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From: Netherlands/Ireland, Dublin
Speaks Polish?: No, but I am trying to learn
Interests: Music

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MareGaea   
14 Feb 2008
UK, Ireland / Do Polish immigrants wish to stay in UK - long term? [92]

For me the transfer here meant a step backwards. Moneywise I just about levelled with what I got before; maybe a little bit more, but that does not equal the huge rise in costs of living. I didn't need to go here, had some personal reasons to accept the offer of transfer here and I am not going to stay here. My plans are eventually to go to the US or Canada (like four years ago a transfer within the same company - so I basically don't need to go through complex visa-procedures). Also I do have certain reservations towards the way the society has been organized. But that's just because I am from a very-well organized and advanced country. Personally I think that any move to any country in the world would mean a step backwards, behold a very few exceptions. I can understand that when you come from a poor country with basically no opportunities to get a decent job with a decent income, you go to places where there are chances. Alas, most of those ppl end up in some crappy job like convenient stores, waiting in bars, clubs or restaurants - grossly underpaid and exploited to the core (that is actually an issue that should be addressed publicly in Ireland and the UK). But in all, what they make there is actually more than they would've made home with a more educated job, but it just generally annoys me how the locals think they should treat the so-manieth Eastern-European girl/boy who picks up the glasses in a pub. However, the costs of living are just as high as they are for me - and they make much less than I do. So I wonder about that quick money. There is a percentage of them that lives with 12 ppl in a 3 bedroomed house, pays about a tenner per week for rent, eats at the pub where they work for free and sending 80 per cent of what they make to the homecountry. Sure. But I think the majority has spends most of the income in the country where they work.

And yes - you see a shift in migrationstreams happening. Ireland and the UK are no longer the main focalpoints of migration, mainly due to the high costs of living and the fact that the economy is going down (Ireland experiences the first downward movement of the economy since the ocurrence of the Celtic Tiger - most young ppl haven't got a clue what is happening to them as they simply don't have any experience with a good economy going down: Ireland has been at the bottom of the European economics Top40 for almost always. 15 years ago they suddenly rised to the first place. And that is what most young ppl over here only know: rise to the top. They simply never have experienced economy going down, which it always will do: the wave-movement, which all other economies of Europe know and have gotten used to).

M-G
MareGaea   
13 Feb 2008
Love / CONFUSING FRIENDSHIP? She doesn't want to go to Poland now. [30]

how your friend looks

Indeed James, that's a good one (darn, why didn't I think of that? hm, maybe because I don't care about looks) - in any case; if he is embarrassed towards his friends by her company, then she should just dump him as a friend as fast as a brick sinks to the bottom of the ocean; he's not worth the while...

M-G (...)
MareGaea   
13 Feb 2008
Life / Trance music (which i love!) seems pretty big in Poland??... [67]

When you make electronic music like I do, ppl nearly always assume you make danceable tunes. True, I do the odd danceable tune (I deliberately avoid to name any of the genres within dance as I have to confess I hardly can hear the difference anyway), but mainly my tunes are ones you can either play in a club (the lounge section or standing parties or something) or at home. Coming from the country with just about the most famous DJ's in the world (DJ Tiƫsto, Junky XL -he's from the same village as I am-, DJ Jurgen, and so on and so on) I am kind of sick to hear how great this music is. Call it oversaturation, but there are 3 guys that own a studio somewhere in Holland that produce all the commercial hardcore crap that is in the Top40 and it has been there for years. That is the kind of crap the 14 year old girls listen to on Disko-nights at school. They are multi-millionaires off their music, but I don't regard it as my country's greatest export-product, if you know what I mean.

M-G (went also to Ibiza and found that it was an overcommercialized and especially overrated pile of crapule - I mean, come on, 15 Euro for a lousy, small and dirty glass of warm beer? Didn't like the quality of most DJ's I saw either - I really didn't see any difference with an average DJ in a club in Ireland, the UK or Holland)
MareGaea   
12 Feb 2008
Love / BLACK GUYS POLISH WOMEN [809]

Is it wrong not to marry someone of your own race/nationality?

