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ShelleyS   
10 Sep 2008
News / Polish incest-family case 'like Fritzl' [52]

I really am not in mood to talk to a fat,ugly,demented,lying psycho!! I cdn't care less about ur race!!

Wrong on all counts, but I see you are still avoiding the fact that abuse is rife in your country...did you just find that out today - along with the fact that chimps have sex with each other too? You obviously didn't get your original visa on a HSMP!

You found it neccessary to say how disgusting Poland was for having such things happen and denied that your culture could ever let such things happen, when in fact it is quite the oposite. I was merely pointing this out.

The End.
ShelleyS   
10 Sep 2008
Love / Who makes a good Polish wife? [75]

thanks shelly s for being honest.

Join a dating agency - get to know someone and then see how it goes- western culture is very different to that, that exists in India - arranged marriages are easy in comparison - in the west it is normal to date for a couple of years (some have been known to date for over 10 years) fall in love and learn about them and then the next step is to plan a wedding and then to live together and learn more and more each day about the other person.

You simply can't just walk up to someone and expect them to give up their life and home and marry what could be considered a complete stranger. I don't know how old you are Roy but I think possibly you need to grow up a little bit and consider what it means to another person to have to leave their family and to go and live in a country which is culturally a million miles away :)

You have a picture in your minds eye of your perfect dream woman, maybe closing your eyes to others is stopping you finding something that might be right in front of you.

Good luck :)
ShelleyS   
10 Sep 2008
News / Polish incest-family case 'like Fritzl' [52]

Senator

My country, you mean England, since I am English - I have never pretended to be Polish, everyone on the forum knows I'm English, you are very stupid, how did you ever pass the British exam?, lets face it anyone who thinks that animals don't do with close relatives must be a bit thick!

Its NOT a possibility in my culture!!

It's possible in any culture, especially in India, where it seems to be a national passtime to sexually abuse a family member only they start a bit earlier than in europe:


  • Abuse in India

  • Abuse in India2
ShelleyS   
10 Sep 2008
News / Polish incest-family case 'like Fritzl' [52]

Senator

I note you didnt look at the link though - hmmmmm, did it remind you when you were growing up having a pop at your sister?
ShelleyS   
10 Sep 2008
Love / Who makes a good Polish wife? [75]

we got to church sundays , saturdays and fridays, i personally go on fridays cause thats my only day off. and yes i am catholic.

Well grow the feck up and stop dreaming about some life with a Polish girl you have never met, it sounds rediculous.

Do you want me to be honest? You have zero chance of finding a woman let alone a Polish women the way you are going about it.

As for your catholic statement:

[members.tripod.com/~Berchmans/today.html] - Catholics In India

Roy, you could be the nicest guy on the plant, but reading your posts you just sound desparate and stupid.
ShelleyS   
10 Sep 2008
News / Polish incest-family case 'like Fritzl' [52]

I have never heard of these things anywhere else,my country included!.

It happened in Austria it has happened in the UK...it happens all over the world! You obviously don't read the papers very much!

I am sick of the racist views!!

BTW - you are not British, you have a British passport, there is a difference :)
Obviously some countries are worse than others!
news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/south_asia/259959.stm
ShelleyS   
10 Sep 2008
Love / Who makes a good Polish wife? [75]

OR expect her to change to Muslim?

He said he's Indian, but that irrelivant, he's obviously telling porky pies :)

My sister married a muslim and he always threatened to steal and send her daughter (errr my niece) to Yemen and marry her off if my sister didn't do as she was told.

Not uncommon but it's a chance you take if you marry someone from that kind of culture. It's different for the men of course :(
ShelleyS   
10 Sep 2008
Love / Who makes a good Polish wife? [75]

we go to church on fridays and fast

You are not catholic then (as you stated many many times) - as we go to church on Sunday. Being dishonest about who you are is a terrible thing.

and if she wants to visit poland twice a year its fine with me.

You can't restrict how much a person would want to see there family, how can that be fair? You also cannot expect a girl to leave her home, her friends, her life, would you do such a thing, roy, you need to grow up a little bit because I think you are dreaming and also still a bit selfish.
ShelleyS   
10 Sep 2008
Love / Who makes a good Polish wife? [75]

You said my intentions are not honest . why would i be on this forum pouring my heart out if i was such a liar.

I didn't mean it like that, what I meant was that you have to be completely honest and open..... you said that you will meet a girl and have the intentions of marrying her in your mind, maybe you need to let girls know this, withholding information is as dishonest as telling lies.

I dont think a forum is a place to find a wife either, maybe you should join a dating agency, rather than wasting time here.

europeans that live in dubai buying freehold properties here and making a life in dubai.

My cousin has been out there with her husband and child for a few years - I know how good life in Dubai can be :) But it's still very very different to life in Europe, women are still very restricted in certain ways.
ShelleyS   
10 Sep 2008
Love / Who makes a good Polish wife? [75]

i just want a polish girl which i think is better than being with an irish girl cause they cant cook for ****.

