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Patrycja19   
30 Mar 2007
Love / Polish Womens bodies [126]

Thanks Ranj :) :)

What I dont understand is why men paint these images in their head that all women
have to be a certain way. its not like that, then they use those who arent up to
their standards and you see so much hurt. thats what boils my blood more then
anything, because I have had friends who were heavy and they would have given
anything and done everything for these guys whom said the same things.

Love is what we make it, and if you men think love is that way well your going to
be lonely and its going to rust and fall off by the time you want kids!

that isnt directed at all of you , only those select few who think they need beauty
to make sure their genitals stay healthy and want an active sex life.

love is making it work together and has no boundries, you feel it you know it
and all these things happen together as a unit rather then one sided mens
standards.

Now I will get ready for the Patrycja bashing, and you know something I dont care
because I got both socks on my feet and know what I am doing and where I am
going. I must go and jump in a pool or something to cool down!! lol
Patrycja19   
30 Mar 2007
Love / Polish Womens bodies [126]

I know this risks offending and may be a sweeping generalisation but here we go.

Yes, it is offending not to us who will post to you, but I feel offended for your ex
who is now the center of this forum among men whom shouldnt know her business
and it is degrading to her and I feel more sorry for her putting up with you because
you sound like a arrogant arse who hasnt learned much respect for women in
your growing years.

Thanks Miranda I wasnt done , even though i said i was lol ok now I am done :)

We women have to stick together thru thick and thin.

That was uncalled for. period.
Patrycja19   
30 Mar 2007
Love / Polish Womens bodies [126]

In the end, I had my doubts about how the relationship started (borderline mistress/f-buddy situation) and how long it lasted given unhealthy aspects. Finally, some trust/moral issues came up that convinced me this is not the mother of my children.

Why would you have concerns 2 years and 6 months later and so many nights together? you obviously had no problems continuing with this relationship till someone

mentioned something and acted on it by fear of family thrashing, so you picked up
on something she did wrong and took it to higher levels of distaste by adding that
you are doing fine and she is now in destructive behavior but that could be a result of
your rejection which you arent telling us because then you fear bashing here.

I am so sorry to tell you all that, but my female instincts tell me you were expecting more and let someone else lead you by the nose because to tell you the truth not

every woman has outer beauty so you let this happen by one comment and it bothered you and still bothers you to ask on a forum and yet you shared two whole years with

her and didnt love her because of anything else?

And if you were in the least bit concerned, maybe you would have asked questions because when you find a partener you would want to know health issues instead of

walking blindly into a relationship and not knowing what and how and for her to not
know your history you might have well just dug her a hole and put her in it with all
the partners you had and hopefully you wore protection because life is short and
so many take advantage of women these days by not using condoms and taking care
to make sure someone elses life isnt at risk.

maybe I am jumping the gun, but you should be ashamed of yourself for even posting
this because being a woman requires more then just outer beauty. make up and
panty hose doesnt make the woman, its how you present yourself , so all those women who work their tails off and sweat ,and work so hard daily to keep everything going in

the home dont deserve the label of a woman? what would they be called if they only
wear aprons? less a woman>?

There is select few I have heard very sweet comments out of in here, they know who
they are, for those of you guys who think that its about a pretty face and slim waist
your killing your Girlfriends. theres ways to keep fit without starving which maybe
is the reason why her body was like that, maybe in the past she was heavy, she found you and thought wow, I have to stay this way, I am going to stop, because now i am

getting way into a conversation which was more then likely discussed before and
all i can say is Karma sweetie, you should be so very careful how you say things because in the life we live, we have to learn to find love inside as well as out.

it appears as though you didnt find either. that is your own fault.

Sorry admin, I know its longer, but I had to get that out :)
Patrycja19   
30 Mar 2007
Love / Polish Womens bodies [126]

Nevertheless, harsh comments from a female (yes female) member of my own family TO ME, after seeing her in a bikini led to this question.

And what was your reply? how long did you stay with her there after you were
questioned by this family member?
Patrycja19   
30 Mar 2007
News / Germans file WWII claims against Poland [198]

Daffy, theres even groups in the united states. I have one cousin whom I dont even
want to claim as mine, who is in a group like this. I found this out thru my searches
for family and he is Polish by our side of the family but also other nationalities, which
I dont know, I can tell you one thing, he has no regard for his own family, I would
never embarass my family that way, making himself known. Ive watched these types
of people and nothing stops them when they are on the move.
Patrycja19   
30 Mar 2007
Life / Puertorican says GOOD-BYE to Poland forever [104]

see if you can have a Polish Girl ...!!! OUR GREAT POLISH WOMENNNNNN!!!!

