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regionpolski   
19 Jul 2007
Travel / I'm going to Poland in September! [33]

The wife and I are heading to Poland in September!! Any advice for a first time traveler? Do I have to change a certain amount of dollars to zloty? Can I use my American Express card in Poland?
regionpolski   
14 Jul 2007
Real Estate / Inheiriting property in Poland [7]

My wife's mother passed, and left my wife her condo. What type of court proceedings are necassary to complete the property transfer? Can any of the paperwork be done in the U.S., and will a lawyer be needed?
regionpolski   
11 Jul 2007
Life / Shipping or taking goods with you on the plane to Poland [10]

I sent a laptop computer to Poland last year. It was terribly expensive. I shipped it UPS, and of course I insured it. I was advised to insure it, and declare it, otherwise it would be stolen. The laptop was valued at $800. The shipping costs were over $250. I paid for three day delivery. I figured the less time it can sit around, the fewer opportunities there would be for theft. The laptop arrived on time, and intact. In retrospect, I should have just sent money, and the laptop could have been purchased in Poland. Of course, it wouldn't have been a surprise either.
regionpolski   
9 Jul 2007
Love / Polish-American dating success stories [41]

Does anybody know any success stories on dating american guy? Seriously, I've been here (Baltimore) for over 4 years and man, it sucks. I'm the typical polish gal: carrying, cooking, loving, etc....what the american guys expect here? What do they want in the relationship and is honesty and being opened the right way to go?

My wife has a success story to tell. But since this forum requires decent English, I'll provide the details. I'm an American of Polish ancestry. My wife is from Gdansk. She came here to work so that her daughter could get a college education. Having met a lot of Polish women through my wife, and of course as an American, here are a couple of generalizations.

Meet a man that's interested in your culture. He doesn't have to of Polish ancestry, but he should be interested in yours. It gives you something to talk about authoratively.

Don't be " typical " as you describe yourself. Many American men will want you as a surrogate mother, if your hobbies are cooking and cleaning. Worse, if the man is of Polish ancestry, he may compare you to his grandmother. Don't make the best pierogies he's ever eaten on the first date.
regionpolski   
8 Jul 2007
USA, Canada / American culture: [85]

Some people will say that Americans have little or no culture. I beg to differ. Some examples of American culture:

Texas BBQ
Stock Car Racing
Baseball
American Football
Fourth of July
Pioneer Spirit
The difficult can be done immediatly; the impossible will take a longer. America's can do spirit.
Cinema
Fast Food...which is world wide, but strangley enough no one eats it.
The Blues
Rock n Roll
Jazz

Expound, dispute, etc.
regionpolski   
4 Jul 2007
History / Communist Era in Poland: Some questions [28]

Geez Puzzler, you come off as a propaganda marketer for the Party. Really. My wife, and others her age have told the same story. I don't know your age, but if life was as good as you claim, why change from this Utopia? Did you wait in lines? Seriously? Wait in line for a several hours, only to learn that the store ran out of whatever it was you wanted. Or stand in line for a few hours, and then get replaced by a relative, because you couldn't wait several hours? Did you ever sew you own clothes? Really? Again, I don't know your age? Wait six months to buy a washing machine? Wait a year to buy a color TV? Go to purchase furniture and find an empty store? Did you depend on relatives living in America to send you money? You have a self-righteuos way of calling people liars, pal. If life wasn't a daily struggle, what was the impetus for change? A life of convienence after several years of struggle can be boring at times. Was there always plenty of sugar at the store when you showed up with your rationing card? How were the lines to get baby food? If the store opened at 8AM, what time were in line? Waiting in line is one Hell of a use of liesure time, right?
regionpolski   
4 Jul 2007
History / Communist Era in Poland: Some questions [28]

LOL my ass off!!!

My wife always tells me that on one channel ( 50% of the channels available ) Bonzanza was on.

I remember talking to an acquaintance several years ago, maybe 1992 or '93. we were discussing why Communism was failing. i was offering all of these " educated expanations , as I was just a couple of years out of college. My friend, a serb, put it in very simle terms. He said, " You can't buy a pair of ****ing blue jeans in any of those countries.
regionpolski   
4 Jul 2007
History / Communist Era in Poland: Some questions [28]

My wife doesn't miss the daily struggle...on a daily basis, at least. But when you grow up expending all of this energy into today and tomorrow, it's hard to replace that .............something. Sometimes I think my wife believes she's being lazy, because there's no crisis to be dealt with.
regionpolski   
4 Jul 2007
Food / Convenience foods [17]

I would send you some homemade pierogi from the deli
but dont know how to get them to you quick enough, so
come here in August and meet us for Taste of Polonia

Dry Ice. Meijer sells it by the pound. Aleksandra Foods has great pierogies. They're available throughout the city in freezer packs.