How do you know Irish women can't cook? And why the comparison between Polish and Irish?

i dont want to tell women i wannna get married so soon but its always gonna be on the back of my mind.

Your intentions are not completely honest and this is not a good start to a relationship, what if you meet a Polish girl and she doesn't want to move to Dubai, whilst Im sure the life style you have is wonderful, the cultural differences are totally different even though Dubai is quite a "modern" place, it is still under Islamic Shariah laws and it might be difficult for someone to not only adapt to a new country but also to a husband who has a different cultural background. It's quite obvious your family want to chose your future wife, do you think they would accept someone who is European?
ShelleyS   
10 Sep 2008
Love / Tricky situation, should I refuse or accept? Forced to be an English teacher in Poland. [23]

My thoughts too, there must be times in the week when you can fit her in and it wont disturb the paying customers.

It reminds me of a discussion I had with a friend (who is a bit of a tight arse) she asked why I gave a practically brand new drill to a friend - I simply said because she was a good friend and had done things for me in the past and I didn't want it anymore - lifes about give and take.
ShelleyS   
10 Sep 2008
News / Polish incest-family case 'like Fritzl' [52]

I think she has something to explain here!!Why didn't she go to the Police!

She has already explained, she was told by the husband that he would murder her and her daughter.

People react different in these kinds of situations, it's not a large town they are from so that may have been a factor, people tend to know eachother very well and there is a great deal of shame attached in this kind of thing and some people would rather let it continue than reveal to the world that their husband is a rapest child abuser.

Sick!! Sick!! Sick!!

Where are you from that it is so perfect that this thing has never ever happened?

Who knows, to be honest I don't really care about the mother! I just hope that the girl and her children will be supported by the right people and then left in peace and hopefully reclaim some kind of a normal life, if that is at all possible.
ShelleyS   
10 Sep 2008
News / Polish incest-family case 'like Fritzl' [52]

I saw the mother interviewed last night on t.v. - she had invited journalists into her home to give them a guided tour and show them where her husband use to rape their daughter, I couldn't get over how she was so matter of fact about it, I'd like to think she was in shock about it all, but it didn't appear that way. She even pointed out that they couldn't wait for her to have the babies adopted because she couldn't bear to look at them!

This has nothing to do with the fact she was Polish, I just think she was a f*cking selfish b*tch.
ShelleyS   
9 Sep 2008
News / Venezuela is voted happiest place to live ,Poland? [33]

I cant see how it could be the happiest place to live?

Maybe because it's so rough there - they could only interview the rich and of course they're going to be happy...just a thought!
ShelleyS   
9 Sep 2008
News / Polish incest-family case 'like Fritzl' [52]

This has nothing to do with the thread!

btt:

Tusk finally start making some sense and wants castration for pervs.

Will never happen, unless they use a form medical castration, which they are actually looking into in the UK (already used in the US)! Just means sexually deranged people get out of prison early!
ShelleyS   
9 Sep 2008
Love / Polish men vs German men: Who is hotter? [513]

z_darius

do you not fancy showing us a picture of yourself..so we can make up our own minds ;-)

consumption of ice cream might be also good indicators

Ya kinky devil..
ShelleyS   
9 Sep 2008
News / Venezuela is voted happiest place to live ,Poland? [33]

have you even been to Poland ?It would be a good start to see what is real and what is perceived.

Very good point. I couldn't arsed to answer the questions since they have all been asked time and time again.........

I enjoyed Poland, no culture shock and the people were nothing out of the ordinary with regards to manners and the way the acted towards people.
ShelleyS   
9 Sep 2008
Travel / Driving from Faro, Portugal to Krakow, any advice? [21]

have you been to any of them?.

Barcelona is a bit of a mixed bag - love it or hate it, it will be an experience. Beer is cheap (about 4 - 7 euro depending on where you drink) and food is pretty nice too and very reasonable :), I'm sure driving would be "interesting".

Re: France, Marceille is my fav place with great sea food restaurants and oodles of atmosphere and Antibs is beautiful too, Nice old town is nice with some lovely old architecture - just drive down the coastline it's amazing.

Czech Republic

Karlovy Vary, Pilsen and Marianske Lazne are very nice.
ShelleyS   
5 Sep 2008
News / British... do they have clubs or organisations in Poland? [13]

Unions are not so popular in England G (only a few of the larger organisations like the NHS still have them) so i wouldn't imagine that expats would go to the trouble of setting one up in Poland, but I could be wrong.
ShelleyS   
4 Sep 2008
Life / "I love you" in Polish culture... [36]

i don't mean to sound cold... i just don't want somebody misinterpreted my words and actions...
so is it a Poles' thing or just me?

You're definately not cold, just particular about the your choice of words, you obviously don't feel comfy telling every tom dick and harriot that you love them, same here.

It's definately not a Polish or you thing thing because Im English and not the "gushing" type. My family are quite reserved so those kinds of words are very special when used.

As for referring to things like shoes - I say "I adore" rather than love...