No, but race and/or nationality shouldn't matter - if you fall in love with someone it shouldn't make a difference where he/she is from...

M-G
MareGaea   
12 Feb 2008
Love / BLACK GUYS POLISH WOMEN [809]

So you've been teased as a kid. Who cares. I was teased because I wore glasses in school and generally was smarter than the other kids (I was born and raised in a rural area of Holland, the kids I went to school with were generally farmer's kids - nothing wrong with that, but most of them were at the tender age of 12 already destined to follow up their parents on the farm, hence talked like that), hell, even the teacher hated me for that -how can a teacher hate a 12 year old boy? But do I go around bashing ppl with glasses, children who are smarter than others and teachers up? No. I've grown over it and after the fifth or sixth time they had taken off my glasses and smashed them on the ground I decided to hit back. And I hit back hard: they never did anything to bully me again. So, I would say, just grow over it and accept who you are. Nothing more, nothing less. Like I did. And after all, I ended up with a much better job than they did :)

As far as the race-issue you're mentioning is concerned, do you realise that this is a very dangerous thing to say?

M-G (we are one family in one global village on just one tiny ball; there is no room for hatred and seperation - but that's just my opinion)
MareGaea   
12 Feb 2008
Love / BLACK GUYS POLISH WOMEN [809]

that wasn't rude, it was direct;)

Some ppl consider that rude :)

Anyway, so you've seen my MySpace page...Hope you like my tunes :)

And Shelley, I know it's just words and I am not angry or so - just don't like the expression and I wanted to state that.

M-G
MareGaea   
12 Feb 2008
Love / BLACK GUYS POLISH WOMEN [809]

I had to read him when I was in college...

the quickest marriage offer to date

Well, I'm Dutch, the rudest ppl in the world - we don't like to beat around the bush :)

And Wyspi, I wouldn't dare :)

M-G
MareGaea   
12 Feb 2008
Love / BLACK GUYS POLISH WOMEN [809]

Malthus

Wow, Malthus? Miranda, are you married? If not, marry me :)

M-G (genuinely impressed)
MareGaea   
12 Feb 2008
Love / BLACK GUYS POLISH WOMEN [809]

keeping a race pure

Don't like the expression "pure race"
MareGaea   
10 Feb 2008
UK, Ireland / Some EXAMPLES of salaries of Poles working and living in the UK. [49]

British people consider it vulgar to discuss earnings

Not only the British, the Dutch as well. When I was in the US for the first time I was actually kind of appalled when somebody asked me directly how much money I was making. That's a private thing, you don't talk about it.
MareGaea   
9 Feb 2008
News / The most useless things in Poland [140]

i have a problem with my computer it is extremely slow at the moment the baud rate of it is unbelievavle i was trying to see your myspace site but even the first quater of the page took five minutes. is it your band or something?

Yep, although I am basically a solo artist who collaborates with others every now and then - I am thinking of getting a second member to do the parts I feel are not my strongest point - but I'm doing pretty well; just finished a new tune which should be able to do something as it's catchy, danceable and just has a pleasant feel over it. Every now and then I wander a bit off of the TripHop path...

M-G (by the way, to avoid any confusion; I am not that Flying Dutchman...I was just taking a shower, hence the delay in reaction)
MareGaea   
9 Feb 2008
News / The most useless things in Poland [140]

...Or just killing time as they have to wait for something and everything that needed to be done has already been done...

M-G
MareGaea   
9 Feb 2008
News / The most useless things in Poland [140]

The guy that does ALL the voice overs on foreign films! male or female - how do you put up with it?

I saw that once in some American movie - it was hilarious :)

M-G
MareGaea   
9 Feb 2008
Love / Polish ladies seem to be in high demand at the moment. [105]

I can. Obvioulsy she's stupid which means you two fits to each other perfectly

Yes I am stupid, you're damn right, but, with the general greed of women it's so easy for even somebody like me to take advantage of that :) If you read well, you would've known that I already broke up with her long time ago. Don't want any golddigger, they are so easy - and when I'm bored, I just take advantage of 'em :) Or do they really think I don't know what they're after?