Visiting fo Taste of Polonia is a better idea.
regionpolski   
4 Jul 2007
Food / wiejska sausage - do you cook it / peel it? [22]

I'm fourth generation. I just figured Polish sausage was as authentic as it got. My wife, upon reading your post, now tells me about pork. I'm all for it.
regionpolski   
4 Jul 2007
Food / wiejska sausage - do you cook it / peel it? [22]

My wife makes white borscht. She puts fresh sausage in several soups. I love to just eat sausage sandwiches. Nothing says Sunday afternoon quite like the aroma of freshly baked sausage.
regionpolski   
4 Jul 2007
Food / wiejska sausage - do you cook it / peel it? [22]

Any smoked sausage doesn't have to be cooked, although cooking can bring out additional flavor. I cook weijska. I don't cook swojska. I never cook kabanos. I cook weiselna.
regionpolski   
4 Jul 2007
History / Communist Era in Poland: Some questions [28]

My wife grew up in Communist ERa Poland. Sometimes she will fondly reminince about the unique challenges those years presented. In clothing, the lack of choices put creativity in the hands of the purchaser. One size fits all was a challenge. With food, it was similiar. Potaoes, herring, cabbage and vinegar. Do something special tonight....again. Each day presented a challenge. She sometimes misses the daily struggle to get through til tomorrow. You were always busy. I'm curious, but does anyone else have similiar thoughts?
regionpolski   
29 Jun 2007
USA, Canada / The things Polish people do in the US [46]

People in the US don't like warm milk.

There are plenty of accuracies in that statement in regards to my wife. She doesn't understand why I don't try to barter. Everything is to be opened before purchasing, much to my embarrassment, and sometimes chagrin.

Here's one observation:
One-upmanship....Whatever you have, I will have something better. Not only is it better, but I paid less ( or bartered it ). This applies to cars, jobs ( work less, yet earn more ) housing, doctors, hardwood flooring, cellular phones, oriental rugs, satelite TV, homemade pierogies, dogs and cats, and anything else under the sun. There's always a better place to shop, that costs less and has better quality and service.
regionpolski   
13 Jun 2007
News / EU or America - which country is better to work now? [56]

I believe that well-educated Polish people can do very well in the States. Their English tends to be okay, and they can pick up American English fast enough. My interest in the topic is simple enough. For decades, the U.S. was THE destination for Poles seeking a better life. The result was/are vibrant Polish communities throughout the U.S. As the Polish economy continues to improve, and Polish workers have the EU as an option, will America hold the same allure it once held? Ultimately, the Polish communities might slowly fade away.
regionpolski   
13 Jun 2007
News / EU or America - which country is better to work now? [56]

I have a question, especially for the younger people, who probably make up the majority of this board. Is the United States considered a good place to work, now that Poland is in the EU? How many young Poles have seriously considered coming to the States, and staying, legally or illegally? Do you know people that have come to America, and stayed to work, or start a new life?
regionpolski   
29 May 2007
USA, Canada / My wife's US permenant residence card interview [15]

How long do you have to wait after you're married before you file the papers? Can you do it right away?

Krysia is absolutely correct. We filed our papers a bit more than a month after we married. The only reason it took so long was that my wife needed to get vaccinated.
regionpolski   
27 May 2007
USA, Canada / My wife's US permenant residence card interview [15]

Our paperwok was mailed out on February 16. It was recieved on February 22. Our interview was May 17. It was less than 90 days. I think 6-8 weeks is very optimistic, and probably unrealistic. My neighbor handled our paperwork, and she files several cases a year. She said the 90 days is as quick as she's seen it. Of course your situation may be diffeent from ours.

Just an FYI, my wife received her card in the mail today. It took 12 days from the interview.
regionpolski   
20 May 2007
USA, Canada / My wife's US permenant residence card interview [15]

I really would have enjoyed speaking with the official that conducted our interview. He was very engaging. I asked him how many cases he handled daily, he told me seven. He showed me the list, although I couldn't read any of the names, as if it would matter. I was tempted to ask him questions concerning fraud, but I certainly didn't want to subject ourselves to interrogations. I'm sure we had a few things going for us, that made the process faitly smooth. I'm 39 years old; this is my first marriage. I have no children. I've worked for the same company for 16 years. I earn decent money. I have a college degree. I've lived in the same house for several years. I'm essentially stable. I wasn't so sure about the our supporting eveidence, and went in believing I needed a lot more. We hold no property together. Her name isn't on any bills. She wasn't insured to drive, so I carried full coverage on my car. We had 20 pictures or so, over four years of life together. I thought we needed twice that.