I will be the happiest Polish MAN if I see you with a happy Polish Girl

Lonestranger, he sounds like hes a really nice young man who is doing some good
in the world by becoming a teacher and has a bright future ahead. thats whats
important :) and some very warm hearted soul be it polish or any nationality will
be one happy lady. The important thing to remember is making someone happy
and not taking advantage of this person and taking the time to really be consious
of the love in your life and not your own problems. because once you make that
one special day happen its no longer mine or hers its" ours" so many forget this
its becoming a epidemic.

Do you want me to leave?

jose, he is kidding , you know that dont you? :)
Patrycja19   
30 Mar 2007
News / Germans file WWII claims against Poland [198]

43% had negative feelings and 23% having positive.

But Based on what?

what happened to them that they can have such negative towards Polish ?

Land taken back perhaps? money owed?

what type of feelings do they have for the United states I wonder? we came in
and bombed the heck out of Germany and my Grandfather in law was one of those
soldiers , my cousins were also there ( many of them) who came in and took over
and in Poland ( I forget the town I will find out) when one cousin who was at one
of the camps said the men were supposed to be happy because they had freed so
many prisoners, and they were not prepared for what they had found once they
arrived. it was horrible, and the moral was low because they didnt expect to see
such horrible sites, men were throwing up and depressed because they had felt
they had come to to late.

and you can ask any soldier who was at these camps like aushwitz how they felt
and they will immediately start crying. soldiers are conditioned to be tough and do
a job, but no one was prepared for what they found.

so bitter the germans are?? again, I ask why? what could they have possibly lost
those who are still bitter, not the whole german population because I know that
not all feel that way, but those who do, what reasons could they possibly have.
Patrycja19   
30 Mar 2007
News / Germans file WWII claims against Poland [198]

We tell you what you want to hear....or how else do you think Germany became that rich and influential once again after WWII???

God...are you people stupid!

funny how your mouth runneth over when you are behind a screen, but in real life
I very much doubt you talk like this or you would not be typing online .

MY grandmother in law is German, a war bride, and still has family in Westphalen
she said she as many Germans had nothing against anyone Polish. it was only
those who were directly involved that Hated and didnt even know why they hated
them . all I can say is, if you are like this because you think your supposed to be
then you are sad. no one is the lesser of the human race. What to me is really sad
is that there are still many who believe that hitler was a good man, and that
he did so much for the germans who were obviously blindsided by his words, which
I dont even see how they could not see the truth when the smell of death was all
around them. if the tables were turned and it was the germans who were being
exterminated at 100,000 a day and the poles and the russians taking land and
killing, I am sure they would be bitter too. Or would they move on?? hmmm lets
ask our studio audience # 1 German who knows all Mr. A German" lets all give him
a loud slappy Welcome folks!

Or would they move on?? hmmm lets
ask our studio audience # 1 German who knows all Mr. A German" lets all give him
a loud slappy Welcome folks!

Yes this is sarcasm! JFTR.
Patrycja19   
29 Mar 2007
Genealogy / Genealogy of surname SPOKE [3]

sounds like a mess, I dont know what to guide you to because your not sure on
his birth. did you match up age? there can be duplicates of people.

are all these docs found, or did you have them already?
Patrycja19   
29 Mar 2007
Life / Polish mothers! Advice to Mothers-to-be and new Mothers (resources) [25]

Polish mothers overdress their children - that's why many Poles (especially men) catch chills so easily.

and if you exposed your hands and face to the cooler weather dont you notice a dry
ness over your skin that burns ? we do it because we care, its so much easier
to shed clothes off if you get to hot then it is to add when all your attire is at home
and your freezing.

no its the children of polish mothers who dont want to listen, my daughter wanted
to go outside with just a small jacket and the temp was going to be cooler that was
not enough, especially for a child with a surpressed immune system as it is.

:)

now bundle up!

Related: Searching Polish language sites offering advice to Mothers-to-be and new Mothers

Hey folks, I am looking for websites that offer advice for expectant mothers and new mothers and they must be written in Polish. So if anyone has any they'd like to share please post a link here. Thanks. :) No baby on the way though, not for me anyway :)

e-mama.pl
forum.e-mama.pl
edziecko.pl/edziecko/0,0.html
rodzice.pl
babyonline.pl
babyboom.pl
bobovita.pl/faq.php?m1=5
Patrycja19   
27 Mar 2007
News / Germans file WWII claims against Poland [198]

A group of Germans kicked out of Poland after World War II want restitution for lost property, arguing in a complaint that their human rights were violated when Eastern Europe's boundaries were redrawn and they were driven from their homes.