M-G (starts to understand why Wypsi is being slagged frequently)
MareGaea   
9 Feb 2008
Love / Polish ladies seem to be in high demand at the moment. [105]

Hm, a year and a half ago I started to date this Polish girl. Well educated, good looks and so on...But after the first (dinner-)date she started to cancel follow-up dates with various excuses; didn't answer my texts and all...After 3 cancellations I just had enough of it -apparently she wasn't that interested and I didn't want to wast any more time and money. So the next time we agreed to date I cancelled the date myself with some lousy excuse. It was like a metamorphosis: she started calling me and texting me if I wanted to date her and after a week or so, I gave in and dated her. I dated her for a few months, and she was very clutching - telling me all the time how much she loved me and that she's missing me when I'm gone...I was very surprised to see that just one cancellation on my part brought forward such a complete change in attitude...But then again, who knows what goes on in a woman's mind. Can any of the female population here enlighten this a bit?

M-G (has broken up with this particular girl a long time ago already because she turned later on into some sort of jealous Godzilla)

PS: None of the other (non-Polish) girls I dated were like that.
MareGaea   
7 Feb 2008
UK, Ireland / Poles in Ireland, are they second class citizens? [90]

wrong,they are fresian...eikel.

Isthatu, if you refer to Frisian, well, then you obviously don't know what you're talking about, klootzak :) Frisians are always bragging that all the Dutch words are original from them, but how can this be if Frisian is a complete different language...They even stem from a different language...

lmao...

Kissing off to ppl who posted tenthousand times on fora does not impress me, neither does flaming.

and thats just the women.......

Ok, let me tell you what in continental Europe the general opinion is about Brits abroad (and I heard this more than once -stereotype, I know, and I don't mean to diminish any good-willing visitor from the UK, but just ask any publican in Amsterdam or in Paris or Berlin, Dublin or wherever): the women are mostly too drunk to stand on their own two feet at around midnight, screaming their head off and the men are loud shouting and singing with a nice dark-purple tan of too much sun on their shaved head, wearing usually a lightblue football shirt wich covers their beerbellies for a little more than 3 quarters. And when they talk, all four chins move at the same time, miraculously :) Brits abroad are not really that well-liked, if they get some sympathy, then it's only because they are good for making money off -after midnight they are too drunk to tell the difference between 5 and 20 Euro bills anyway: huh? ah well, they both are green, so they must have the same value...eehj Maik, you goh anodder one of those notes for mej? It's no enuff :)

better than frikkin FEBO...yikes ugh.

As far as FEBO is concerned: I don't like that place either, but at least there is a little more variation there than just Fish and Chips and Chips and Fish and bread and Chips and Sausage and Chips and Chips and Sausage drowned in at least two liters of malt-vinegar, which you smell about 10 miles away. Proper British :)

M-G (Britannia rules the waves -lmao)

PS:

Again, boys and girls, this was the last post I am going to spend on this subject. After all, I came here not to play around with the British; I came here to grasp something of the Polish culture, language and habits. Therefore, I bid you all goodnight again and sleep tight and don't dream nasty dreams about evil MareGaea, because we all have to live on it anyway :)

M-G (Mother Earth)
MareGaea   
7 Feb 2008
UK, Ireland / Poles in Ireland, are they second class citizens? [90]

Yes Im proud to live here and it seems to attract a lot of people from around the world, maybe its because of our superior language, I mean who the fek wants to learn Dutch...doh!

I am still amazed that you are able to write, Shelly :)

I know the Irish women have bad taste in men, but I have only French, Italian, Spanish, Polish and BRITISH (LOL) woman around me :)

Tell me, oh Shelly, light of my life, what superior invention on the field of higher cuisine has the British Kitchen brought forward lately, besides the famous Breakfast?

And what's for dinner tonight, Shelly? What you're going to cook for your hubby? Is it going to be roastbeef again or a hop-over to the chipper for some good old Fish-n-Chips?

And as for my appearances: I couldn't care less, but I always make sure to dress up nice and be well groomed, but like said, I couldn't care less.

I know you meant the Dutch, but what about British women, being the ugliest in the world? Hm?

