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Patrycja19   
24 Apr 2007
Love / Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers [103]

when you feel like nobody wants you and you dont feel like theres away out because no -one opens there arms to you, you would kind of understand. its not easy. you dont get it, i feel like this is it.

you dont need abuse to feel loved. you didnt grow up that way did you?

and you dont need another man to take you away, you need to get away now.
pack and move back home, or to a friends, get your self back together. get
your life back.

my brother said something once. and its true.

A man who hits a woman is a man who cant hit another man.
and there is a song Alice cooper sang, alot of meaning behind it.
if you ever get a chance to hear it the name of the song is " only women bleed"

listen carefully to the words.

I hope only the best for you.
Patrycja19   
23 Apr 2007
News / I need Kaczynski's Email Address! [84]

Your true care for Poland is a blessing!... Poland exist in the hearts of Poles... And all those Poles who feel that Poland is their home (whichever color they are...whichever race they belong to) .

:)
Miranda, Fisz , sledz and Giles get one too ..:)
Patrycja19   
23 Apr 2007
News / I need Kaczynski's Email Address! [84]

Patrycja, what are you talking about?

if you read, you would know.

dont feel the need to repeat a post .

What does Mr Kaczynski have to do with that?

companies were mentioned also, and kaczynski was emailed, whether
he reads it or not .

Giles!

Thank you!

Fisz Thank you. two very smart gents.

Lonestranger I understand. But this is me, I accept me. no one else has to. I will
keep doing what I am doing all my life. and my children will also as well.
regardless of what barriers. I might get angry, but it doesnt stop me. only makes
me stronger. :)

Pat,
do what you want to do and don't listen to anybody.

Thanks Miranda!! I am Trust me.
Patrycja19   
23 Apr 2007
News / I need Kaczynski's Email Address! [84]

Hm, I've noticed that when the US is mentioned in a negative manner, you become quite defensive and upset. Are you trying to lift up your national self-esteem by putting down Poland?

Puzzler, NO!!! read the fricken post for Christs sake, People please if your going
to post read the dam thread all the way thru!!!!

I heard this on another forum, which to my knowledge is true , the headband
thing was also true ( giles posted it) all I wanted to do was help
but you know what, **** IT
Patrycja19   
23 Apr 2007
News / I need Kaczynski's Email Address! [84]

Danuta, did you read the post? any of it?

where does it say I think I am in Charge?

I want to help, that is my right, I wrote, thats all that needs to be said.
Patrycja19   
23 Apr 2007
News / I need Kaczynski's Email Address! [84]

I have,,. course you wouldnt know everything about me now would you
mr wanker.. as for Ronald not showing up, well look at whos birthday it was.
I wouldnt show up at a mouthy little brats house like yours either!
Patrycja19   
23 Apr 2007
News / I need Kaczynski's Email Address! [84]

how can you say that? actually me and my family were inspirational in raising money through bingos for MEDICAL EQUIPMENT TO POLAND

Witek,

you only portray yourself as selfcentered.

Why would you tell someone to take care of things in their own back yard then
when you are doing the same as I and trying to do whatever you can when you
can?? why question me then? what about your back yard?

Yeah, thought so. feel real nice to hear that dont it.. anyway
I will move on.
Patrycja19   
23 Apr 2007
News / I need Kaczynski's Email Address! [84]

can you walk around in Detroit at night? is

What does that have to do with what I am doing? what would walking around
detroit at night accomplish? your point has nothing to do with the topic at all.
changing the subject again.

and no one can possibly do everything, so I choose to help out in other places
if it dont get read, I will find another way, what is the big deal to you witek?

does this make you upset or something? Why all the negativity? its people like you
who try to shoot others down by prodding them, instead of joining you backlash
it doesnt concern you so maybe dont respond.

Detroit has crime- Poland has crime. I dont get involved in the crime part, I will let
the local Police take care of that. Helping-volunteering with the poorer folks, yes
I do, I Will , I have.

I donate all my unused items which I frequently go thru things we have childrens
clothes ( hardly worn) good shape and donate. I also have money taken from
my checks for helping hands which also goes to those who dont or cant afford
equiptment like Wheelchairs/ Walkers/ or just another employee who might
have got hurt at work or was off due to medical issues with their family.

so yes, I help, and I will cont to help, I also sent monies for the hurricane katrina
and to poland ( our family) cousins.