Does everyone else find this immoral?

from whom did they take this land from is my question.

I dont believe they have squatting rights if the land was occupied and
those driven from their homes -excuse me ripped from their homes and
yes I agree that this is immoral and disgusting both.

May I also add that her family helped many jews escape Germany so not all Germans were scum.

I agree with this, some died helping.
Patrycja19   
27 Mar 2007
Love / Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers [103]

your bf needs help. I don't know where you are but beating women has nothing to do with nationality.

I second that, Weed was his excuse. it might have altered his brain cells a bit
but I think that chemically something else is going on. I would do some google
searches, pretty sure you will find others whe experiences same .
Patrycja19   
26 Mar 2007
Genealogy / Luranc/Lorans surname [17]

Their name is similar to the name you are searching, but it is Lorek from the records in the US.

This may be something, because the name I have is also spelled Luranc
and someone I know shares the same surname which she says it is Lur -Ank
Now Lorek from Osiek? Question is which one, there is three in Poland.

mine came from the Malopolskie area Near Oswiecim. would that be yours as well?
if it is, I do have a Church name and also a address you can write to.

sorry this took so long to respond, I didnt see it till today :)
Patrycja19   
26 Mar 2007
Life / Puertorican says GOOD-BYE to Poland forever [104]

The WHOLE WORLD hates the English but I've never let that stop me from going anywhere.

I dont hate the English :)
I doubt the whole world does, or else so many wouldnt have come there jobs
or not..

Those white supremascists have nothing do with the real Poland and Polish. Actually they show complete disregard of their ethnicity and past.

Maxxx is right :)
Patrycja19   
26 Mar 2007
Life / Puertorican says GOOD-BYE to Poland forever [104]

:)
jose, chin up, dont think poland is bad just because of a few idiots online ok?

people try to make others mad, for some reason it makes them feel good, but the
bottome line is you have to take care of # 1 and who is # 1? you.

so speak your mind, people will disagree, yes known fact, but dont listen to the
idiots, they dont know you from adam !! comprende?

did I spell that right? lol I dont even know my own language, so I should probably
stay away from trying to spell someone elses :) stick around Jose!
Patrycja19   
26 Mar 2007
Life / Puertorican says GOOD-BYE to Poland forever [104]

Out of curiousity is sentimentality a Polish trait or are you all made of IRON WILL?

we are stubborn and pretty much say whats on our minds openly and dont hide
anything. but we also like to cook and feed friends and family and i dont know
about anyone else, but I have a big problem making things in quanity and end
up with major leftovers and have to call my brothers to come get it , which I dont
have to worry because they are human garbage cans!
Patrycja19   
25 Mar 2007
Life / Polish denial of reality - is it a national trade? [117]

Poland should have a law which tax non poles who invest in real estate, this will make them leave poland quick smart

I can understand your frustration, but at the same time, things are changin
rapidly and no one likes change , especially when it comes in quanity rather then
quality.

by that I mean, buying up the land and using it for a dump site for instance.
knowing that poland if full of natural resources is probably what drives most
and the purpose might not always be what was stated on paper.

but one thing I can say is, Polish citizens should take initiative to seek answers
of why, who, where, and what because you dont want beauty to turn to burdens.

buying homes and or real estate building homes is harmless, I think the bigger
companies which come in to build is who you might want to place these extra tax
on because of course there is issues of pollution etc that come along with it.

I wouldbt be telling people whom want to become you neighbor to go home just
because of their nationality, in any case they are willing to do what it takes to be
a part of that country, so labels are being cast on people and you dont want to
put poland back 10 spaces when she could move forward 10 in the next 5 years!

imho
Patrycja19   
21 Mar 2007
Language / What would you name your pet in Polish? [11]

pretty cool Szarlotka. BTW ask admin how you can go about finding out your PW :)

my bf has a dog called abso..

ask him what that means :)

my thoughts are absolutly shortened.

my hubbys old dog was named buster.
Patrycja19   
21 Mar 2007
Law / Opening Kebab shop or Malaysian restaurant in Poland? [71]

from a fast food restaurant. I

they want food that wont fill their back side.

salads are good, pita breads, I think you should open a health food (healthy
dining) resturant. lots of people who are on special diets cant eat any of that
even if they want to its bad for them, so maybe doing something healthy that
gears towards special diets (food were supposed to eat) in poland?