Well Shelly, it's time to prepare a good and decent meal for hubby when he gets home, so you better start cooking :)

Deise: I did not say I was running my own company, I just run a few international teams for the company I work for, but they are still my boys and girls :) I indeed noticed a slowdown as the volume of Irish calls is lowering since a few months indeed - hopefully not, but most likely to a point, somewhere in May or June, where we have to let a few go, even though I would hate that. And I lived in some lesser areas of Dublin before Ballsbridge: Blanchardstown and so on - it was there when I heard it said...

M-G (gets the feeling that Shelly once has been dumped very nasty by a Dutchman)

Well boys and girls, it was a pleasure talking to you all. I'm gonna go home and indulge myself in perhaps a few pints or so. There are no hard feelings on this side, in fact I am going to Britain in a fortnight :) It was good entertainment on a quiet day :) And Shelly, not all Dutch men are dorks; there are Dutchmen who are actually gentlemen and pay for the lady - in fact, I usually do :) So, I wish you all a pleasant evening and until the next time: don't drink too much, you'll only get drunk off it! :)

M-G (Ad Salutem)
MareGaea   
7 Feb 2008
UK, Ireland / Poles in Ireland, are they second class citizens? [90]

and there was me thinking all the dutch had given the word was alcohol induced bravery, splitting the bill with your mrs and nonsensical gobbledigook... oh yes, and loads of drugs and porn...

We gave the world Mushrooms too :) And don't forget "Reservoir Dog's"- Theme Song
If the missus earns just as much as you do, there is no reason why she shouldn't pay half. Normal :)

M-G
MareGaea   
7 Feb 2008
UK, Ireland / Poles in Ireland, are they second class citizens? [90]

Certainly, the brits, in contrary to the poles, know how to take a constructive criticism. :)

Hm, guess the British are too busy critizing themselves that they do not allow anybody else to do so :)

M-G
MareGaea   
7 Feb 2008
UK, Ireland / Poles in Ireland, are they second class citizens? [90]

What Britain used to be was actually the follow-up of what the Netherlands were before them. Fact (according to Wallerstein): There are only 3 countries in the world to obtain complete hegemony in the world's history (in historical order): 1. Holland (1600-1700) 2. Britain (1700-1800 + 1850 - 1914) 3. the United States (1914 - now). The fact that the Netherlands were the first Republic in the world (although a kingdom again now), founded New York, discovered Australia, New Zealand, created YOUR Santa Claus; the fact that the Dutch revolution of 1787 served as a blueprint for the French Revolution in 1789, the Dutch constitution served as a template for the American constitution, the fact that most 'loan-words' you have in English are actually Dutch in origin, the fact that the first ever corporation in the world was a Dutch one, the fact that nearly all the flags in Eastern Europe as well as the French and the Italian ones and many others in the world are derived from the Dutch tri-color, which is by the way the oldest in the world, the fact that we carried out many wars against you British and won a few, the invention of the microscope are just a couple of facts in which shows that you don't have to be Great Britain to have an impact on the world.

I would definitively would not say that the Netherlands are a never-been - learn your history a little bit better

I do speak with my normal accent, only the perceivers are confused wether it is an American accent or not - I don't talk like that on purpose; I have some relatives in the US, and it's the only English I learned when I was young. So it definitively not phoney. However, what is phoney are your responses - just simply b*tching, and definitively in your last answer wrongly. I know you are proud to be British (proper British), just as I am proud to be Dutch. But you British are lazy as it comes to languages - you expect everybody that comes in to speak your language (which is normal, though), but you also expect everywhere you go that everybody speaks your language too! You're worse than the Germans as they sometimes try... I speak 5/6 languages - and you? And one last remark: I speak better English than a lot of Irish (and British ppl for that matter) I know :)

Deise: hey, I am not trolling, I haven't used any bad language towards my discussion partners - just try to get my point across. Besides that, I have said many times that I don't mind Ireland - I do not hate it (only the weather:) ). If you would like to call that trolling, go ahead. I just wonder what you would call the reactions then? Gallant answers? I live in Dublin, indeed, in Ballsbridge to be precise. And I am good to my ppl as I am good in what I do. Even this goes on about Britain, I do not hate Britain, I just hate their attitude towards Europe (and with me many continental Europeans do so). Or am I not allowed to critize? I pay taxes just like you and spend all my money in Ireland, so I contribute to the wellbeing of the Irish economy. If I would hate the country, I would send most of my earnings to Holland or where ever, then it will leave the country never to be of any use for the Irish Economy anymore. See what I mean?

