Ireland32 2 | 172 23 Feb 2009 / #1Im Irish and recently over the last 3 months began seeing a polish girl I had known and worked with for 2 years. We always had a bit of a spark but she had a polish boyfriend and I knew not to get involved and stayed clear. Last year they were having problems ( he drinks alot, no job) and split but he was reluctant about this but went home hoping she would change her mind. During this period we began to see each other and really hit it off. We enjoyed spending time together and talked about future. Her ex found out back in Poland and began causing us problems and with her family in Poland. She felt she needed to go home and explain to her family and hope thry would respect her decision. As soon as she arrived in Poland, her ex boyfriend confiscated her ID and took her to her family home. They are taking his side. She is now under house arrest and has been told she will never return to Ireland. How can this happen in this day and age....Whos Life is it and how can others make this choice. She had a job she loved and a future she dreamed about. All she wanted was to be happy !! She was due to fly back to Ireland on Saturday. Now I dont know if I will ever se here again.