I send money to the childrens cancer society, and make a wish foundations.

even though my daughter was diagnosed with a rare disorder which will stay with
her for the rest of her life, and she is also very kind hearted and when she was sick,
in the hospital , she wanted to be the one to go to the other rooms and give toys
to other children. she is always thinking of someone else.

no Witek, unlike you, I have a very unselfish family.
my girls, me, we do what we want, and help who we want, when we want.

I am teaching them that family and values are everything.

I dont think in anyway, shape or form that I am wrong, so you can take your
negative attitude and stuff it up your major tom helmut.
Patrycja19   
22 Apr 2007
News / I need Kaczynski's Email Address! [84]

Why waste your time with supposed "headband" problem in Poland that doesn't even exist?

Witek, it did exist, which means somewhere else someone else will try it again
until there is a law prohibiting this.

I help in my own backyard. and now choose to help in my ancestral back yard.
plus the fact that I still have family living there, and couldnt imagine them
having to endure such appalling work conditions.
Patrycja19   
22 Apr 2007
News / I need Kaczynski's Email Address! [84]

But I have seen first hand how it can go too far. One only has to look at the state of the North American auto industry.

It has already gone to far when workers are denied the right to use a bathroom and
made to wear a nappy. no one has to pay extra cost here, its part of our human
nature to eat just as it is to use a bathroom. this isnt going to increase loss of
business, I am sure if all the customers knew this was going on they would not want
to even shop there because its awful practice and I think the public would be
more then appalled.

Not only that, it can make these workers sick, some might not use the nappy so
to speak, and hold it for long periods of time and what do you think will happen
to them? Kidney problems, infections, what kind of company would even think this
is fair?

a ROTTEN LOW SICK NOT Worth BUYING THEIR PRODUCTS COMPANY THATS WHO!!!

instead of looking for problems in Poland and elsewhere why don't you Yanks first solve your own problems of violence, drugs and poverty.

first of all it was posted by a member " giles " about the headbands.

so it wasnt a YANK who found it. and He happens to care Unlike you seperate
from all the prestegious canadians who are good people, you seperate canucks
who dont care should not post if you dont like it.. go back to your dating service
thread.. and as for what I want to do, its my business, I am sorry that you have
problems with my wanting to help. maybe you need more then major tom
on this one.

And after that post, Witek, I wont respond to your bad comments because if your
trying to make it into a argument instead of something good, your not worth time
that was wasted. have a nice day Witek.
Patrycja19   
22 Apr 2007
News / I need Kaczynski's Email Address! [84]

I dont know how you get one of those petitions going, I never did one, but i think
it would be a good thing to show them a law must be passed to protect these workers
if there is such a law already in place, then they need to crack down now!

form some type of undercover survelliance and see if they are letting workers take
breaks ( by hidden camera at the cashiers desks) .

those who are not following the law, shall pay some hefty huge fines and risk of
store closure..
Patrycja19   
22 Apr 2007
News / I need Kaczynski's Email Address! [84]

....P19 I hope you are up for it!!

Up for anything babe!!!

BTW Witek, maybe you should be more informed, Frank and me are!!

Swishhhhhhhhhhhhhhh..

and, oh yes, its Tesco , warsaw

and Intermarche, which Tesco German owned?

is Intermarche? I will google.

Witek, for someone who is Polish, you sure dont care much about it do you?

not trying to be mean, but, you joke alot about serious issues.

Thereby humiliates womanhood...........

Lidl....should hereby be boycotted

Agreed.

again, no human should be pushed to this kind of humilation or stress at a work
environment.

you know, seeing the geriatric suffer with this kind of humilation, and you cant
say words enough to them to comfort because its a sense of loss, your dignity

it was hard enough to watch my moms eyes fill with water because she lost
her ability to control it, my god, to even think an adult is made to wear them
so they can reduce the number of breaks.

I came back from Poland in November and did not see any of this.

Witek, I doubt you would see it, as I dont think they would want to advertise they
are wearing a nappy.
Patrycja19   
22 Apr 2007
News / I need Kaczynski's Email Address! [84]

Patty...I thought this went on years...years ago. Where did you hear that this is gouing on now? I can't see this happening, and I've never witnessed it anywhere in Poland.

Bronek, one of the posts, few days ago, Giles postes on the headband, and how
women are made to wear this at work ( I will look for the post) if you do a search
on Giles and all his posts, it shows up. think it was two days ago.

on another forum though, this was bought up and I cant even remember the
companys name, but they still did it. Maybe Fisz or Giles can remember, i am so
mad though, i cant even think straight. Degrading, demeaning, sickening.