I can't emphasize enough how great our translator Pola was. She was fantastic. If you are going to interview, bring an interpreter, unless your spouse is fluent in English. My wife was so relaxed, because she knew she didn't have to concentrate on every word, and then try to reply properly. My wife was able to explain, along with Pola, details about every photograph. I'm repeating myself, at this stage, but I'll be more than happy to tell anyone what I've learned from the experience.

Does the spouse automatically become the sponsor after they get married? I've been told the spouse has to have a good paying job or else they don't qualify. Is that true? What sort of proof is needed to show that someone is qualified to be a sponsor?

I submitted my tax records for the past three years, which was required in the application. I earn over $40,000 a year. You are required to bring in your last two months of paystubs, although I was not asked to show them.
regionpolski   
20 May 2007
USA, Canada / My wife's US permenant residence card interview [15]

The permanent residence card is the new Green Card. In three years, she can apply for citizenship, although her English improve signifigantly first.
regionpolski   
18 May 2007
USA, Canada / Amnesty for Illegal Immigrants in the US [7]

That's shame. It's taxation without representation. I seem to recall a war fought over this matter, but who the Hell learns from history, aside from historians.
regionpolski   
18 May 2007
USA, Canada / Amnesty for Illegal Immigrants in the US [7]

I don't know if President Bush can, but does anyone think he would pardon all illegal immigrants as his last act in office? If he can, I see a lot of anger from his supporters, but how many are left anyway? Would it draw minorities into the Republican party, a long goal of conservatives? Could he use as a humanitarian legacy, to attempt to contradict his war in Iraq? I do not have absolute answers to any of these questions, but I'm interested in the opinions of others. Here's my opinion. If he can, I will not be surprised one bit. He, and the Republican Party have nothing to lose.
regionpolski   
17 May 2007
USA, Canada / My wife's US permenant residence card interview [15]

This is a continuation of the thread I started in the Jobs Offered section regarding needing a translator on May 17.

We aced the interview. We didn't even have separate interviews. Our translator, a fellow Chicago White Sox fan originally from Krakow, was fantastic. We had never met prior to today, and I was only vaguely familiar with her from a White Sox message board. I contacted her out of the blue, and she was more than happy to translate for us. Here is a recap of the 30 minute interview.

We had an 8AM appointment, so we met at 7AM near the Immigration center on Congress. We got acquainted, and arrived at 7:45AM. Pola, our translator, had never worked an interview before, and instead of going over questions etc., we just shot the breeze. She put my wife at ease. At 8:15AM, officer Hamilton called us in. He is a very nice black gentleman. He swore Pola in, and then Jola ( my wife ) and myself. I was grateful to have Pola along, as my wife was unsure of herself, and Pola explained everything, so my wife had no unanswered questions. Officer Hamilton gathered our identification, and asked for a copy of the marriage liscence. He asked some general questions to verify identities, and verified my employment. I'm a beer man, so it we had some humor concerning beer drinking. During this time, my wife was pinting out imperfections of my face to Pola, while I was paying attention to Officer Hamilton. After reviewing our license, he asked for documentation of our marriage. We have been together almost four years. We had some pictures, some with dates, some without. Jola pointed out my mom, and info about her. I was filling out the G-385, ( which I had but could not find ), I was otherwise extremely well-organized. I also showed Officer Hamilton my Dish Network bills, which indicate that I pay for Polish TV. I handed over our insurance records, including all of our doctor visits. I also showed him that Jola is listed as the beneficiary on my life insurance policy. Between our chemistry, the documents, etc., it was enough. He gathered up our ID's, except for Jola's work permit ID. He said he was keeping that. At that time I knew her application was approved. In two weeks or so, my wife will recieve her permanant residence card. In three years we have to file one more form. We did not have separate interviews.

My recomendations are simple.
Love the person you are with.
Take pictures
If you can, get and use insurance ( easier said than done )
If you spouse isn't fluent, use a translator. especially if you are like me, and you lack patience at times.
Bring plenty of correspondence, going back as far as possible.
Do not attempt marriage fraud. These officers handle 35-40 cases per week. It's a waste of everyone's time and effort. I would imagine a dedicated officer can spot a fraud a mile away. Of course, I pray I never do this again, and pehaps Officer Hamilton is the exception and not the rule. It was not confrontational.

Another advantage of a translator is that they can lighten the mood.
That's all I have. A huge thank you to Pola, and to everyone on this board for suggestions, or just offering good luck.
regionpolski   
16 May 2007
News / The Polish Economy and its future [101]

How will Poland tackle an economic system viewed as terribly corrupt? How strong is the influence of gangsters in the economy? Will Poland stop the " brain drain " as its young, well educated populace leave for greener pastures? Will this exodus cause a decrease in the quality of teacher because the best and brightest are somewhere else? I agree that the current growth is great, but these questions can eat away at future growth, causing it to implode.