M-G
MareGaea   
7 Feb 2008
Life / Must See Movies in Polish? [65]

Thanks, amacfx! I will have a look at the list - indeed, I saw "a short film..." quite some time ago - great movie! Any more suggestions are welcome, thanks again!

M-G
MareGaea   
7 Feb 2008
UK, Ireland / Poles in Ireland, are they second class citizens? [90]

Shelly, you are on break from the registry? Identity? What Identity? As 51st state of America? Hm. Or are you still pondering on how big you USED to be? Well, wake up: the UK is just an island off the European coast and although it wants it wants so very badly not to, it's just a has-been: the real decisions are being made in Brussels and Washington and nowhere else. Hell, even Ireland is richer than the UK. Anyway, that we might have the ugliest men in the world (the Germans that is, thank god I am Dutch, 6 ft 2 and according to the females in my surroundings not too bad at all), the UK have the most ugliest females in the world, so there is a match I guess :) Rank food? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA no, throwing everything in ****** old fat and drowning everything in vinegar and this hideous brown sauce - that's quality cuisine... And well, I have to agree about the shoes and stuff - but then again; to me the only function of shoes is to protect my feet from asfalt and rubbish and water, so I basically couldn't care less. Now, go back to your pots and pans.

Bubba enlighten this completely unrealistic calculation - even the EU HQ have admitted that the Netherlands, together with Germany and Sweden pay the most per head - the top 3 payers.

M-G

Btw, I read somewhere that some major industrials have made it clear to the government of the UK that if they will not switch to the Euro, they will withdraw their industries from the island. So I guess, they will have to adjust - welcome to the 21st century. Just wish I could remember where I read this - was it Der Spiegel, maybe?

M-G (by the way, it is a general -continental-European opinion, not only a Dutch one, whereas my remarks about the UK are concerned)
MareGaea   
7 Feb 2008
UK, Ireland / Poles in Ireland, are they second class citizens? [90]

Nothing hard there: Contributions - Expenditures / Population. I did not calculate the Expenditures as a seperate entity as this is being counterbalanced by the contributions.

M-G (Still busy and still thinking that if the UK thinks they are so fabulous, maybe they should try it outside the EU - see how long they last: I think you can sit and wait for it)
MareGaea   
7 Feb 2008
UK, Ireland / Poles in Ireland, are they second class citizens? [90]

It's not a matter of absolute numbers; Britain is much bigger, not only in landmass, but also in population than the Netherlands are, therefore, of course, they going to pay more in absolute figures. Fact however is when you take this in consideration when a population of 60.7 million put against a population of 16.4 and taking also in consideration that the contribution per capitae in Britain is (with 13 739 900 046) 226.35 (give or take) against 338.59 per capitae in the Netherlands with 5 552 933 781 contribution, which is in my book 112 Euro more. Furthermore the Expenditure of Britain is 8 294 200 000 against 2 190 400 000 for the Netherlands. This leaves a total expense for the UK of 5445700046 against 3362533781 for the Netherlands. In other words, the EU costs the UK per saldo 89.71 (give or take) per capitae whereas it costs the Netherlands 205.03 (give or take) per capitae, which is nearly 3 times as much. So, based on the relative facts, Holland pays more than Britain. The rebate is taken into consideration, also the fact that the rebate will be lowered as of this year or next year will increase the proportion to be payed by the UK. Consider all this when the UK has a population of nearly 4 times as big as the Netherlands and tell me, which is the biggest contributor?

I'm gonna get back to you on the other parts, but I have some work to do which requires my attention right now.

M-G

*) figures are based on the same Wikipedia source you used.