I would slap any employer who asked me to do this. better yet, he better know
how to duck:)

thought it was 2004 as well but am so proud of pat for actually taking steps and standing up for what is right, a trashy way to treat anyone!! bravo

I would love to see all of us do this!!

Bravo to all who join me!! :)

tuc.org.uk/h_and_s/tuc-9061-f0.cfm

apparently, this is from 2004.

an extract from the article...

"Earlier this year, German supermarket chain Lidl demanded that women workers in its Czech Republic and Polish stores wear special headbands during their monthly periods. It said the move was to identify women who could take additional toilet breaks. The policy was abandoned after critical media coverage worldwide."

if its no longer an issue, thats super! but think about it, 2004 is only 3 years ago
thats not a long time. companies can still be doing stupid crap we havent heard
yet for people fearing loss of employment!!

3 years isnt that long, if it was 20 years or so, I would say, ok, it was still demeaning
but someone did something, and they were caught.

I can tell you, a Law should be passed, companies try to get away with so much
even if it was 2004, and no longer a policy with companies, or that company, they
should have been used as an example for all the other companies and served
heavy fines for their unlawful practices of unfair labor and lack of Privacy which
every human being has a right to!!! man or woman!!

like a typical woman you didn't answer my question.

maybe major tom will answer you:)

meantime, I am going to be doing my best
to help in anyway I can my polish sisters and brothers.:)
Patrycja19   
21 Apr 2007
News / I need Kaczynski's Email Address! [84]

Witek, as a women with much experience in " mens tatics" of changing the subject
which is what you did, I am on to you! "pointing finger at witek!"

Thats alright witek, I am not wearing a headband at the moment..and my
Question was avioided, but I forgive.
Patrycja19   
20 Apr 2007
News / I need Kaczynski's Email Address! [84]

Thank you :)

Witek, I dont know what you find so funny, I know they are twins, was it the
facts laid out ?

Maybe its a joke to you, but it isnt to me. my polish sisters are suffering, and
you should be feeling the same.

People have to deal with such demeaning work conditions, its no wonder they
leave!!

I know their is much more that needs attention, but first and formost should be
ones secure livelyhood.

I wrote. I feel better!!

I used my Polish-english book to figure out the rest.

Thank you again.
Patrycja19   
20 Apr 2007
News / I need Kaczynski's Email Address! [84]

I need Kaczynski's email address!!!!!!!!!

I am done!!

I love my heritage, but Ill be dam if I will sit back and hear all this crap and he is doing
nothing about it!!

Companies making women wear headbands during monthly!! diapers on women
Cashiers! its disgraceful, and unjustified.. theres nothing more humiliating!!

if it isnt hard enough for women to have children, raise this family, work, do all
the Drs Appts, run kids to school , prepare dinners, clean , press, etc etc etc!!

NO EXCUSES for this at all!!

Maybe if more of us American Polish start emailing our disgust, and there is something
he can do about it, maybe he will focus more on the problems at hand!!

Heck anyone American, Australian, Uk, throw out those emails, this has to stop.
imagine if your wife was to go to poland, and no experience . so she takes a job
as a cashier, would you want her wearing that? These companies, they need a good
Arse kicking! who ever manages.

I just cant believe this happens and is still happening !!!

I am so mad!! Where is their privacy rights????

I dont know about anyone else, but this is appalling!! if its a joke, please stop
if its true, please Lets stop it!!!!!!
Patrycja19   
19 Apr 2007
USA, Canada / Shootings in America; over 30 people shot [52]

That's why I say that It's a bit different in America.

Good way to put it, yes, things are different here. not always for the good, but
no country is picture perfect.
Patrycja19   
19 Apr 2007
Love / How to tell woman to stay away from my man? [28]

Can sum1 please give me a rough idea of wot to say to this polish girl that Ive found out has been having an affair with my partner.
I dont want to threaten her, nothing like that, but I want to warn her to stay away from my man, as not only does he happen to be her boss but especially as she knows he has a wife and kids.

