credit Union Account !!!.....sorry but it doesnt add up to some of the comments I've been receiving on the thread. Sokrates...comments like that are childish !!!!

Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

Like I said......I will sit and see what happens over the days ahead. Thank you all for your comments.