if you open up a resturant that is same as everyone else, your competition will keep
you rolling with loss of business. if you gear it towards healthy , whos going to
compete with you at other FF chains?
Patrycja19   
21 Mar 2007
Language / What would you name your pet in Polish? [11]

I had a dog named mokey, couldnt say smokey so I changed his name.
cat was named mischief (she held the name well) and tuffy , who played the
violin on my moms screen.

my guinea pig is kernel, dog gopher. <~he was named that at the humane society
we kept it. dont know what it is in polish though. how to say it.
Patrycja19   
21 Mar 2007
Language / What would you name your pet in Polish? [11]

What are some Polish names picked out by their pet owners and why did you pick
that name and how do you say gopher in Polish? thats my dog :)
Patrycja19   
21 Mar 2007
Genealogy / Has anyone taken Genealogy DNA tests? [87]

I find it hard enough, and very time-consuming, with my own family.

yes, I agree, my family (close) is rather small given so many have passed.

its very hard to keep up with some of the closer relatives. most all of mine
that used to visit are all gone, my cousins, we talk, but they have busy lives to
when I started my family history, I knew nothing of the relatives we had that
were lost over the years due to no contacting, moves etc.

these are folks that knew me as a child, I knew nothing of them. it felt good to
talk about my parents, grandparents that some of them knew that I never knew.

I guess it depends on what you are after. mine was just knowing there is more
to my family then what is seen. growing up, we werent close to everyone, select
few visited, after a while we hardly seen anyone.

at my moms funeral, a majority of family, proposed family, and friends I met along the
way came to her viewing. the support was tremendous. had they not been in my life
and came, very few small number of family would have came, this would have made
me extremely saddened because she (mom) was a gracious woman who touched
many lives, and although she didnt go visit much later in life, all these other relatives
who knew her long time ago, wouldnt have come because they werent notified.

my brothers both thought that there was hardly family left, but when they seen all
those who came and knew out mother, they were very glad that I had connected our
families back since. so yes this does have a impact on me, and my children I say to
them family does matter, you dont have to see them every day, but keep in contact
and let them know how you are doing as well as ask how they are doing. a small
note every now and then goes a long ways.

And working in the health care, you see many older geriatric patients come and
they are very sick , no family comes to see them, and it breaks my heart.
none of its silly, because those who I connect with might be the only one left and if
I can be there for them I will.

on one of my posts " no patient dies alone" my cousin, whom I work with, I found her
via a death cert that I had found in my city with my dads last name as her mothers
maiden name. I contacted her nephew who gave me her number, she and her sister
are the only two surviving cousins of my dad. why would I deprive myself of such
a wonderful cousin as well as a beautiful person she is. and we now are like family
that never lost touch. that is why.
Patrycja19   
21 Mar 2007
Genealogy / Has anyone taken Genealogy DNA tests? [87]

ahhhhh silly silly you are varsovian. my purpose is to get actual documentation
which they can test two people ( current) people and show we are related.

these would be possible family in another state that we made plans on doing this
with, I am having my brother and one male same last name do it.

this I was told is possible. I cant find the paper trail as to many idiots burned all the
good stuff during wars and such. so I have to do the dna linkage to at least
show something. besides we all talk ( this other family) and me, and believe
we are (some of the family photos are uncanny) look alikes. I dont think its a waste
to do that. least I can confirm it and add them in my book.
Patrycja19   
21 Mar 2007
Law / Opening Kebab shop or Malaysian restaurant in Poland? [71]

But sledz looks like he prefers rats to chicken.

u know my dad used to talk about muskrats growing up. personally, they can
keep emm. they mentioned muskrats, frog legs, turtle, etc. pheasent.

I have to stop typing now about it. i am getting grossed out.
Patrycja19   
20 Mar 2007
Genealogy / Has anyone taken Genealogy DNA tests? [87]

Has anyone who is Polish taken any of the genealogy DNA tests that are out there? What were your results?

I plan to soon, just havent got around to ordering it yet.

I assume that you search for clear answer.

no, there will never be a totally clear answer, but people do it to see where their
original ancestors started, be it africa, europe, asia etc.

me personally, I am polish, if I was to find out something different, and my orgins
started in africa, its not going to change what I know now.

The truely amazing part of it all is going backwards and finding those who survived
thru it all, endured and here we are today.

who was that masked man in 966 A.D who came to visit my GGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG Grandmother?

:)