Thanku

First of all, get rid of the partener.. hes the one who cheated.. do you think he isnt
going to stray again?? maybe he didnt tell her he has someone already.. and my
fear would be, if hes doing this , how many others and what can you catch from it?

umm yeah, I would pack his bags and set them on the porch for sure.
Hope that everything works out for you in the long run no matter what decisions..
best of luck.:)
Patrycja19   
17 Apr 2007
USA, Canada / Shootings in America; over 30 people shot [52]

majoring in english, loner, undergraduate from korea, they are still gathering information on what/why. the first story I heard was he was argueing with his girlfriend.

but I havent heard any more since.
Patrycja19   
17 Apr 2007
USA, Canada / Shootings in America; over 30 people shot [52]

American citizen?

no he wasnt. thought I heard that on the news. not sure. oh they just said south
korean national.. student at the school. so no, not citizen.
Patrycja19   
17 Apr 2007
News / Do you think that Polish catholics resent the new German Pope? [108]

I hope you'll get to see something good . I rather see Tom and Jerry!

lol, never a day you dont make me smile dear brother :)

hey did anyone see my puppy picture me with my little boy :) the son I never had.. lol
Patrycja19   
17 Apr 2007
News / Do you think that Polish catholics resent the new German Pope? [108]

I'm just posing this question. Because of the anti-german sentiment. I appreciate there is a bitter history, but given Poland is such a |Christian nation, perhaps a more Christian approach to one old enemies would not go amiss.

Well, it wasnt because he was german, it was something else I sensed about him.
im not avid church goer, but I do pray, just something dont sit right.

and i am sorry, I would never judge, but I dont think he made a wise decision, by
knocking down another religion. this I wouldnt expect from a man who is the most
graceful and graced of this earth. so yeah, hesitant to fully trust, I would say so.

but, I will wait and see.
Patrycja19   
17 Apr 2007
USA, Canada / Shootings in America; over 30 people shot [52]

how do I plan to protect my family, with a squirt gun???

Larry, I can tell you since our familys lived here in the states, I have never seen a gun
in our home, never was there one for my grandfather, who came in 1901. nor on my
moms side of the family , none of my relatives aside from those who are in law
enforcement own guns.

none of my family that I know of ( know more then those distant cousins) own guns
either.

The only cousin who was shot, due to a gun, was one that, unfortunately was involved
in Drugs, and prob more, but it was wrong place situation.
that was quite a long time ago. no gun will enter my home, and my daughters will
not marry, or date a gun happy hunter, I will step in. they know, I teach them real
world issues. real life issues. I dont candy coat anything! this is life, this is how mom
did it. this is what to avoid, this is what happens! they understand and it should be
how things are. never hide anything, because it will be that same thing that causes
the most pain and I would rather scare the pants of my daughters then lose them
later on. GUNS + Carelessness - bad news. totally against them and also to boot
Im for the democrats. seen the congressman for illinios last night, he made some
sense, wish he was running for the pres.
Patrycja19   
16 Apr 2007
USA, Canada / Shootings in America; over 30 people shot [52]

Well,

I have something to say, this was long before I met my husband now.

I do know what your saying, but also what amathysts and everyone else is saying

my ex boyfriend held a gun to my head, we had broke up a short time, then
he begged me to come back, like a idiot I did, then he started asking questions
on who I was dating while i was not with him. it escalated, because I told him
to drop it, and he pulled his gun after I said I was leaving.

I never told my mom, dad, no one till later on. otherwise, especially my uncle
he would have went after him. it was the scariest moment of my life aside from
almost losing my daughter. which i would have never even had the chance to have
had I died that night.

I calmed him down, enough to pass out, he was a sick demented man.
and still to this day, because his family lives all over my area, i ocassionally
run into them, and they say hello, and tell me how he still uses drugs, alcolhol
etc, and you know what his guns were for? Hunting.. thats it, to shoot animals
which I couldnt stand him doing even when we werent fighting.

yes, thats my little story. I am lucky to be alive right now. I wish guns were melted
people snap like this guy did. and Over What?? well, he cant tell us now can he?
nor can his girfriend or the other 31 people he killed.

who were innocent. I am all for a huge meltdown!
People think they are to protect. but what good larry does it do you if you shoot
this guy in your home, you go to jail, the laws are backwards. this guy enters
your home, then what? you know, your supposed to exit the back door , if you have
one, if you dont, then you have just cause to shoot.

anyway, IMHO I think guns suck! so do all the idiots who kill with them
rot in hell is what they will do..
Patrycja19   
14 Apr 2007
News / Abortion - how is the Polish government going to deal with this issue? [273]

then the responsibilty falls to them

agree, I talk to my girls, both have had sex education, but I also talk with them about
it, like these type of incidences. the outcome.

Some parents dont take the time.

These were guys 18-24. You'd wonder where the hell their parents were.

I would wonder, 18-24 you would think they already took a dip in the pool :)